A guy at my school was all rude and mean to me yesterday and today he was real sweet and offeres me some tootsie rolls (my fav candy!) and I just don't understand. Help!
2006-11-09 14:31:52 · 15 answers · asked by MRS. EFRON ♥ zac 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and I can't just ask him or anything, b/c some people at my school made up rumors and everyones confused, but he would think I like him if I asked him...
2006-11-09 14:35:37 · update #1
he was mean to me in front of all his friends and nice to me in front of only one of his friends, and I can't date 4 another 4 years, so don't say, 'ask him out' or anything like that. And he's one year older than me...
2006-11-09 14:38:44 · update #2
Hi, you answered my other questions. I am 13, and my email is iluvpink14@sbcglobal.net, anytime you want to chat. BTW, according to popular opinion, teasing=liking :)
2006-11-09 15:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a before thought before I answer this question. There is always going to be people that will try to knock you down because of their anger, depression, jelousy, greed, and more complicated reasons. Try to recognize these people and understand that these people are unhappy.
Teenage years is a confusing time for allot of people and most are not sure how to handle certain "adult" situations and feelings they have. Sometimes a guy might make you feel bad and not even understand why he did what he did, he could've had a bad day or he could've just wanted to get a reaction out of you either way it was wrong to place his aggression on you especially if you weren't at fault. His way of apologizing and making things right is offering you your favorite candy. This guy has to be confused too.
Talk to him and tell him that it made you feel bad and confused and ask him why he was mean to you and if he feels sorry. A tootsie roll is the easy way out, he needs to learn how to resolve his problems better. That is what growing up is all about.
2006-11-09 14:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by deutzvenholf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys arent as super sensitive as us chics can be!!
He might of being having a downer day or maybe he was just in a bad modd when he seen u!!
Not being rude to u but ur not the focus of his every thought!! He could of been preoccupied...
If he was nice he was probably just trying to make up for it!! At least he tried!!
2006-11-09 14:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused : if the guy became mean to you and he is rude
that is no good .But acting nice person after he has been
hateful yesterday at school? well I would say "no way he's not
worth it"
2006-11-09 14:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young guys are like that. Maybe he was around his friends and wanted to be "cool" so he was rude to you. Maybe he had a bad day or something just happened before he saw you.
Dont worry about it. Guys are just weird like that.
2006-11-09 14:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by CaTT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, guys do that for some kind of attention, they will be mean, but he must have seen that ti was getting to you so now he wants to be nice. He likes ya girly..
2006-11-09 15:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Interpreted 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that problem all my junior high years with one guy. and he turned out to like me he just was afraid of being made fun of by his friends.
2006-11-09 15:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what a guy did with me and i was like so totally confused he was so mean to me then he turned all nice and then mean and then nice it was so confusing
2006-11-09 14:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by ♥◦◊◦Brown eyed babe◦◊◦♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go tell your recess duty for this little guy to leave you alone and go take his afternoon nappy.
2006-11-09 14:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by m'kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he :
a) might be a jackass
b) might like you; thus the teasing
c) be careful... but still maybe there is something there.
d) tease him back. if he can't take it, you'll know hes just an ***.
2006-11-09 14:34:13 · answer #10 · answered by Questionnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋