my boyfriend and I are still virgins?

Question

i'm 18 and he's 24 and we're both virgins. we're incredibly in love and engaged now, happier than ever, but we're waiting until we're married to have sex.
we both feel very strongly about waiting until after marriage.

is there something wrong with BOTH of us still being virgins and still waiting???

Answer 1

nope, good for you both........

Answer 2

Hello,

Oh my gosh there is not something wrong with you. It's what you believe in and it's your choice. Let no one influence you on your virginity.

I'm not a virgin, and I am not married. But before I had sex for the first time, I had boyfriends - some of whom were not virgins. They never really pressured me, but the issue had come up. I knew that when I choose to have sex it would be with someone that I was in love with, and at a time that I felt was right.

Ultimately I am so happy that I had sex with the right person. I'm still with him, and we've been dating for a long time. It was the right thing for me to do. And I know that if we break up I won't regret my relationship or what I did with him. And that's more than I can say for a lot of my friends.

Just remember that it's a personal choice and there is nothing wrong with waiting.

I hope this helps, and good luck.

Answer 3

Is there something wrong? What? You think because some people have sex before marriage than what you're doing is wrong? Girl, you have the right to wait until marriage. In fact, I think is a blessing to accomplish that. I believe in sex after marriage.

Very Good!

Answer 4

I think its really cool youre both still virgins. For one thing it shows you have similar values which is always good and that you have a real relationship that isnt solely based on the physical so you have a better chance at a successful marriage. Congrats!!!!!

Answer 5

No! Of course not! You've come this far, why not finish it? I'm waiting til I get married, and I know there are other ppl who are waiting and there's nothing wrong w/ us.

I think waiting is admirable and it shows charcter and that you both have awesome self control.

Answer 6

Oh my goodness no. I think you are two of the few sane teenagers left. That is the wisest choice you could have done. It will be so much more special spiritually, and emotionally for both or you. I commend you for your strength. Praise the Lord. There needs to be more like you out there. God Bless you two.

Answer 7

Nope, my best friend was a virgin until her wedding night and she was 23 or 24 years old. She was so excited and called me the next day to tell me all about it...lol. You guys should be very proud of yourselves! Way to go!

Answer 8

I admire you for your convictions. It is great in this day and age that someone is holding on to tradition. Your wedding night will be a night of discovery for you both, what a wonderful way to start your marriage. You always remember your first lover and what a great pleasure to have it be your husband. God Bless You and have a happy life.

Answer 9

Just keep waiting. If you have waited this long and are engaged you might as well stick it out. It will make your wedding night a lot more fun.

Answer 10

Of course there is nothing wrong with your waiting. GOOD FOR BOTH OF YOU!!!!

It is hard to always resist temptation. You have followed God's word and you will never regret that. Blessings on you both!

Answer 11

Nope you don't even have to have sex once your married. You never know you may hate sex. But make sure to get tested for STD's because those little suckers can some out of no where.