i really want to date his friends but not him.
2006-10-31 01:00:37 · 7 answers · asked by myreallove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm just not attracted to him.
2006-10-31 01:02:09 · update #1
Golden rule.
Treat others as you would want to be treated.
How would you want to be treated in this situation?
2006-10-31 01:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by timc_fla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know u just don't see him that way, but u need to do it in a way that won't hurt his feelings, because if he loves u then it will hurt him. You could tell him u value his friendship and are not going to jeopardize it by getting involved intimately. I think the thing that makes him want u more is the fact that u are dating his friends. Maybe try dating outside of his circle because that would be very hard for him to watch since he does care about u. If you care about him as a friend at least try to spare him pain that is unnecessary. Be firm though, don't let him think there might be a chance. Good Luck :-)
2006-10-31 09:10:27 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he ask you out? if he hasn't then there is no point worrying over nothing. Just forget about him and face your life squarely. Date whoever you want to date too.
2006-10-31 09:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know about your feelings straight. Dn't take too much time that he imagine a lot of things and make his mind more swift!
Do it in a way that you won't loose his friendship. Make him understand.
2006-10-31 09:04:00 · answer #4 · answered by littlehearts13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM you have no other choice he is going to find out sooner or later
2006-10-31 09:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by mustang64093gt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell your friend the truth.
2006-10-31 09:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date his friends ?
how many ?
sounds bitchy to me
2006-10-31 09:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by Martin the baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋