Me and my wife are having a divorce. The problem is, she is pregnant with my son. She hates me very much, and is spiteful and will do anything to hurt me. She knows I want a masculine son who I can play football and such with. She is trying to prevent this. She told me, and she is not bluffing (she does not think right), that when my son is born she will name him ***** McGayhomo, in an attempt to make him less manly! I need a legal way to stop her, please help me. She will do this if I can't stop her!
2006-11-09 15:17:45 · 22 answers · asked by Jar Jar Binks Molested Me! Help! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
oh dear what a shame. why dont you go to the counselling centre in your area. i am sure they will be able to guide you. Dont let the bitterness take over. If she has a friend perhaps through that friend your wife can be made to see reason and treat the affair of husband,wife and child as a sacred matter and give it all due reverence.
2006-11-09 15:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by shriley s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...what are you doing to make her hate you so much? Maybe you should knock that off a bit. She will not name her son "***** mcgayhomo"...I'm pretty sure they won't accept that on a birth certificate. And (hopefully) she wouldn't inflict that on an innocent child just to get back at you. Since the child is half yours, you will have some sort of legal claim to him, and you can try to get partial custody. Then you can train him in your manly ways and get him to play football. Don't worry, she can't possibly be crazy enough to purposely screw up her own child just to get revenge.
2006-11-09 15:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Julia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no legal way that I know of to stop her from naming your son that. Try reverse psychology tell her I will love my son no matter what you name him or what he turns out to be. Also tell her that you hat my guts know but there was once a time that you loved me. tell her that there is a thin line between love and hate and hate is not the opposite of love non-communication and dis-agreeing is. see you guys could not come to an agreement about your marriage so it ended. That does not necessarily mean that you guys don't love each other anymore. But yeah hopefully that will work and she is really trying to spite you. She is having your son, oh yeah tell her that she does not want her son to hate her forever by naming him that and he does end up being a manly man who loves football...he will never forgive her. tell her to think more about the child instead of you all's relationship. Hope that this helped.
2006-11-09 15:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
kkkkkkkk just chill a minute!! true enough i dont know your ex wife but theres one thing that you need to realize is that people say things just to cut you were its the deepest and most the time its just words. shes pregnant and hormaonal so i wouldnt panic just yet. give things sometime to chill out, especially since shes pregnant try to stay on here good side, untill the babies born.
not sure how things are were your from but in tn a father can change the babies name given at birth up until the age of six months. six months is the age where a baby will start responding to thier name. so i would definately check on your local and state laws. good luck.lol.
2006-11-09 15:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't worry about it. She is only trying to twist it in your guts/and seems to be succeeding. Do not sign the divorce papers. Talk to your lawyer about what is going on, including the threat. She probably has no intention of sentencing her son to a life of shame, so recognize the bluff!
2006-11-09 15:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nuk.Nuk.Nuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any woman who would use her child to get back at anyone, should NOT have children. Unfortunately there isn't much you can do about what she names him. But he will definitely grow up to hate her and he can then legally change his name. If you have any info on her as to being an unfit mother, go to court and get custody.
2006-11-09 15:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my gawrsh are you for real? why in the world would a mother want to use her child to hurt someone..that is jsut not right..and why does she hate you so much? did you do anyting for her to hate you so? and does it matter if the child is a girl or not..maybe thats why she hates you cus you only want a son..or it can be her hormones are out of whack,,when were preggers we tend to hate our husbands for some reason..but eh n e ways..you should consult a lawyer to see what you can do..you probably cant do anything..unless you can prove she is demented..
2006-11-09 15:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to try to work stuff out with your wife but you are wrong to say she would do that no matter how much she may hate you no mother would do that to there child so either you are lieing or your wife is just bluffing
2006-11-09 15:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by jam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think the name is right. That will hurt him mentally later in school. I dont think you schould pressure your son when he is older ethier to play any sports or anything he doesn't want to do! I think it would be good for you both to problly be in his life that fuckes with thier minds.
2006-11-09 15:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by julia l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is prima facie evidence that she is an unfit mother. Contact an aggressive attorney and take a court order to the delivery room and take your child into your custody, along with the court order allowing you to name the child.
2006-11-09 15:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by DallasGuy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋