It has been a year sine we have been apart and I am still struggling to get over him. Mainly because we still talk and see each other. I want to be with him but he continues to talk to the other girl. What should I do to move on?
2006-10-31 01:16:14 · 18 answers · asked by slim2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all if you were together for 8 years and he never asked you to marry him I think that should have been your first clue that he did not want o spend the rest of his life with you.. Second most men are pigs and when they see a cute 18 year old that has the hots for them they are going to go for it.. it is that whole man thing...
2006-10-31 01:19:36 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's too difficult to continue to see and talk to someone who u still care about. You need to separate yourself from him in order to get over him. If you really needed to diet u wouldn't hang out in a bakery would u? So that is the first step and then the second is not to sit around thinking of what could have been, remember the fact that he left u for another woman. (or should I say girl) You are giving him the easy way out .........he leaves u yet he still has u waiting on the sidelines while he pursues someone else. Have more pride in yourself and show him u are not going to sit around waiting for him to choose u second best whenever he feels like it. Move on so u can find someone who values u. I know its very very difficult but u could be missing out on meeting someone who will really value u while u are hanging out waiting for a guy that is probably only going to hurt u in the end.
2006-10-31 09:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm surprised that he didn't go out with a 16 year old. So, now your ex-man is lookin' at chicks who are either in their Sr. year of H.S or in their Freshman year of college. He really wants to get arrested for rape.
It's no surprise that he did marry you within those eight years, 'cause he's a jerk. Don't worry about it. When the 18 year old girl breaks up with him, you'll have the last laugh. He'll finally realize that he was missing out on something good, and that those 8 years weren't a waste.
2006-10-31 09:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lavina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite obvious he wants to keep the door open in case he decides to come back to you.
Keep it to casual talk, don't look for him and show him that you have a life apart from him. Be a little mysterious but never impolite.
This situation will eventually settle, but you gotta ask yourself: do you want him back?
2006-10-31 09:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by ale_limp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. quit playing what hicks call"grabass" This guy was a bad seed from the get go he's shallow and beauty is age,skin,trophy deep. Im a Man And ill say it 75% unless very cereberal are walking balls that fart burp and hog the tv and the sports are more imortant, than your cat died. there are women just as eveel.
2006-10-31 09:32:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a guy to do that to a girl, is pretty harsh. he may have and may still genuinely love you. but that scares him and he still wants to be free and have fun and not want to grow old. i think that love thing is keeping him in contact with you, but its not fair on you. its obviously tearing you apart. the only way you can get over him and move on is to cut him out of your life totally. otherwise, as third eye blind put it in "the background", 'cos you come swimming into view and im hanging on your words like i always used to do'. he saying everytime you see that person all the old feeling come flooding back. that why you have to cut them out of your life. hope this helped
2006-10-31 09:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still hot? Maybe at 18 she has a better body than you do at 27.
2006-10-31 09:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hard, but you've got to find someone else, yourself. Once you get into a new relationship, you will find happiness and you will eventually forget about him. He left you once and he would probably do it again, so try to accept that he is not the one for you.
2006-10-31 09:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a dumbass. hes obviously immature if hes looking for an 18 year old. are you kidding me? thats pretty messed up. after 8 years he just up and starts hitting high schools? wow. cool guy. hes a moron. find yourself a guy with a brain. and not the brain in his penis.
2006-10-31 09:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by SpinKick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your hair done go to the spa and relax forget about him and if you are ready find yourself a new man that will treat you better best of luck and enjoy the man search
2006-10-31 09:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋