I dont know what to do nomore. At one time it was easy to be a virgin. But now its not. The boys i like dont like me. The boys that like me i dont like. Some of the boys who i think like me only want sex. Sometimes i just dont know what to do . I dont want to loose my virginity but its not easy staying one. Im so afraid that they would take it and leave me. My ex almost had it but i said no because i didn't want to regret losing it. I want a relationship, where we could talk but we didn't have to have sex. Boys like me because of my body. They dont see the real me, and sometimes that hurt alot knowing that they dont want me, they just want me to have sex with them. Im just so confused.
2006-11-09 14:52:59 · 5 answers · asked by Fallin out of Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby girl.....You are on the right track with your feelings. Dont give it up to just anybody. When its right, you will know. If your not sure, then it hasnt been right. Once you go there, theres no turning back. You cant un-do. Hold out for your relationship. It will happen, really. Usually when you stop looking, he will land at your feet. When you will have someone who loves you for the person you are, sex will come easily and naturally. Dont rush it. Wait for your fairy tale.... They do come true!!!!
2006-11-09 15:02:39 · answer #1 · answered by Debi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a boy will leave you because you won't have sex with him he would leave you after you did have sex with him. Don't give up your virginity until you are absolutely sure about the person, meaning you have no doubts that they want you for you. You don't have to have sex to make someone like you.
2006-11-09 22:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not state your age but appears from your statements that you are a youngster/teenager
am thankful that you have weighed this out, for many do not, in effort to be "accepted" when in reality they are simply being used
young men at your age are very eager to explore sexually and say and do whatever they think will get them to the place they want to go
and yes, often after success - do indeed leave and do verbal damage to the girl ----
for you see, guys are never thought less of for being sexually active as girls are ...... it takes two people!
when adults try to persuade you to wait - it is not in attempt to keep you from having fun or even a relationship but to help you realize that you have a special treasure that was intended to be with one who has committed totally to you and you to them
you are no more of a person due to being sexually active
and no less of a person due to waiting --- it is a choice
choose wisely - for once used - no going back
better to stand for something than to fall for anything
2006-11-09 22:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused, those kind of guys are jerks and they don't deserved u. Keep it if that what u want. Never give up on it. Someday there'll be someone for u for sure that see u for who u r.
I've been there myself and I really regret it for doing it... they're just bastard. so, just move on, ignore them and eventually u'll find him, like I have now. = )
2006-11-09 23:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by fr4ng1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a treasure. really after being around for a while i have a huge respect for virgins a specially the ones who keep it till marriage. that will be a girl to adore.
2006-11-09 22:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋