Family & Relationships - 1 November 2006

I am in a relationship with a man that I adore to high heavens. The thing is I am almost certain that he has been cheating on me and to make things worse he his now in prison.
I’m 19 and my boyfriend is 24. We have been together for just over a year. Our relationship has been going down hill for a couple of months now and He makes me feel as if I am the one to blame.
He has been hanging around with new people who go out stealing and beating people up. And although he had nothing to do with the last incident that happened he has gone down for it.
A drug test was taken at the police station has shown up positive for heroine and cocaine. And as far as I know he has always been anti-drug. He promises me that he has not been taking drugs and I can’t help but doubt him.
Since he has been in prison I have been up to his flat to sort out some of my stuff and I stumbled across some condoms. The thing is we never use condoms. And I cant help but think about the time he told me he cheated

2006-11-01 01:40:42 · 35 answers · asked by lils 1 in Singles & Dating

How many people have you contacted on this sight for a flirtatious or sexy conversation? Cybersex included.Just curious!

2006-11-01 01:40:28 · 17 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

ok here's the deal. i'm bi and my man knows that but he is so insecure. i'm a very sexual person, and he works nights and goes to bed then gets up in time to go to work the next day. we have sex maybe once a week and it is only when HE wants it. granted it is great but i need more. i have even thought of going and getting it elsewhere but i don't want to do that to him!! i have tried to talk to him about it but i'm getting no where what can i do!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-01 01:40:22 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am trying to find a good friend from school.

2006-11-01 01:40:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i lived with this girl for a year and we were the best of friends. but things turned sour between me and the guy we lived with and even though we said we'd go our seperate ways,she ended up moving in with him and another girl from our group who i dont really like. thing is,i've hardly seen my friend since and she doesnt seem to care...she says one thing and then does another or goes back on her word.she can get quite prickly sometimes so i dont know how to broach the subject with her...should i just forget about her or try to talk it out? please help, we're not kids here - we're 24/25!

2006-11-01 01:40:09 · 9 answers · asked by tennesseewhiskey 1 in Friends

jst wanna impress ma partner

2006-11-01 01:40:06 · 5 answers · asked by ven 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going out for a date with a girl I've been seeing now for frequent dates for the last couple of months. We've both had a tough few weeks workwise - both of us travel a lot. She asked me if I want to go out with her on Friday night - I have of course said I'd love to. She has said, as she's always enjoyed going out with me, because I have always chosen interesting places to go and things to do. She has requested that I choose where we should go on Friday night - she says she would like a "fun and entertaining" date. Any suggestions what kind of places we should go to? How about going to the cinema as part of it? And I want to bring her a small "pick me up" present - any suggestions?

2006-11-01 01:38:16 · 10 answers · asked by bovie 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 01:38:03 · 9 answers · asked by cat_4_ivy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 01:37:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

english national married to Tunisian national . ceremony took place in Tunisia. Married for 5 years,(4 years in England). living apart in england for 18 months.

2006-11-01 01:36:22 · 3 answers · asked by Sou sou R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you have read my answers on other laces i have been posting recently it is no surprise my girlfriend is a lot older than me, but she is still BEAUTIFUL,

the thing is, she was my first kiss, i lost my virginity to her, and i have never had any other experience than her

i love to please, i want to know how to make her feel absolutely INCREDIBLE, i love touching her, and using my tongue, and she says all 3 things i do are the best she has ever felt ........ but i want to make it even better, i have had no experience other than guessing while with her ....... how can i make her feel like ...... a little kid who JUST goes to the circus for the first time,

i mean REALLY happy, REALLY good ........ i want to be th absolute best for her, she was ALL of my firsts, and i was a couple of hers, but even if she does know how others feel, i want to be better, she says i am, and how she reacts tells me i am ....... but i want to be absolutely positive

2006-11-01 01:35:49 · 15 answers · asked by scaman 1 in Singles & Dating

do you think it is right for you fiance/hubby/bf to watch porn and get off on it when you are in a happy, sex filled relationship? is this a form of cheating and are all men the same? what kicks do they get? does it mean they are not actually happy with the person they are with? any help would be greatful.

2006-11-01 01:35:15 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was browsing drunk girl pics on a blog yesterday (What can I say.. I'm male, if I wasn't interested in that stuff I'd either be gay or dead) In the photo gallery I saw a nip slip picture of a friend of mine. My friend would neither knowingly allow a picture like this to be taken, nor allow it posted for public view online. It was obviously taken without her knowledge, and she was most likely unaware of the revealing possition of her tank top at the time.

I felt that as her friend I should tell her about the pic and send her a link to see for herself, However I am afraid it would be embarasing to hear about this from her male friend that she knows used to be crushing on her. I am probably one of the last people she would have wanted to see something like this. Damage is done as I emailed her about thislast night.. Did I do the right thing or should I have kept quiet about this?

2006-11-01 01:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by lovpayne 3 in Friends

ones a Good year and ones a great year.

2006-11-01 01:34:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i ran into my ex boyfriend last night. he acted like nothing had jappened between us, walked up to me and said whats up,i was kinda mean to him,he walked away, then he yelled after me to tell my,friend to call him. i shouldn't care but it made me think,that when we were dating,he was cheating with her,her bestfriend even told me stuff she saw them do,but i didn't beleave her. do think something happened between them?

2006-11-01 01:32:37 · 14 answers · asked by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 in Singles & Dating

right im 16 and female my parents are sooo over protective towards me than when my brother was 16 he was allowed to go out pretty much when he wanted and was treated more as an adult I don't undrstand y im not it really anoys because im startin to lie to my parents so that I actually can go out Ive told them this but they say we are treated the same and were not what cn i do??

2006-11-01 01:31:48 · 30 answers · asked by imcoolendof123 1 in Friends

I'm 15, 5'8", brown hair, and brown eyes!

I'm in Bradenton, Florida!

2006-11-01 01:30:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(w810i) Im quite poor but my brother got crushed by a car and got alot of money from the insurance, he said he was gonna get me the mobile(lives in dif. country) but I can't wait any longer than friday, so my my idea was for my mum to buy the mobile now and my bro. to give her the money back later. But she doesn't accept. What shall I do? How do I persway her to get me the mobile?

thank you for your help

2006-11-01 01:29:07 · 26 answers · asked by jewl 32 2 in Family

2006-11-01 01:28:37 · 10 answers · asked by lilblond120 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not imature but everyone has there moments! Anyways, I was going to be a mom but I miscarried at three months, me and my fiance were so excited and happy, but when I miscarried we were so sad. Alot changed after that, because of my age I was forced to move away from him, I love him so much, I never wanted to leave him....but then I got on his e-mail address because I had a bad feeling about us not living together and I found the most painful e-mail to this girl, he told her he wants to be with her and she said she loved him....I don't no what to do or to be mad or hurt (i'm kind of both) they want to meet in person soon to "have there first kiss" he don't no I have his password and if I told him he would turn this around on me! What should I do? What would you do??? please don't give me mean answers my heart hurts enouph as it is! Thank you so much.....

2006-11-01 01:28:28 · 23 answers · asked by ~*Hurt*~and~*Confussed*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is 29 I am 35 and we've been married for 4 yrs and I have two kids from other marriages,15yr old girl and 10 yr old boy. We have a 3yr old boy with defiant issues. It been a hard 4yrs. Went to counseling and this helped for a while.
Now back to the old ways.He doesnt feel FIRST in my life and he gets his feeling hurt so easily cries when we argue. I know I am not the easiest to live with but, for the most part I am more laid back and labeled "catalyst" (free and trying to please) my hubby is a "organizer" (wants things to be in place and right) We are total oppossites.
I feel like I walk on egg shells all the time because I never know what has hurt his feelings this time. it may be the age difference and that I've been through two marriages before him and this is his first. I know he is insecure but and I try to put him first but when you have a job, 3 kids, 2 dogs other family and friends its really hard. Any suggestions? He's a good man-but there is no fun left

2006-11-01 01:27:30 · 10 answers · asked by ROOTER 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There are 8 of us going away for mums birthday and we wanted to have a surprise party for her but my dad wants us to dress up. He has came up with the waltons as we can't think of any other famous people or families with that many people!! Help me please I don't want to be Mary Ellen!!

2006-11-01 01:27:26 · 17 answers · asked by mrsjingles26 2 in Friends

I have had a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for about 5 years now. He lives about 300 miles from me, we talk a few times a week, and we see each other about 2 or 3 times a month.He is unhappy in his job and really wants to move out of his small town and start a new life. So we have been talking for a few months about him moving into my house here in Atlanta. Last night, he called me saying he wants to move in next week. I am really nervous because I have never lived with a man other than my father. I am excited because I love him dearly and would do anything to help him out, but I'm also scared because I don't want to completely have to change my habits and lifestyle to accomodate another person. This is a major turning point in our relationship. I am looking for advice from people that have been in a similar situation. I do not want to hear about the moral or religious side of "shacking up" please, I grew up Catholic so I know. Any pointers to save my sanity?

2006-11-01 01:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by Shoddy 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure if this is a violation against the Yahoo rules, but I'm doing it anyway.

First of all, thank you all who applied my first question. Your cheerful opinions honestly did not help me because That's what I have been telling myself for the past two years.

Maybe I should make myself more clear. The thing is:

I don't hate my job, I have a dream job as far as many concerned. I just don't want to work any more. I have worked all my life so far for the "American Dream". Now I find no point to do so.

I don't want to tell my family and friends anything. I find their concern unbearable.

I never really spread myself too thin for anyone. Now I just stop caring all together.

I find myself lying to people just have them get off my back.

I have no faith in god nor do I want to seek any religeous refuge. I feel it is pointless.

This has been growing inside me for 2 years. I begin to start act how I feel.

2006-11-01 01:24:39 · 13 answers · asked by Victorious Secret 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This man met my 16 yr old daughter through an equestrian facility and has been freinds with her for a couple years. He recently admitted to having an ongoing relationship with a 15 yr old girl. If I report him, I'll alienate my daughter. I know he has been trying to "groom" my daughter. I cut off all communications between them but realize she can easily set up an email account and continue to correspond with him in secret. I am just sick about this but don't know what to do. Any advise besides the obvious "just shoot him" would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-01 01:24:17 · 32 answers · asked by worried dad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boss is also my father in law and sometimes he gets into these moods where he acts like I have committed a crime and hates me. He yells cusses and second guesses my every move. I have worked for him for 10 years and he can be so demeaning. I have a tendency to get angry and sull up, but don't ever say anything to him because he is kinda scary. Any suggestions?

2006-11-01 01:24:05 · 14 answers · asked by MC Workin 1 in Family

i cant go out... but i wanna make him remember the day forever... n if it is possible to go out how can i celebrate...?

2006-11-01 01:23:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-01 01:23:08 · 22 answers · asked by saloneeki 1 in Singles & Dating

MY HUSBAND JUST CAME BY MY WORK AND "HOOKED" ME UP, SO TO SPEAK. WAS ANYBODY ELSE AS FORTUNATE THIS MORNING?

2006-11-01 01:22:29 · 26 answers · asked by LIPPS 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-01 01:22:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating