I was at work the other day...and the girls that I talk to..tell me..that the guy I think is cute...ask both of them...who was the girl that likes him and is stalking him..when they told me this I was like No Way...I also find out that...this girl who "Loves" him told him...that some girl in the front..likes him..and is stalking him..I was like...I never said that...so the whole time I was working..everytime he walked by..he kept looking at me..Now I don't know how to act..because he probably thinks bad of me...even before even talking to me.I saw the girl who told him..and she couldn't even look me in the eye..I just wanted to walk up to her...and tell her off..but I was at work..and that would make me look bad...And what if I wanted something to happen between the two of us.I really don't think its going to happen.but I still could have hoped..sidenote..its not like anything would have..because I don't think many guys look at me.and say "oh she is cute" "I am going to flirt with her"
2006-11-09 16:18:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't have much luck when it comes to guys...They always go for my friends..or other girls..
2006-11-09 16:18:58 · update #1
At this point...I am considering keeping to myself...and not talking to any one...LoL...He talked to me once..LoL..I think he might have said Hi to me..but I wasn't paying attention..and I also thought he was saying hi to someone else...also..one day I needed something at work...so I saw him walk by...and asked him if he could get it for me...because I couldn't go and get it myself..I know he knew I was talking to him...because he looked right at me...but never came back...Also the same day..she told him...when the store was closing...he asked me..if my register was open..than asked me..what department this was from...so I told him...well first I saw the number on the side...and I said Paint...he was like "Toys"...and I checked again...and because I am short..I had to lift myself a bit to actually see the number and department..also..I had been wearing my contacts all day..and they were starting to borther me..I said "Paint".I laughed to myself..I thought ..what kid would pay with that
2006-11-09 16:37:15 · update #2
Oh..and now...I forgot to say..I don't even want to go to work..because I don't want him to be like...she's stalking me again..Also..when I see him..I just want to run and hide...I have no luck at all..and I should really learn who to tell things to and who not to...
Plus he is a cocky guy...lol..and thinks every girl likes him..one of the girls I talk to..told him..that Yes she knows who it is..and no she doesn't like you...its a different guy(with the same name)..so get off your high horse..LoL
2006-11-09 16:40:36 · update #3
Hello,
I would say that you should talk to the guy and clear up the situation. Or confront the girl and tell her that she needs to come clean or that you will do it for her.
Either way, you shouldn't have to take the fall for her creepy behavior. And he shouldn't miss out on something great with you because some other girl can't take responsiblity for her own actions.
I hope this helps and good luck.
2006-11-09 16:23:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy will always want a slim, pretty girl, thats human nature, but let me tell u a fact that guys are scared of slim attractive girls because they belive she is too good for the, or she already spoken for, but when guys give attention to ladies easily its usually because the men belive that lady is below them and she will automatically flirt back and belive she is there for the taking, i.e she aint very good looking and guys belive they are better then her so the men will be confident in giving her attention, so women who think guys are after them and give u attention dnt mean ur cute or good looking, trust me on that as im a pshycologist, remember if guys give u attention easily its because they dnt want to be with you for the long term and just look at u and think ur just for one thing, guys will go or any girl who has privatr parts regardless of looks, but they wnt be attractive to the girl as terms of being respecful to her or dating her for the long term, so basically its bad luck for the chubby, average women.
2006-11-10 00:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how it feels, and i think u should set the record straight between you'll. You should tell him u like him and dont let him think the worst of you. You never know what the guys be sayin about u, they may think your cute, but they dont have the guts to tell u.
2006-11-10 00:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Fallin out of Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to WINK at him, that may do the trick.
2006-11-10 00:24:03 · answer #4 · answered by rafiki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋