ineed someone to love and make me happy and not eor only sex
2006-11-09 16:03:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are most likely attracted to people who will abuse you (subconsciously) , maybe try for the nice shy guys, like me :)
2006-11-09 16:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps we look in all the wrong places, and maybe in our desperation to find love we make wrong choices, and end up with wrong people. sometimes it's the one we don't pick, who would make the best mate. the man or woman we think isn't our type, sometimes we pick because of lust, or passion, but that is not a lasting thing, perhaps we need to pick someone for their character, and how well they can handle life during troubles, maybe we need to pick the mate who accepts and loves us unconditionally, without all those expectations. we also need to ask alot of questions before we pick a mate, and if we see things that comprimise our belief system, maybe that would not be the one to be with. we should pick the mate who has strengths we don't have, if we pick a mate who has the same weaknesse's we do than we will experience those same problems in the relationship. we also need to check out a person's past, if they have had many marriages, maybe this is not the person we need from life. look at their actions, don't believe their words. talk is cheap, what's important is in their actions.
2006-11-09 16:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang out in wholesome places. Don't get your dates from the clubs and off the street. Meet guys at your place of worship and when you start dating a guy, ask to meet his family and friends. You can tell a lot about a guy by who he hangs out with and how they are around him. Also, don't have sex with him so soon! If it's not that important to him, he'll be fine with it. If it's all he wants, he won't stand for it and he'll be gone. Then you know he wasn't right for you. Don't do anything you don't want to. Ask him questions about what his goals are and how he's going to reach them. Ask him what makes him happy and what he wants to do before he dies. Just get to know him before you give it to him. Good Luck!
2006-11-09 16:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is to not be with someone who is abusive. As soon as anyone hurts you AT ALL, leave him immidiately. Be open and single for the right man when he comes along.
2006-11-09 16:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by treasureisland85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not allow your desires to take over your brain.
Do not strike the emotion cords before you are ready.
So:
Do not hold hands.
Do not kiss.
Do not hug.
UNTIL you know them well!!!
2006-11-09 16:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-09 16:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋