I'm a college freshman, and I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. Im going through alot of stress right now because Im not making any friends, and the transition to college is really tough. My boyfriend has always been my bestfriend, someone I can talk to about anything. Of course I have a roommate but I just recently overheard her talking to her boyfriend about how she hates me talking to her about my relationship issues, which really hurt because I thought it was okay. She kept refering to me as a "*****". So now the only friend that I thought I had on campus, really isnt. I call my boyfriend every chance I get, and it just always seems like the conversation is "Hey, how are you? Im good. Ok, Love ya, talk to you later"...he says that he doesnt mean to do that and he knows what Im going through right now. I just feel alone, and I thought that the one companion I had would be considerate. What should I do?
2006-11-09 14:29:58 · 4 answers · asked by YupYup 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He even avoids conversations with me when he's around his friends, and Im left to get off the phone in tears because it feels as if his friends are more important, even though he says their not. But I just dont think he cares because he has his own problems. Problems that he tells me he has, but doesnt share with me. Please help!
2006-11-09 14:32:47 · update #1
You need to find some new girl friends. Since you are in school and will soon be in a new semester find some new people to hang around with. You sound really needy and sometimes this can be too difficult for one person to handle. You are relying on your boyfriend to make you happy when this is something that you can only do for yourself. Find a part time job, join a club do something but find some new friends.
2006-11-09 14:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are stressing way to much. You are in college these are supposed to be the best years. Tell your room mate you are sorry for needing her to lend you her ear. As for the so called boyfriend and yes I said so called because if he was a true boyfriend and he really was sincere as he claims to be then he wouldn't have such a short conversation when it comes to comforting you. My suggestion to you is in your spare time get out and try meeting new people around the campus and while your at it you might want to add find a new man to your to do list.
You will be surprised at how quickly your world turns right side up again.
2006-11-09 22:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by H Town Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your roommate about what you heard and how you feel .. see how she responds ..
consider finding a new roommate
try to make more friends with people in your classes . . .
2006-11-09 22:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answering only the main question
No, no one here can give u relationship advice. Getting advice is why they are here.
2006-11-09 22:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by coolpotatoeslive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋