What's the best way to get back in touch with ex?
Don't want to look like I'm begging.
It's been 5 1/2 months and it was she that broke our relationship.
I know that with this time away from each other, we both had some time to reflect.
What's worked for you people in getting back with your ex?
2006-11-09 16:00:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, you can call her, sweety...talk to her about things that's been going on, but don't go anywhere near the break-up thingy...
then invite her out for coffee, and have a nice time joking, telling stories as such...
then when you think the time is ready, ask her if she wants to rekindle the love with you...
if she says no, then at least stay as friends...
maybe God has something else planned for you two...
2006-11-09 16:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by chinggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ramon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are difficult words to express correctly so someone can understand and particularly since they will probably not be what you want to hear. But I speak the truth as I know it.
Women do the choosing. If she was interested she would be trying to contact you, not the other way around. She's not sitting there waiting for you to call, or for you to be the first one to call. Those are games for the beginning of a relationship, not one that has had problems.
In the meantime, it might be best to go on with your life and start getting out again. Doesn't mean you have to hook-up with someone. Try dating for a while. Go out and do things with other people.
If she is interested in you, she will contact you and if your not seriously involved with someone and are still interested, you can decide if you want to get back with her. There is a reason that you two are not together and don't fantasize about only the good parts. Remember that and remember that life is short without much time to waste...
2006-11-09 16:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my 26 yrs of living, it is in my opiion that an EX is and EX for a reason. If you think that this person has had time to reflect then why hasnt this person came back to you. If she broke off the relationship and if she realizes she made a mistake then she'll get up with you. And since she hasnt contacted you then she obvioulsy doesnt want to get back with you and it would be a waste of your time to contact or try to contact her. Save that energy and stay single and enjoy things as they are or use that energy to find a chick who would deserve you.
2006-11-09 16:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by DinaJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief, that thought scares me to death. It just so happens that today was our wedding anniversary and I've been re-living 12 years of agony all day long.
Be very careful with this and take your time. 5 1/2 months is not much time at all compared to the rest of your life and your sanity.
It took me 5 1/2 months after the dissolutionment hearing (which she didn't even bother to show up at) to be able to sleep again.
2006-11-09 16:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to follow law of natural. That guides to a right and straight path. As you know this life is limited to certain months or years. We have to die and we will be accounted for our actions in this world. Then why not to preapre for that instead of wasting time in low level activities.
2006-11-09 16:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Good Luck.
Have a great day!
2006-11-09 16:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by Uncle Alf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your new friend call her. Her lawyer will call in a day. Play dumb. The ex will be calling.
2006-11-09 16:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you went to her friends they could tell her that you were asking about her, and if she wants to talk to you then she would call..some friends like to sugar coat things, so if you can trust them, do that..or you could call her parents..if not any of those things you could--MOVE ON
2006-11-09 16:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by becca j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nerver tried to go back...cause mines ended on a bad note ooops!!
2006-11-09 16:06:17 · answer #10 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋