would u be with her for 2-3 years with no sex then get married for it ?
would u cheat behind her back to have sex?
just wondering
2006-11-09 14:29:36 · 19 answers · asked by curlyqt1986 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well till marriage no sex
and after marriage of course sex
just wondering what u guys think
2006-11-09 14:33:17 · update #1
well i havent had sex im going to wait till marriage but just wondering if there were nice guys out there that would wait
2006-11-09 14:35:37 · update #2
sex is for the honeymoon if u ask me
whats so good about having a honeymoon if u already had sex
theres no excitment
2006-11-09 16:24:14 · update #3
3 years with no sex . . ? um . .no . . .
2006-11-09 14:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex after marriage? I'm all for [lots of] it! Seriously though...
Kudos on making the decision to wait until marriage. The research is clear that the people who do NOT engage in pre-marital sex are significantly more likely to have a successful marriage. They are also far less likely to engage in extra-marital affairs.
So ask yourself whether you're willing to jeopardize your dream of a happy marriage and intact family... for some temporary sex. While you're at it, don't forget all the joys that come with sex outside of a marriage... the risk of STDs, pregnancy, lies...
We've turned sex from a gift to a selfish pursuit. It's a shame.
As an aside, did you know that the profile of the person MOST likely to cheat is not a guy? It's actually a woman who had sex before marriage! Guys are actually very loyal when in a marriage where there needs are being met (sex, respect and understanding/acceptance being the biggies).
A guy who cares for you will wait. A guy who would dump you because you didn't put out... do you want him?
You also asked if I would get married for sex. Heck no. What a terrible reason. Yet there are women who will use sex as "bait". That's manipulation and no basis for a good relationship.
Some women USE sex in their marriage to get their way or to punish their husband. That's another terrible idea. Each spouse should make themselves available to the other... and that should in turn be treated with respect by their partner. This shouldn't create any problems because true love always puts the other person first. Sadly, most people don't know what love really is. Pick up a Bible and study Corinthians.
Best Regards,
Rob
2006-11-09 16:20:03 · answer #2 · answered by Rob VH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
26% of men and 40% of women say that it is "Not OK" to have sex before marriage. This means that you are in a minority, whether a man or a woman, to say that sex is only to be after marriage if you are in the US. About 3 in 4 men that you meet think it's OK to have sex before marriage, and about 4 in 4 men want to have sex. This means that you have a 1 in 4 chance of finding a man who is going to go along smoothly with the idea of waiting for marriage to have sex. (Of course, that doesn't mean the rest will cheat--maybe they will just get frustrated and leave!) Perhaps you can network through a church or other conservative organization to find a man who also believes strongly in waiting for marriage to have sex. Good luck.
2006-11-09 14:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by Peter Kirby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would cheat until she's ready to give me sex. I can't wait 2 to 3 years for some sex. If I were in that situation I wouldn't even get married to the female. No female is worth waiting 2 or 3 years for sex. Hell no. Actually no, I wouldn't cheat I'd leave her because I wouldn't wait that long.
2006-11-09 14:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my honest opinion is that if you are like 18 or older and havent had sex yet i think that you should wait a lil longer for marriage. i would never cheat to have sex and yes i would wait how ever long until both of us were comfortable
2006-11-09 14:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by badboyjr3172006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woooahhh...there'll be cobwebs around the inner thighs area....hahahahahha....
I guess it's fine to have sex after marriage. It shows the devotion n patience in the relationship. If the guy cheats....then u know what to do. Wth dun give a **** to those guys who will say that they will cheat. If a man truly loves you....he will wait.
Fairytales do exist
2006-11-09 14:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Ms B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband would never cheat on me just for sex, and if we didn't have sex for 2 or 3 years I know he'd still be with me, because he loves me for who I am. I'm lucky to have a husband like him.
2006-11-09 14:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is best to wait untill marriage for sex. If he cheats when you are just engaged, then don't marry him!
2006-11-09 14:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I beleive it's allright. It shows commitment in this age when marriage failures are commonplace. Ironically marriages have gotten worse since the acceptance of fornication in todays society.
2006-11-09 14:33:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmmm....to be honest, most guys are not going to wait. They will be getting it from somewhere. Also FYI...most guys will not consider it cheating because most guys don't consider it a "relationship" until there is sex.
2006-11-09 14:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by bigbadwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean theres sex after marriage?? ;)
2006-11-09 14:31:37 · answer #11 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋