and at your last altercation called the police because you refuse to leave until he listens. Do you think he will ever call back. In two years he always called back but now I dont think he will. He was acting like he hates me.
2006-11-09 15:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by Smile 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does it really matter? At this point, does it really matter if he wants to call you back or not? Sounds like you two aren't exactly 'meant to be'. Or.. I dunno'. I could be wrong. Maybe you're perfect for one another. (Btw, that wasn't supposed to be an insult. Well.. for the most part it wasn't..)
To answer your question though: Don't hold your breath.
2006-11-09 15:20:41 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
The first question I have for you is: Do you really want him to call you?
In your whole question and explaination you never said that you loved him. I think that you think you love him. You obviously think that he loves you. Which I don't know. But I do know a thing or two about love.
Love makes you so different than you were otherwise, which is a great thing and a horrible thing. When a person is in love they are happy and they never feel alone. But when a person is in love, it doesn't matter how bad things get - because their judgement is clouded. Especially when it comes to the person you are in love with.
I've been in love exactly one time, and thankfully I am still in love and in a relationship. But I thought I was in love one other time. And the guy that loved me was able to tell me those three amazing words on the night that he also confessed he had cheated on me. And because he loved me, I took him back. And a few months later he cheated on me again.
I then realized that if he had truly loved me, he would have never cheated on me in the first place. Just like if your guy really loves you, he would let an arguement get so far that he needed to call the police. He would never get so tired of you that he would kick you out. And he sure as hell wouldn't wait two years (or I'm assuming two days) after an arguement to call you. He would call you the very next day, if not sooner, to straighten things out.
When I thought I was in love, even after I had the courage to brek up with him the second time he cheated, it hurt like hell. And I was incredbly sad for a long time. But eventually I met someone new, and he made me forget all about the cheating guy. He taught me how a lady was supposed to be treated. We only dated for a few weeks, but he was never disrespectful or unkind.
My advice to you is to get out. It will hurt, and it will be incredibly difficult. But is it worth it to stay with a guy that won't listen to you? Is it worth it to stay with a guy who kicks you out o fhis house? Is it truly worth all that drama? Find a guy that deserves you.
I hope this helps, and good luck!
2006-11-10 00:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I wouldn't go back to a man that called the police on me just because I wanted him to hear me out. I wouldn't worry about it and move on.
2006-11-09 23:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dusty R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want him to call u back, if you both just don't get along well?... imagine last time police was involved ... no, no amiga mia, forget that!.I'm pretty sure there are plenty of feelings, except LOVE.
2006-11-09 23:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a rule of thumb...when the cops show up to your door...its a not so subtle way of saying..."I think we should see other people."
2006-11-11 11:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably does.....you seem like a clinger and there are 2 types of women men hate
1. naggers
2. clingers
do yourself a favor...let him go on and move on with your life
2006-11-09 23:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE ITS FOR THE BEST IF THE COPS WERE INVOLVED. IF U LOVE SOMETHING SET IT FREE IF IT COMES BACK, ITS MEANT TO BE. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-09 23:22:29 · answer #7 · answered by sherryw_1978 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋