i'm not overweight!!! do i need to change my look? or be sexier. how do i change my look? how should i dress???? help me out!!!!!
2006-10-31 01:12:35 · 19 answers · asked by myreallove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm, that is a little weird. I think you should start making the moves. Are you and A student? An overachiever? A strong Christian? These things may intimidate the average guy, so you make the move.
2006-10-31 01:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by pda_tech_guy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It probably has less to do with your looks and more to do with your decisions. Decide to quit focusing on meeting someone and get involved in life. Don't expect others to come to you...be friendly and get out there and meet people. A relationship is sure to follow.
I am blessed in the looks department too. But I have had dry spells in the past. I noticed that I was wondering why guys weren't busting down my door. Beautiful females, if they are too reserved, come accross as unapproachable. Men can be very intimidated and just assume youre not interested. Show some personality and the guys will swarm! :-)
2006-10-31 09:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Scunnered! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is be yourself! I am a guy and that is what I like in a girl. You might try some different clothes, but don't try to be something you're not. Sounds like you need to put yourself in places where guys will notice you. Get your friends to introduce you to some people. Find a good church in an urban area. Go out in public as much as you can and be sure to show that you are available. When you see a guy you like, smile and keep good eye contact. If nothing else, go up and start a conversation. When all else fails, pray about it and it will all take shape!
2006-10-31 09:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be your self ..... to find someone who you will enjoy being with .... you can always playact or play dress up or dress down to get .... company!
If you seek a real companion ...it may be you appear to others as "stand offish" or unapprochable.......be a people watcher ... see what the person your interested in does, how he reacts to things ...then try a little flirting ...try to be alittle less guarded with your speech and more random and open ..... give the poor guy a clue about you so he knows what to talk about .... just aviod feminine protection products .... most guys will back off that subject!
Work on be casual, more open ....... mingle with folks...invest the time in the social graces ...it will pay off !
Or just wear a really short skirt that covers nothing a push up bra and find the local bar ...you'll catch something! I just hope it can be cured by a pill or shot.
Happy Hunting !
2006-10-31 09:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, thinking you need to change your looks is wrong. I believe you are pretty, but that isn't the issue. You thinking it is, could be part of the problem. Go into a bar and look around. There are a ton of UGLY chicks getting hit on left and right. Often they make the first move. Do that yourself, make the first move. Get HIS attention. Go up and talk to someone if you like them. Regardless of what you might have been taught, guys to like girls to make the first move, it is ok. It's actually kind of flattering. So do it, try it and see what happens.
2006-10-31 09:32:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man we notice the girls who dress on the slutty side sure but that doesnt mean that we want to date a slutty girl. We also want you to be yourself. So my advice is dont change your look just maybe approach more men and start conversations. You will only meet someone if you talk to them.
2006-10-31 09:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by steve0stac 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might not be you looks, it might be where you hang out. You need to find a environment that work to your likeness and cuteness for some people it a bar other it a coffee house. I find that if you try place that make you look good and feel good more people tend to hook up.. Please do not worry about you looks be who you are that what counts.. good luck
2006-10-31 09:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is really no problem.. dont concern yourself about this too much,, just be yourself , find someone that will like you not because of your look or body but your attitude.. and i dodnt think there is really any problem with your confidence. you said you believe your pretty.. maybe your too pretty that guys are now intimated to even ask you out.Lol!
2006-10-31 09:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by IneedHelp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing what you look like it's a bit hard to suggest what to change if anything needs changed..
2006-10-31 09:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont change who you are. You will find that guy that loves you for who you are, how you dress and what your favorite color is. You will be ok. Dont stress over it. Your time will come.
2006-10-31 09:15:29 · answer #10 · answered by Saints friend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋