ok i had moved recently and me n my boyrfriend had been telling eachother we love eachother, cause we do, and were always talking to eachother and when he plays basketball he plays with a group of friends and this girl he talks to and at work he went on "break" to talk to her. IN FRONT OF ME!!! that pissed me off but we still tell eachother we love eachother because we do and he still talks to her because my old friend form where i used to live tells me he does. it hurts because i really love him. but if thats the way its gonna be then im done.
2006-11-09 14:47:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Know the facts first and what's going on.
There's nothing wrong with him talking to a girl, but if it is more often than talking with you, open your eyes, sister.
Talk to him and notice if he's changed in a way, like the tone of his voice, the way he expresses his feelings about you, everything.
When you're done investigating, you'll know for yourself if he's worth keeping or not.
I would say move on. Men can't be left alone, they get out of control.
2006-11-09 14:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like your boyfriend likes this other girl and maybe he does love you but, looks like he also likes this other girl a little bit more than he wants to admit. Girls no matter how old or young they are if they have a boyfriend they should keep tabs on them, and if you see that he can be unfaithful to you my suggestion would be to end your relationship with him,because what if you do marry him and then you find out that he is a womanizer.
2006-11-09 14:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is willing to let you meet her and hang out with the two of them then maybe everything is cool. If he gets defensive or secretive that tells you right there
2006-11-09 14:53:12 · answer #3 · answered by Ang W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant love him , because in order to love him you have to trust him and obviously you dont .... whats the problem with him having a female friend ... he wasnt tryin to hide it from you ..you said yourself he did it right in front of you... relax and learn to trust
2006-11-09 14:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"...if thats the way its gonna be then im done."
Sounds to me like it wouldn't make much difference if he was messing around or not. You're going to suspect the worst in everyone.
2006-11-09 14:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy it's sooo easy to tell someone that they love them..you have to tell him that your not comfortable with him takin his breaks with her..you didn't tell us if you moved far away or what..so to assume that you moved far, can you trust him? you sound as though you don't because you get upset, then I would say to just move on
2006-11-09 14:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to know -- if you have an honest relationship to begin with and you ask him.
If you don't have an honest relationship to begin with, your suspicions are probably true.
2006-11-09 14:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Yummy Canadian Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't trust him. no matter how many times you said you loved him. you don't trust him...so you will never know if he is or not. not until you can trust him with your whole heart, and then you have to ask questions. you will just know.
2006-11-09 14:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by LaurenElizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its possible to have an opposite sex friendship so i think there is more to it but i hope for you that im wrong
2006-11-09 14:52:25 · answer #9 · answered by mela26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see him give him a bj and you will know if you smell another women on him
2006-11-09 14:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋