There was this girl and her friends begged me to go to homecoming with her so i did. Shortly after she started to talk **** about me for no reason. All ive ever done is be nice and sweet to her. Today i bitched her out real bad and i know it was really horrible, but it sure did let off a whole bunch of steam. I mean, i never really liked her, but i still did the best i could to make sure we both had an awesome time but she blew me off. I kinda think this was a mistake but it made me feel so much better. Shud i have done that? Yeah, i did it very personally criticizing her weight because she is fat and her stupidity cuz she is really dumb.
2006-11-09 14:46:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you didn't like her then you shouldn't have taken her out at all. have a spine, eh?
also,
it's going to be hard for you to get a date now that you did that, because girls aren't going to trust you. or think you're a heartless jerk..
so who wins here?
2006-11-09 14:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by LaurenElizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did she do this******* to your face or is it something someone said they heard from someone who heard from someone else? Now lets see, you were nice to her and another girl thought you were being too nice to her and not enough to the other girl(s) So she gets jealous and says that this girl is sayin this about you and the way she knows is that a friend of a friend said she said this about you after homecoming. You see some women are like that and you went and took the bait ,hook, line ,and sinker? Was the person who informed you about the ***** in the first place standing there when you unloaded on her by any chance?Did you do this in front of a bunch of people? What you said about her personally is known a "Hitting below the belt or a low blow". Depending on what you said you could be liable for legal litigation. Still feeling good about what ya did? Forrest Gump said it best "Stupid is as stupid does"!!! So ask yourself these questions I just ask you and if you still feel "GOOD" or if you see the scenario that I just explained how some women act( and guys are guilty of this too) and there is an inkling of doubt YOU OWE HER AN APOLOGY!!!!! And in front of the same people you unloaded on her As for her weight ,what some guys consider skinny is "NICE" to other guys,and what some consider "FAT" is shapely to other guys. If you have the slightest thought about what I said then "YOU OWE HER AN APOLOGY IN FRONT OF EVERYONE YOU WENT OFF ON HER !!!! So be A MAN and do what is right
2006-11-09 15:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So basically you were 'nice' & "sweet' & then you were an *** & you feel good about it. This shows that you did something really immature because you are still a bit immature. It is not like you have to marry the girl, but you should do the courageous thing and apologize.
2006-11-09 14:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by garlicfresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was nice of you to take her. not nice of her to talk trash about you. Though honestly, she could have known you did it to be just nice and realised you didn't like her and she was upset. At least you feel better and sometimes it takes immature actions to be really mature in some ways. Telling her off wasn't that immature really. I see your point you tried to do her a favor but she might have heard you did it for a joke
2006-11-09 14:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL that is really funny....yea I would have done that too. If I was a guy. She deserved it if she was fat...becuase you did your best to be nice to her. I say good job! She sounds like a *****.
2006-11-09 15:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by julia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chalk this up as a relationship lesson.
Don't tell her off - politely turn the other cheek and end it. It will earn you a much, much better reputation.
2006-11-09 14:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey George, you are immature and you did do a dumb thing - but if you learn from this lesson that may be the only good thing to come out of this.
I hope no one does it to you!
2006-11-09 14:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by shimmy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you did good telling her how you feel but I don't think you should have dug in so deep just to hurt her because in the end you may have hurt her more than she hurt you.
2006-11-09 14:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Casandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have done that at all. It's terrible to put someone else down to make yourself feel better, it's never right.
2006-11-09 14:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yup u did right on telling her what u feel but perhaps u should've told her nicer withouht bringin her weight or stupidity.
2006-11-09 14:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by fr4ng1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋