I had liked this boy alot. My friend ex- boy friend was his homeboy. Well he had asked me to show him my chest and i did because i had liked him and because my best friend ex-boyfriend ask me to, and were really close friends. But afterwards i didn't feel different. I was happy because he knew i had liked him, then he was the first boy i let see my chest. Then like the next day i found out that he had liked me, but the reason he had liked me was because he wanted to have sex with me. I had a feeling that was going to happen, but i tried to think positive. I was so sad. I had liked him alot. He thought he could ask my best friend ex boyfriend to ask me would i do it with him, but he said he wouldn't ask me that because im not that kind of girl. Im just so hurt because all boys see me as a girl with a big chest and that's all. I just dont know what to do, my grades are dropping and im trying to keep my head in my books but it is so hard. Im just tired of these boys hurting me.
2006-11-09 16:10:42 · 6 answers · asked by Fallin out of Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetheart. It has taken me many years to understand the male mind and here it is. There are two types of men or in your case boys. Dirty all they want is sex boys and the ones who pretend they want love but all they want is sex. So, number one. Never show your chest to a guy because that only degrades you. Number two I would advise staying away from sex because it means very little to guys and a whole lot more to girls. There are girls who pretend they can have casual sex without getting hurt but they can't. So, sex leads to emotional pain especially when there is no real intimacy. Don't feel bad. This guy is no reflection on you and who you are. He is just another dirty screw whatever he can guy. Don't be the one who disgraces herself to indulge him. Just leave him alone and wait for a real man who deserves your heart. Trust me he does not have what it is you think you want.
Forget about those silly high school boys for now. I believe that at this time in your life your responsibility is to yourself. Figure out who you are and love yourself. Trust me a big chest is a good thing. Just remember that God has made someone perfect for you and you do not have to settle for some jerk. Look to the future not the present.
2006-11-09 16:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and keep your shirt on and keep it buttoned too! There are a lot more like him out there and sometimes they run in packs.
How do you think date rape happens?
When the right guy comes along; he wouldn't ever think about asking you to do something like that. He would probably beat the ...out of anybody that even suggested it.
Guys treat you the way you treat yourself. If you want a guy and will do anything (Show him your chest) to get him. He would be a damn fool not to take you up on it.
BUT!!!
If this same guy knows that you are a great person, a lot of laughs, don't mess around but are a person they can count on.......you will have a friend for life and someone that will always watch your back.
And believe me, with all the wierd ones running around a girl needs a lot of these kinds of guys because they are always around to protect you!!
The guy that is your friends exboyfriend sounds like he might be one of these good guys!!!
2006-11-10 00:27:08 · answer #2 · answered by mom4gramma8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are boys are showing their lack of maturity and sensitivity.
It is important to remember you teach people how to treat you. Raise your standards. Love and respect yourself first then expect others to do the same. Boys will continue to treat you poorly until you make them see that you deserve and expect to be treated differently. They will not change as long as you allow them to think it is acceptable to treat you this way. Make boys like you for who you are not just body parts. Respect always begins with self (Self Respect) Love youself, it's okay.
2006-11-10 00:24:26 · answer #3 · answered by big dawg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL YOU DONT LET ANY MAKE YOU FEEL BAD
ABOUT YOURSELF, BE PROUD OF YOU SELF. AND FOR
THESE YOUNG MEN , SOME ONE OF THEM ARE REAL
JERK.BUT WORRY SO MUCH ABOUT IT. GET YOUR GRADES UP AND DONT LET ANY KEEP YOU DOWN,
YOU HAVE MUCH TO OFFER SO HANG IN THERE.
2006-11-10 00:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that would really care about you,you sound like a very sweet girl.so be strong......OK
2006-11-10 00:24:08 · answer #5 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a good boy :)
we aint all mean
2006-11-10 00:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋