see my boyfriend is the deperest type and i love him so much we plan to get married but were still in high school and well hes become even more deprest and now we cant talk without fighting or saying something smart ***
2006-11-09 15:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by number1lil_devil293 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well my boyfriend is the depressent kind too. just talk to him, go over his place, and say "hey baby, what's wrong." tell him you are there for him, but dont yell at him. ask him how he feels and just tell him ya love him with all your heart and it hurts seeing him sad. if ya plan on gettin` married, tell him that, there is no need for you to be sad, cuz we are gon` get married one day, and prob. have kids, and would you want our kids to see us arguin` and sad. hug him, lay in bed with him and no matter what juss` kiss him all over and rub his bacc while you talk to him (: trust me it works.
2006-11-09 15:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry.. what's deperest?
Ok.. but i think u are to young.. actually.. not only u.. but your boyfriend?
See what are u gonna eat? will u both ask ur parents for money.. it's just a shame..
They have fed u n taken care og u. n until u grown up, still become a burden for them..
U should think again, if now, before married, your bf cant talk without fighting, how can you still get together forever.?( will you stand of listening his angry talk ) because usually boy will repect you lesser than before married.
Gilrs.. youd better think again your choice to get mary young, with also young boy..
Are you ready to have a child, while your boyfriend working? Hm...
2006-11-09 15:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Pomo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never marry a depressed person until that person gets help and gets the depression out of his system...You will be miserable and way to young to handle such a major problem..You are already fighting and such dont you see the gates of hell??? Seems like he is a nice guy and you want to marry him and make hime feel better...Wrong!...That is like getting involved with a person who just broke up with someone after a long relationship...Emotional issues are death sentences for a realtionship and you are too young to be getting married anyway?
Not trying to be mean but you cant even spell depressed so how can you even understand it??
Your young have fun and enjoy life marry after age 25 and get some life experience under your belt
Good Luck.
2006-11-09 15:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by nuance92551 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needs to grow up. If he has a problem, he'll learn to talk about it instead of fighting or saying something stupid. That's what being grown up is all about. You're still in high school. You'll have lots of other boyfriends. He's not ready to get married to you. You'll find someone else who is when you're ready.
2006-11-09 15:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f might be depressed about so many things.All you have to do is take him by himself.Try and talk to him.I might be wrong but It sounds like he want to brake up with you and just don't know how to say it.Gust ask him if that is it.Know if it ain't don't push him to tell you what he is depressed about .some guys don't like that.He might have some family problems that he don't know how to tell you about it.Let him come on his own.Know remember try not to push him.That will upset guys even more.
2006-11-09 15:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to much pressure is going on here.
how about just focusing on the most important part now and that is graduating then take the next step.
2006-11-09 15:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of u ought to confer together with his mum, as cheesy and scary because it sounds . perhaps this is going to hold out a little solid? Ask her why she continuously says he cant come over or whats incorrect with it. yet be great and calm. I dont think of your BFs mom is being useful. Youre going out so why wont she enable him see youat your homestead?? perhaps she thinks youre gettibg in the way of his training, she doesnt like u? perhaps she doesnt like the concept-approximately you and him having intercourse or the like . talk on your BF approximately it and his mum. Or get him to talk to his mum.
2016-10-21 14:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by equils 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should let him be for awhile ... qive him time to think of what is important to him let him know you love him but he needs to think what is important ... you cant let him be this way and just watch him he miqht wanna tell you something but is too afraid talk to him for real like a lonq nice talk haha
2006-11-09 15:21:43 · answer #8 · answered by la la x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give him the comfort and love. You have make him happy when he is with you. Things will be soon shorted out.
2006-11-09 15:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys need a break from each other!! if u guys spend so much time together u guys wont last..trust me ..me and my b/f did that and we'd be good one day and the next we'd get on each others nerves!
2006-11-09 15:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋