Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

ok, i just got a new bf, and my x found out. so now he's like "i want you. will you be w/ me again?" he follows me to class, waits at the door, became possesive and is skipping class to make sure none of my guyfriends (almost every guy in school) doesnt hang out with me. i do like him, but i just got over him (or at least i' trying to)

2006-11-09 14:36:54 · 7 answers · asked by R ♥ I ♥ P ♥ Casey Calvert 3 in Singles & Dating

what's the deal, either she's gonna go to bed with you or not, why lie to her?

2006-11-09 14:36:51 · 17 answers · asked by carebear6835 1 in Singles & Dating

I remember a time, just a few yrs ago, talking to girls was easier, there wasn't so much emphasis on sexual abuse , rape, touching , what ever u call it, now its out of hand, if u look at a hot chick these days, people think ur a perv.. jeezzz. ive been thinking about this, and i can't get my head around it, why they were these sexy clothes, they make a man go all silly, and then when u get a attention its like ur being abused, for example, some guy would see a hot chick, n yell " HEY SEXY ", the women would go " go get ****** " ... were giving u good comments and u shove it back in our face.. why all u girls dating really queer looking guys with no guts.?

2006-11-09 14:36:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i been sort of going out about 6 mths with this man (he is widowed- about 10yrs)
nice guy, not bad looking .. what more can u ask for ..
the thing bothering me is that
we had dinner one day when i donoe he just blurted out and i still remember it clearly.
he said, " i can't believe i found her in you."
i only understood when he showed me his dead wife pic. i nearly chocked on my drink .
we look somewhat similar. the resemblance was much .. and he even said we behave almost alike..
the only difference was we are of different race...

should i get away from him before he actually turn me into his dead wife..??
but he is like the only man that i dated that has the potential as a great husband..
what should i do ?help

2006-11-09 14:35:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are there any ways out there to make him kinda lyk me?

2006-11-09 14:35:36 · 2 answers · asked by lucy xD 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I broke up a year ago when I got pregnant. He really is a jerk in a nutshell, but I still miss and love him so much. We rarely talk and if we do its on yahoo i/m and he messages me. We dont even have each other's phone number! He asks about the baby and we just chat about things in general. I dont want to seem desperate and message him first, so I never do. I see that he is online right now and I really want to have a real conversation about where we are and to let out some feelings..Should I contact him?

2006-11-09 14:35:08 · 22 answers · asked by confused346 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 14:34:39 · 7 answers · asked by amon h 1 in Family

I don't know, but for some reason I'm just drawn to this person, I think he's the ugliest person ever, His eyes are beaty he has this gross bump on his cheek, his teeth are oversized, he's really dorky too but I find him cute at the same time.

It's so ridiculous and it's definitely driving my crazy.

2006-11-09 14:33:29 · 19 answers · asked by Great. 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 14:33:09 · 26 answers · asked by mssgtmidnight 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in the mood. What are some signs you give to your man.

2006-11-09 14:32:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is no one out there who wants to love me and all the others are either taken or cheating i hate that i have no one to talk to or to love this is a lonely life

2006-11-09 14:32:14 · 6 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Singles & Dating

A guy at my school was all rude and mean to me yesterday and today he was real sweet and offeres me some tootsie rolls (my fav candy!) and I just don't understand. Help!

2006-11-09 14:31:52 · 15 answers · asked by MRS. EFRON ♥ zac 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend misty is getting married, and we want ideas for her wedding.
anybody good at wedding ideas?

2006-11-09 14:30:53 · 9 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Weddings

2006-11-09 14:30:33 · 11 answers · asked by Necole3 1 in Weddings

I'm a college freshman, and I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. Im going through alot of stress right now because Im not making any friends, and the transition to college is really tough. My boyfriend has always been my bestfriend, someone I can talk to about anything. Of course I have a roommate but I just recently overheard her talking to her boyfriend about how she hates me talking to her about my relationship issues, which really hurt because I thought it was okay. She kept refering to me as a "*****". So now the only friend that I thought I had on campus, really isnt. I call my boyfriend every chance I get, and it just always seems like the conversation is "Hey, how are you? Im good. Ok, Love ya, talk to you later"...he says that he doesnt mean to do that and he knows what Im going through right now. I just feel alone, and I thought that the one companion I had would be considerate. What should I do?

2006-11-09 14:29:58 · 4 answers · asked by YupYup 2 in Singles & Dating

would u be with her for 2-3 years with no sex then get married for it ?

would u cheat behind her back to have sex?

just wondering

2006-11-09 14:29:36 · 19 answers · asked by curlyqt1986 2 in Singles & Dating

So there's this girl I have in a class that I'm acquainted with. I can sometimes catch her looking towards me out of the corner of my eye, and we usually talk about halfway to our next classes after that.

I've talked to her a bit online and her cousin is a pretty good friend of mine. Now, I don't want to talk to her cousin about how to approach her in fear of his reaction.

She's really shy and there's a little gap between our ages and I don't know how to confront her with my feelings or that I'd like to have a shot at getting to know her a bit better.

Another problem is that I have no car and don't know where to take her if we do go on a date. We live in a pretty urban enviornment with nothing really in walking distance of most of the houses/appartments.

Also, if I happen to have my father/her father drive us should I sit beside her in the back seat (sedan) or would that be awkward for her? Only other circumstance would be with her father driving and myself forcefully in back

2006-11-09 14:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Zurai 2 in Singles & Dating

a song,a joke,anything.

2006-11-09 14:27:22 · 29 answers · asked by learnalot10_girl 1 in Friends

the men in white coats have come to drag me back to the asylum for a 24 hour stay?...(now you all know where i really get my questions from,lol)...;0) last question of the day and im just feeling egotistical enough to ask it,lol....

2006-11-09 14:27:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

=] well me and my best friend sara have become really good friends with this other girl lizzie. so we're pretty much known as a 3-some at school. well...recently lizzie and sara have become better friends..so it's just like i'm dangeling along, while they're the main deal. and currently sara's #2 on lizzie's myspace, while i'm #6. =[ and i know i sound SO freshman..comparing my friendship to a myspace top 8...but i seriously feel like me and sara are competing to be lizzie's best friend =P any advice?

2006-11-09 14:26:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have had some fascinating demonstrations occur over many years now that have proved for me concusively that psychic and para-psychic type facilities are ever more present when dealing with members of the opposite sex.

Anyone else have whom suspects or knows they possess "gifts" or abilities in this type of field is most welcomed to make suggestions as to why this might be the case.

I suggest that this phenomena for me anyways might be refelective of the duality of the brain, right/wrong belief systems external VS internal penetration of the body and mind.

2006-11-09 14:25:56 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 14:24:57 · 21 answers · asked by Don T 1 in Family

So I was looking at a magazine today. All the successful men in it have "and his wife ___ and his children ___ and ___." No man seems able to "make it big" without finding a wife first. Even Jon Stewart and Stephen Colbert have wives (and they look like clones of each other). Yet, if you look at successful women, it seems like we have to stay alone in order to make it. This makes me think maybe men sponge and siphon energy off the wives in order to become successful. Successful women would it seems be dragged down by a man in their lives. Men just seem to get boosts from having us in theirs. So what do YOU think? Why can't men get ahead in life without a woman to feed off of? Is it better for women to be alone to make it? I'm not being sarcastic or manhating. I just want to know why men have got to have us and why this is.

2006-11-09 14:24:57 · 24 answers · asked by Heather M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I hate when my ex takes my kids for his visitations, I end up sitting at home waiting for them to come home again! I have no new partner in my life, and my friends are all married - I feel like a bit of a charity case if I go visit them all the time! I have very little money, so can't afford to go spoil myself with hair treatments or shopping etc, but hate it that I count down the time the kids are away from me. I have not been a single mum for all that long, maybe it gets easier with time?

2006-11-09 14:24:51 · 9 answers · asked by mudgeemum 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok when we were goin out for a week when we frist kissed and we kissed alot that weekend and today we went to the movies and i used my tounge and she liked it we made out for most of the movie were 13 but plzz dont say we dont cause we do rely love each other and ive grabbed her butt and she didnt say anythin and today i put my hand and her leg and slowly moved it up her leg to see what she would say and i moved my hand all the way up to the top of her thigh and she didnt say anythin we just kept makein out so wat should my next move be and when should i do it??

2006-11-09 14:24:29 · 9 answers · asked by monkeybutt3511 1 in Singles & Dating

i just broke up with my boyfriend and we have been going out for 6 months, one boy likes meand wants to ask me out and he is really cute, and another boy likes me and wants to ask me out and he is also really cute? What should i do?

2006-11-09 14:23:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does it mean he doesn't like you at all or he likes u little or he likes u but doesnt want to tell u.

2006-11-09 14:23:43 · 8 answers · asked by gousa1991 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-09 14:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by jamie anne 1 in Singles & Dating

stop it but one girl ended up with a bloody nose, I have a black eye and my friend has nasty bruises on the side of her face. We all agreed not to tell anyone and acted like nothing happened for the rest of the day, but I'm worried if this girl has a broken nose she's going to tell someone and we'll all get into trouble. Should I just tell my mom or the principal at school?

2006-11-09 14:22:50 · 8 answers · asked by Angry 1 in Friends

wife and I have 2 children.Baby and 5 yr old.I love them dearly but walked out 2 days ago after wife told me some unwelcome truths but in a very provocative and insulting way.I am probably suffering deppression. Have had dozens of professional setbacks and deaths in my adult life.Not to mention my Childhood.However I do realise I am far luckier than many.. Have only talked to a proffesional once on the phone and he believes I need a course of cognitive treatment whatever that is. I have never hit my (even though she seems to be provoking me to do so)wife but have thrown objects such as picture frames onto the floor etc. The night I left I was extremily negative. My wife does not want to accompany me to Italy where I own land and could build on it.She says she will stay here and work and she doesnt need me. She hasnt apologised to me or tried to contact me since I left.. I love the kids.What can I do??

2006-11-09 14:22:10 · 20 answers · asked by blackjack 1 in Marriage & Divorce