is it wrong to want to talk to your fathers childs friend..im not dating my daughters father anymore and i really like his friend..but my ex is jealous and he doesnt know..if he did he would go crazy..i dont know what to do..im scared ill get rejected by this guy..should i tell him that i like him or what??
2006-11-09 15:15:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like that is enough background information to give you advice-Judging from the maturity level content of this question I would say you have a little more to learn before you start a relationship. Gosh-I'm on a roll today!
2006-11-09 15:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by NATE 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him if you can live with the grief and wrath of your ex-husband and the feeling of being rejected. Personally, I don't think it's a wise decision. You will be causing more turbulence in your relationship with ex, which affects your child. A responsible parent would make sacrifices and do what they can to keep things calm if they choose an irrational, emotionally unstable partner to make babies with. It's not fair that you should have to give up on your feelings with someone you like, however, it's not always about you, the little one comes first. Try and keep things calm for your daughter's sake, and make sure to keep the dates out of her life until you get a commitment.
There are other men around, keep your mind occupied and do something else than think about him. You'll feel better by doing the right thing. Good luck!
2006-11-09 15:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by DanaZ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how you're talking to him and why. If you know that if your daughter's dad finds out about it and with "go crazy" - it would seem to be worth not engaging in conversation with this friend. You have to remember that this is going to make him very uncomfortable to if he has the mother of his friend's baby coming on to him. He'll want to be loyal to his friend, and would "reject" you in that sense. So, no, don't tell him how you feel and either try to get back with your baby's father, or, if that's not the right thing to do - move on and look elsewhere, just not amongst your ex's friends! Good luck!
2006-11-09 15:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Go find someone outside your old relationship. You are just asking for trouble because even if this guy DOES like you, its going to cause major problems with a loser jealous ex. Its a lose -lose situation for all ........
2006-11-09 15:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Thumper 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah might just cause you more trouble. There is a million guys you can get who youd like, so dont get one thatll cause drama.
2006-11-09 15:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't try to come between friends. If they are good friends, he'll prolly reject you anyway.
2006-11-09 15:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is wrong how would u feel if he wanted to date one of your friends
2006-11-09 15:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by angela 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your scared to move ahead...
you must have a good reason,
listen to yourself.
2006-11-09 15:18:59 · answer #8 · answered by J B W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way. Back away and find someone else. Not a smart idea!
2006-11-09 15:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by H2Oskier 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
yes
2006-11-09 15:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋