Family & Relationships - 9 November 2006

I am 27 and at 25 i said i wanted kids when i was with a guy for a little while but left him because i wasn't ready to be with him. My sister has kids and I love them...but the thought of raising them older than when they are kids haunts me because I know kids can be a handful. am I just looking at the down side? I say I don't want kids at this stage and I don't have a steady partner...It was never my dream to have kids....or do you think that I am being this way just to be different?

2006-11-09 16:20:09 · 13 answers · asked by Leigh J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm the wrong side of 30,and feel i can't stand her 3 year old kid.We've been seeing each other for 3 months and i want to travel and experience places, that i could'nt afford to do when my own kids were young.I really like her but I can't see a way around the problem. Should i cut my ties now,before we all get "in" too deep,or should i go off by myself (or find another partner)and travel/have fun.

2006-11-09 16:18:16 · 29 answers · asked by mcdonaldant 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at work the other day...and the girls that I talk to..tell me..that the guy I think is cute...ask both of them...who was the girl that likes him and is stalking him..when they told me this I was like No Way...I also find out that...this girl who "Loves" him told him...that some girl in the front..likes him..and is stalking him..I was like...I never said that...so the whole time I was working..everytime he walked by..he kept looking at me..Now I don't know how to act..because he probably thinks bad of me...even before even talking to me.I saw the girl who told him..and she couldn't even look me in the eye..I just wanted to walk up to her...and tell her off..but I was at work..and that would make me look bad...And what if I wanted something to happen between the two of us.I really don't think its going to happen.but I still could have hoped..sidenote..its not like anything would have..because I don't think many guys look at me.and say "oh she is cute" "I am going to flirt with her"

2006-11-09 16:18:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Pray for my boyfriend. He's going through alot and I can only do so much to help. He needs God now. I am going to pray all I can. Please help me if you can.

Thank You-
~Rikki

2006-11-09 16:17:19 · 5 answers · asked by 1 Hott Mami 4 in Singles & Dating

The guy over reacted, and was an idiot. The girl liked him A LOT at one point. Would you ladies hate it, if a guy is persistent on trying to get you back? And if the guy sent a few emails, and no response. If you just wanted the guy to go away, would you tell him to f-off, or just keep on avoiding him? If you girls liked him a lot, don't you find it flattering that a guy REALLY wants to be with you?

2006-11-09 16:16:53 · 10 answers · asked by Little Hulk 1 in Singles & Dating

Tonight, my husband told me that he had been in a relationship with another woman in town and she told him she was pregnant and she broke things off and told him he was going to have to pay child support. Well, he called her up to talk about things and it turns out she made the whole thing up to get back at him because he never told her he was married. I can't believe she would be so mean to him. It's not his fault because she never asked. I'm so upset with her right now for stressing out my husband and it really made him hurt when she called off the relationship. He has been so anxious and somewhat depressed this past week and I didn't know why and its because this lady lied. What can I do to show my husband I love him and get his mind off this whole mess with that girl?

2006-11-09 16:14:45 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I work in a dental office for the military first off. I had a coworker tell me that one of the doctors said he would date one of the other employees but marry me. What does that mean? I don't quite know how to take that.

2006-11-09 16:13:16 · 26 answers · asked by Leaving on a jetplane 3 in Singles & Dating

I have hair down to around my chin. I am trying to grow it out some, but I don't know how long it will grow before my wedding. I am getting married in May of 2008, so I have a little time. I already have found the perfect tiarra and veil to go with my dress. Does anyone have any suggestions or good websites to check out for some ideas?

2006-11-09 16:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Kelly S 2 in Weddings

details details people :D

2006-11-09 16:11:55 · 12 answers · asked by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 in Singles & Dating

every time when I enter my class room I see a student who has already a girl freind staring at to me .. and I'm so confuced aout that beacuse his girl freind noticed that when ever I walk infront of him or talk to any one else... he is like kind of wanna talk to me and stopping him self ? today I had horrible day because of him??(this is happning i the community college)

2006-11-09 16:10:52 · 9 answers · asked by kindly girl is asking . 1 in Family

Ok, I just moved and I'm talking to people but havn't really I guess you'd say made "friends". But this really popular girl has tried to talk to me, and I kind of froze up. She seems really nice, and our personality's really match. But after that kind of akward moment she hasen't talked to me since. Does she think I don't like her? How do I let her know I'm interested in being her friend?

2006-11-09 16:10:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I had liked this boy alot. My friend ex- boy friend was his homeboy. Well he had asked me to show him my chest and i did because i had liked him and because my best friend ex-boyfriend ask me to, and were really close friends. But afterwards i didn't feel different. I was happy because he knew i had liked him, then he was the first boy i let see my chest. Then like the next day i found out that he had liked me, but the reason he had liked me was because he wanted to have sex with me. I had a feeling that was going to happen, but i tried to think positive. I was so sad. I had liked him alot. He thought he could ask my best friend ex boyfriend to ask me would i do it with him, but he said he wouldn't ask me that because im not that kind of girl. Im just so hurt because all boys see me as a girl with a big chest and that's all. I just dont know what to do, my grades are dropping and im trying to keep my head in my books but it is so hard. Im just tired of these boys hurting me.

2006-11-09 16:10:42 · 6 answers · asked by Fallin out of Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey ok like i have a question!!!!!Do you just like eminem...The most sexiest rapper.If you do your aloud to answer.If you don't just put something yo.

2006-11-09 16:10:26 · 5 answers · asked by stacy_diva_girl619 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi guys I just want to thank u for all ur answers on my previous Q.Heres the thing how do someone know between crush and true love. Okey i think about this person all the time. I kinna got this feeling that he's seeing someone else I want to find it out but how? We work together and oh did I mention his my boss. We flirt witheach other but we dont talk that much he's touchy and leans his body towards me and keeps touching my feet what does that mean. he seems very nice, goodlooking think perfect person to date. But sometimes he say things to me that I find it hurtful. I am not sure if thats him just teasing me. I got the hint that he likes me, I like him too but bec. he is my boss Im hesitant to ask him out. And one more thing everybody at work seems to be no problem including the other boss. I need some real adult opinions please.Thank you.

2006-11-09 16:09:26 · 5 answers · asked by jenebee 1 in Singles & Dating

I want the phone for my son in college. is that ok?

2006-11-09 16:09:03 · 13 answers · asked by delando 1 in Family

no dont worry, i dont plan to cheat on my partner, i am just intrested in who might

2006-11-09 16:09:00 · 11 answers · asked by ros_0123 3 in Singles & Dating

My old next door neighbor whom I lived by all throughout our childhood keeps staring at me at the college we go to(she is in her first semester freshman semester, one year younger than me.) I'm almost positive she is interested in me. I havn't seen the girl in over two years when I moved right my 18th birthday. I used to always play with her little brothers(who were like 9-10 years younger than me) all the time and was always very good at football and street hockey, and loved playing the guitar, but I'm guessing it's how I was a role model to her little brothers.

I havn't talked to her yet, even though she has been staring at me, my penis has a mind of its own, it takes over me. It has level 99 mind control :( Even though I think this girl is really interested in me, I don't think she is the type I would want to start a relationship with. If I treat her nice is it alright if I hit it?

2006-11-09 16:08:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 18 and he's 24 and we're both virgins. we're incredibly in love and engaged now, happier than ever, but we're waiting until we're married to have sex.
we both feel very strongly about waiting until after marriage.

is there something wrong with BOTH of us still being virgins and still waiting???

2006-11-09 16:06:49 · 39 answers · asked by World peAce 1 in Singles & Dating

A boyfriend is supposed to be there for you right? Why do I feel like I have a boyfriend who dosen't give a damn about me! It's like if i have a concern about something or him he's not supposed to care. But if he has a problem im supposed to jump and say how high! I am there for him when he has a problem and i thought that's what a girlfriend is supposed to do. I thought if anybody else wasn't there for you your significant other should be!

2006-11-09 16:06:27 · 15 answers · asked by msaquarius 2 in Singles & Dating

I didn't help her w/the kids today. But, yesterday and the day before I tried to help. I would get up the middle of night or early morning to tend to our 6 month old. But she would just come grab her and tell me that it was OK. This happened since Tuesday. Bare in mind, I was a litle sick and so was the baby. So today I held her a while and put her down when she began to cry.Now she's upset saying I need to help her more. I was like what?? What can I say or do w/out getting into a huge argument.

2006-11-09 16:06:20 · 20 answers · asked by oaparicio2003 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 months. I found out a week ago that he had another girlfriend before who he had sex with for months. I am a virgin and assumed he was, and it was quite shocking to find out.

He is still friends with her, or at least hangs out with her with other friends from time to time. She is married. Their relationship was 4 years ago. He told me that he would not talk to her anymore, but he said he rarely talked to her anyway.

She got in touch with him either today or yesterday and invited him to play poker with her and his friends tomorrow night. She also invited me. He told her that I have an early curfew, and in response to that, she said I could spend the night.

He said that he doesn't want to stop being her friend because he would lose other friends. He said he doesn't want to hurt them (and lose the friendship) or me, but I'm getting hurt anyway. He said he doesn't want to lose his friends, but he doesn't want to lose me either.

2006-11-09 16:05:42 · 8 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4 in Singles & Dating

Weve always been a 2 income household basically he's never had to be the "SOLE" provider. Last week he decieded he'd quit his job because he "didnt want to deal with the crap at work and I make enough money" without discussing it with me. I wrk from 7am to 7pm I am ALWAYS tired, there is as much "crap" at my job as anyother. I wouldnt mind holding things down for a while but he isnt helping me, while on maternity leave my job was the house&baby, I cooked, cleaned made sure he had dinner. For the last week I come home at 7am and the house is a wreck, the baby is still in the crib (poop diaper) the dog hasnt been let out. I spend an hr getting the house in order. By 9 I try to sleep, he decides to work on the car, run to home depot or play video games and he leaves the baby with me - He claims if I was that tired Id be able to sleep thru the cries, what can I say to him to make him help me w/o nagging am I being unfair? I just want him to keep the baby busy for the 6hrs I sleep...

2006-11-09 16:05:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ineed someone to love and make me happy and not eor only sex

2006-11-09 16:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Please tell me if this seems low to you or is it just me.

I live in a small town, everyone knows everyone, so of course my friends and family know alot that goes on in this town.

My ex-fiance and I broke up in June, it was a bad breakup, especially since we broke up two weeks before we were to be married.

In the last 5months he has been very bitter and cold to me, he has said very mean things about me which I just ignore, he recently started seeing a girl who lives here, they have been dating about a month, I have accepted it, he has moved on so I did too.

We both work at the same place, and we both see the same people every day, he recently, proposed to this girl, at the place where I work in front of my friends, he even asked a band that plays at our job who hasn't seen us in 6 months to play a song for him so he could propose to another girl. It was pretty embarassing, considering these had no clue we were even broken up, He could have asked her anywhere, why there

2006-11-09 16:03:08 · 11 answers · asked by snickerdoodle 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been here almost 1 year. But my english also is bad.

I say the six,like sex.

and I alway forget the words.

I don't when should I use "do you" or "are you"...

"can you" or "could you"

"can you" or "would you"

2006-11-09 16:03:04 · 9 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Friends

2006-11-09 16:02:41 · 13 answers · asked by partknit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am very taired and wanted to sleep hours ago but im still answering and askin . what shall i do to force myself go to bed

2006-11-09 16:02:14 · 21 answers · asked by moh 2 in Singles & Dating

Like if you are attracted to them? Or is it something else?

2006-11-09 16:01:50 · 2 answers · asked by KayAlley 3 in Singles & Dating

What's the best way to get back in touch with ex?

Don't want to look like I'm begging.
It's been 5 1/2 months and it was she that broke our relationship.
I know that with this time away from each other, we both had some time to reflect.

What's worked for you people in getting back with your ex?

2006-11-09 16:00:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and even though its been years when yo usee them it makes you want to cry? real talk

2006-11-09 15:59:20 · 16 answers · asked by cashville_con 3 in Friends