Have you ever liked someone that you didn't find attractive?

Question

I don't know, but for some reason I'm just drawn to this person, I think he's the ugliest person ever, His eyes are beaty he has this gross bump on his cheek, his teeth are oversized, he's really dorky too but I find him cute at the same time.

It's so ridiculous and it's definitely driving my crazy.

Sorry, Chance, but it's not my fault if you didn't land the girl of your dreams because of your imperfections, ***.

Answer 1

If you find him sexy and ugly at the same time, look i between those reaction. Ever heard of the ugly duckling? Most people see the outside of someone and say, " (S)he is not attractive, I will move on." But what if that person was the very best of what you were looking for? A soul and heart that will beat and care for you till the end of time. You will never know. Most "Handsome" guys think that they are all that.... and they will think that way, and look at the woman they are dating and see that, i look better than her and i can do better. Someone like this person that you are drawn to might be better than you "See"... Be friends first, if there is truly something you dont like, hey after all, you made a friend that one day you can cry on their shoulder or even talk to you about your problems.

Answer 2

I know what your going threw right now because I am seeing a man that is very large, and isn't very attractive at all. I am crazy about him and I think it's because I feel like I can be totally myself with him and he won't judge me if I look dorky that day or just don't want to put make up on or whatever. It's a nice feeling to be able to be myself.
Beauty is skin deep and no matter what others may think of him it's all about your happiness.

Answer 3

What's wrong with loving someone for who they are on the inside? Absolutely nothing. Society has pushed us into a superficial world, but we so often forget that looks can fade and change. Go with the flow, don't be shallow. He might be one of the best people you ever get to know.

Answer 4

This isn't as unusual as you might think.
There must be something else that draws you to him. What kind of personality does he have? Is it possible that you've learned to look beyond outward appearance & see the real person?
Myself, I've sometimes been drawn to women who weren't considered physically attractive, but who had a nice personality & a very sweet nature.

Answer 5

Sometimes beauty comes from within.

When you turn out the lights you can't see the outer self only the inner person.

Also, remember that some of the most powerful men in the world are ugly and they have the most georgous wives - money talks!

Answer 6

That's because women are stupid.

No, but seriously, women are more attracted to things such as confidence and personality than men whom are primarily driven by physical appearance. Certainly there are some exceptions to the rule but you are more likely the rule than the exception.

Answer 7

Your story kind of reminds me of that last scene in the movie "Shallow Hal", where he tries to pick her up for about 30 seconds that seems like an eternity!!! LOL! Anyway.....good for you. You have discovered the secret: That love really is blind.

Answer 8

yes, its hard.
DONT be SHALLOW though. he may end up growing up & become gorgeous one day.

Otherwise awesome personality is worth a lot more than you'll ever know.

dorky can be cute.

also. he may be dorky to some. to you he can be perfect... dont worry about what other peoples thoughts would be.

Answer 9

You sound like you are looking alitte to much into physical attraction. Maybe this time you are attracted to his personality or the security he gives you. Try looking beyond looks, my be your true answer will revel itself.

Answer 10

Just don't lie to him, and tell him he's attractive. That would make him feel way too good about himself. Poor guy.