Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

It has been a year sine we have been apart and I am still struggling to get over him. Mainly because we still talk and see each other. I want to be with him but he continues to talk to the other girl. What should I do to move on?

2006-10-31 01:16:14 · 18 answers · asked by slim2 2 in Singles & Dating

and now I smoke on a regular basis there, so I have been able to make him think the smoke smell is from the bar..but, now I want to smoke regularly in front of him...I am tired of sneaking...I want to light up whenever I want...when we are together....need suggestions....he is a nonsmoker and I respect that, but I am not a non-smoker anymore.

2006-10-31 01:14:36 · 21 answers · asked by julie s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to lift up your skirt, pull down your panties and NAIL IT FROM BEHIND when you get home.

2006-10-31 01:14:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That's what my dad said, he said once, that he picks up women like he does a six pack, with 2 fingers. How is that possible?

2006-10-31 01:13:49 · 9 answers · asked by Too Young To Know 1 in Family

i'm not overweight!!! do i need to change my look? or be sexier. how do i change my look? how should i dress???? help me out!!!!!

2006-10-31 01:12:35 · 19 answers · asked by myreallove 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 01:11:46 · 13 answers · asked by angela t 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, can I have some opinions on why some guys don't want you, but don't want someone else to have you?

2006-10-31 01:10:18 · 15 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

Will I have to go without power or will they just leave it on and change the name thats on the account. I'm 3 months behind he is doing this so they wont cut off our power.

2006-10-31 01:10:11 · 9 answers · asked by SR 76 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Every guys love me and had went out with me, the problem is my mom kept saying stop going out and just pick one! I was so mad at her! i love one of the guy, his name is Dale he's so sweet and caring, my mom don't like him and he want me to be his GF and my mom won't accept it! I think and Dale think my mom is pyscho! what should i do to make my mom accept who he is! I'm so tired of it! HELP

2006-10-31 01:09:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

1.My mother doesn’t believe in ghost and 2weeks ago she/my father heard footsteps, it sounded like someone is walking barefoot and the same with my sister in-law, she also doesn’t believe but she heard it 1:00 Saturday morning. So the physic said it’s a little girl that was between the ages of 13-14 when she died and she’s very mischievous and now she is also very bored that’s why we can hear her. The psychic asked her why she is there and she said she wants to make my parents aware of the spirit world.

2.My guide: my grandfather, that’s nice to know and when I get my first child that will be a boy I’ll get another guide namely Yornel, he will become a important influence in my family life.

3.I get Goose-bumps all the time! She said I must get my thyroid checked, nothing serious but it’s a little bit overactive and the funny thing is, I do have problems with my thyroid and she didn’t even know it, I’ve said nothing!



More to tell, but personal. Your verdict?

2006-10-31 01:08:32 · 5 answers · asked by confussie 3 in Friends

Ok here's the thing; my ex and I were a couple for 5 years. During those times were turbulent because we fought alot and it triggered my depression (crying spells, self mutilation, etc.) He wasn't the kind to be sympathetic towards me or anything like that. So anyway, we got into a fight over trust.

When he had officially broken up he went on a sex spree and rubbed it in my face ("she's better in bed than you, she looks better than you, etc.) I seriously contemplated killing both of them but I realized it wasn't worth it. Instead I drank heavily and cried alot.

Well, we reunited for a bit and separated because of the fighting; so I hooked up with an old friend. He found out about and told me I should go to hell because I didn't tell him. I was like why should i confess anything if we weren't together. He had broken up with me and should have kept it to myself. He said he wasn't sorry for what he did and i said i wasn't sorry either.

Now I feel like crap; why me?

2006-10-31 01:08:02 · 21 answers · asked by Dovegrl357 2 in Singles & Dating

There seems to be two types of people in marriages. The first type is a person who can have friends of every sex but it never dawns on that person to have an affair. Even when the going is tough, the first type just says, well, that's life, no one is perfect" and continues in the relationship. The second type believes that a relationship is like shoes. When worn out, get a new pair or if it rains and your shoes get soaked and squeaky, throw them away rather than put them out in the sun and let them dry out and become your favorite shoe again. Maybe you have a better analogy.

2006-10-31 01:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm constantly meeting women who sit around and complain about how they wish they could find a guy that would do this and that. (i.e. the romantic stuff) But yet when they have it, they either run away from it or assume that any guy that would do things like, open doors, bring flowers, compliment them, etc, is automatically trying to get laid!

Do women have no faith in the fact that there are good men out there that will respect them and treat them like they should be treated!

Why do they pass up the good guy to go out with or stay with the jerk they know will treat them like #^$%!!!??

2006-10-31 01:07:06 · 13 answers · asked by David 2 in Singles & Dating

we used 2 go out and we still hang out and i still like him or love him. Sometimes i catch him staring at me, and and stuff. He still likes me a lil and we flirt a lil but is it love? i didint see him 4 6 days and i was all sad but i seen him yesterday and i was happy but acted lik i wasnt.He makes me smile and laugh. when he give me hugs i feel happy and remember when we used 2 go out. His eyes are so adorable and i can stare into them all day, when we held hands i felt lik i was free. he still likes me but i want to kno wat i feel is lik or love? What should i do act him bac out or move on ? did i fall 4 Eddy?

2006-10-31 01:06:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not sexually attracted to my b/f. He is fantastic and i can't imagine life without him however i can't imagine life without sexual attraction.The sexual and romantic/physical attraction go hand in hand and it feels like i can not hang onto the romantic attraction anymore as the sexual attraction was never really there.It has created so many problems and we always try spicing it up,he knows how to satisfy me however i never feel completely satified because it becomes a burden and effort and not natural and spontanious rush of hormones.I love him dearly but it's fading day by day because of this.I don't know what to do and don't want to loose him.Please help.I have not told him of the problem because it will make him feel inferior and worthless and i can not bear to do that.He already feels so insecure and his self asteem is incredably low now because of the problems we having in our sexual relationship..he can feel that something is horribly wron

2006-10-31 01:04:38 · 26 answers · asked by Bubbalove 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats the big deal with leaving the toilet seat up or down and why are women so fussy about it? there has to be a reason why the damn seat is adjustable, a guy will lift it to take a pee and lower it to take a crap!

Ladies please fell free to explain this home wrecker of an obsession.

2006-10-31 01:02:11 · 11 answers · asked by fzee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what happens when a divorced couple with children remarry? Does the stepparent have implied access or rights due to the remarriage of the biological parent?

2006-10-31 01:02:01 · 6 answers · asked by bsweat1058 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like a guy, that has a gf. But, she is kinda not nice towards him and others. She doesn't like to talk to anyone else, when she is ready to go. If you say hi to her, she is rude about it. Is it okay that I like him? He is so sweet and cute. He deserves alot better

2006-10-31 01:01:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 01:00:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really want to date his friends but not him.

2006-10-31 01:00:37 · 7 answers · asked by myreallove 1 in Singles & Dating

tonight is the first night i am talking to him while he is in there and i dont know what to say...?

2006-10-31 01:00:25 · 14 answers · asked by skayy 2 in Singles & Dating

You meet a lovely woman, she's gorgeous, intelligent, funny and sexy. You can see this going somewhere - and on the outside this all looks brilliant but... under her sweater she's hiding a mastectomy and breast reconstruction. Would this put you off? When would you have wanted to be told? Would she wait until sex was on the cards or tell you on the first date (yes, I know that can be the same thing!!!)

I'd be very interested in a mans perspective on this or any female real-life experiences. I'd prefer the honest answers, not necessarily the most 'pc' or senstive ones.

Mx.

2006-10-31 01:00:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 00:59:42 · 13 answers · asked by Intellithug 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i got a D and now my mom is threating me to take my phone away if i dont raise it up to a B but that is really hard to do becuase the class is so hard and i can never get it all done and she just piles on the home work and the work and it is super hard!

2006-10-31 00:58:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

some one tell me. what are my options

2006-10-31 00:57:54 · 2 answers · asked by l-way 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is going on with you women these days? Myself, and many younger guys like myself are noticing a lot of girls our age are dating middle-aged blokes. Is this just a London thing or was it recommended in some daffy women's magazine lately, so now every bird in England is dumping their boyfriends to play house with guys old enough to be their father. It is irritating because it is starting to become noticable, and nobody is explaining to us why this is going on. Obviously, it's something beyond the individual relationship I had with my girlfriend, because as I said, it's happening to a lot of people I know as well. Answers please!

2006-10-31 00:57:44 · 10 answers · asked by Jumpin' Jack Flash 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents don't like my boy friend we love each other and plan to get married and start a family. My parents hate his guts . We've been going out 4 2 years. What should i do is there anyway i had sign a marriage licence my self i don't care what my parents think about my boyfriend. all that matters is that we love each other a lot. Im adopted and am 17 is there any way i could live without my adopted parents .like divorce my parents and live with foster parents.

2006-10-31 00:56:44 · 15 answers · asked by Flaca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

been 2getha 4 1\2 years not married, got 1daughter together aged 31\2 ive got 8 year old boy 16 year old girl both live with us.
for past 6 mths he has been watching porn any chance he gets, even on odd occasion we have sex! he looks at women undressing them with his eyes even wen im with him,,he has always had bad temper but he is starting to get violent with me, he has started to shout at kids over nothing, it feels like hes got a split personality.when hes nice its great to have him around, but lately i cant wait till he goes to work, i really do love him to bits but cant stop thinking hes having an affair, i have asked him but denies it. other than put a tap on his mobile or follow him what can i do?

2006-10-31 00:56:13 · 17 answers · asked by thunderball 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been seperated for about six months but still live in the same house. We sleep in different rooms and she is the one who asked for the seperation becuase she has somethings she has to figure out. we have been together for 11 years married for 2 of them. I just recently started going out with friends and returning to feel like i use to. since i have been going out i have been talking with a co worker who is attracted to me and knows a little about my situation. she just wants to hang out nothing more but i cant get past the guilt i feel for hanging out with her. I am i wrong? should i not hang out with her? My wife has told me many of times that the physical and romantic part of our relationship is done and that we are just friends. But for some reason i feel so guilty and stressed out to talk with this other woman.

2006-10-31 00:55:50 · 10 answers · asked by lost 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...would you believe they know ANYTHING about the opposite sex?

2006-10-31 00:54:36 · 14 answers · asked by zenbuddhamaster 4 in Other - Family & Relationships