A boyfriend is supposed to be there for you right? Why do I feel like I have a boyfriend who dosen't give a damn about me! It's like if i have a concern about something or him he's not supposed to care. But if he has a problem im supposed to jump and say how high! I am there for him when he has a problem and i thought that's what a girlfriend is supposed to do. I thought if anybody else wasn't there for you your significant other should be!
2006-11-09 16:06:27 · 15 answers · asked by msaquarius 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know it hurts and its a damn shame men are like that but thats just how it is. most people in this world are selfish anyway. there are only a few good people left. ive learned to try and not let it get to me. we cant change other people to react the way we think they should or the way they should. you will meet more people everyday this way. its in the bible. he is selfish and i mean very selfish. i have one just like him. if he changes for you it wont be real. he has to want in his heart to do the right thing for himself. just dont let it change you. stay the caring person that you are. cause if you turn as cold as he is, it will eat you up inside cause that will not be who you are. girl stay strong even if you have to be in your own beautiful world. meditate on peace. hes not happy inside. who could be happy negleting others. keep a smile on your face and dont let the devil think he has you. i feel what you are going thru cause i go thru it everyday. take care love and you are not alone. we have god.
2006-11-09 16:21:34 · answer #1 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Page poster says Boys are Stupid. Throw rocks at them!!! No, just joking. But boys think straight ahead and mostly with a body part between their legs. They do not have an instinct to nuture. Thats what girls do. Girls think in circles. Tell him how you feel by saying " I feel unimportant when it seems that you are not listening. I think maybe you are but I need to hear you say so if you are." That gives him a start and end point to relate to. If that does not work, then Feed your own ego instead of his and look for a boy who really cares.
2006-11-09 16:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by ambriannaone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me & the bf just got in an argument about this not 10 minutes ago. Needless to say he will be sleeping elsewhere tonight. The guy just can't understand how a lady feels. Supportive is whats lacking here.
2006-11-09 16:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lami 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We boys are men and we men are boys. We are still growing and are kind of selfish. We want Mommy's unconditional love. See, our Mommy's listen to all our problems and never tell us their problems.
Our Mommy's pat our little backsides and say "good boy" no matter what. Eventually, for most, we grow up somewhat and learn that it's also good to listen to others and be sympathetic to our mates. It takes time. Some never learn...
2006-11-09 16:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend seems very selfish and immature. Also, I have a feeling your are only a temporary girlfriend for this guy.
2006-11-09 16:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
joya first think you need is a REAL Man! one that will care,show support, be there for you thru the thick and thin. but in todays face pace world we men sometimes loose control. as long as you look sweet in a Thong, you will always have control over your man
2006-11-09 16:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, he dnt wanna be with ya, let me tell u abot guys as a guy, breifly, guys only care women who they deep down they wanna end up for the long term, and if ur really pretty and slim, ither then that he dnt wanna know and has somone else, trust me as im a pshycologist.
2006-11-09 16:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Try talking to him face to face. If you have tried every thing then taking to him about this. Its things like this you need to let you feelings out to another person.
2006-11-09 16:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by Coolilo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right.
Look, if you have a guy who isnt suiting your needs and doesnt make you feel good.
DROP HIM!
I know it sounds easier then it really is...but come on...do you need the aggravation..
NO!
Drop him before he wastes anymore of your time.
2006-11-09 16:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by kaye t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my female friend broke up with me for the ones identical motives seems she used to be depressed when you consider that her dad used to be in afganistan he got here again she went again to common and that i refused to take her again and i did not realize why. mid teenagers is a nasty time to begin antidepressants, i might try to get off them. after which i might (do not take this recommendation i am simply pronouncing what i might do, typically a relatively dangerous thought) write a letter to my grandpa telling him thanks for quickly ruining my existence.
2016-09-01 10:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋