Every guys love me and had went out with me, the problem is my mom kept saying stop going out and just pick one! I was so mad at her! i love one of the guy, his name is Dale he's so sweet and caring, my mom don't like him and he want me to be his GF and my mom won't accept it! I think and Dale think my mom is pyscho! what should i do to make my mom accept who he is! I'm so tired of it! HELP
2006-10-31 01:09:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
love, if your mom is psycho then all the moms on the earth is psycho. She is perfectly normal and all she wants is to take care of you. probably you are still under-age. you have not mentioned your age.
honey, if you feel that you are more comfortable with your bf then tell your mom so and ask her the reasons why she does not like him? then weigh them properly and do not discuss this with your bf, he might carry the grudge against your mom through out the life if at all he becomes your husband. you must learn what to say and where.
right dear. good luck to you.
2006-10-31 01:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ashok Chavda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, are you over 18 ? If so, just tell Mom it's my life, it would be nice if you were at least civil to Dale, but, I'll make my own decisions, thank you. If you are underage, I would try to avoid Mom with Dale around.
The bottom line is that you cannot make anyone do anything. That person has to decide to change on their own. You can't make your Mom accept Dale or even your decision. That is life, not just with your Mom.
Personally, it sounds like your mom is worried about your ' reputation '. That is why she told you to pick one. In the end, you have to live your own life, do what you feel is the correct thing. If she did a decent job of raising you, you will do the right thing. Just remember, USE PROTECTION, EVERY TIME.
2006-10-31 09:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by yodeladyhoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i'm in the same situation as you, i've been with my BF for 5 yrs, and my mom also hates him, but you know what, it's my life and if i'm happy then she just needs to accept that, what can she do??? Nothing, its not like she can trade you for another daughter.
Talk to her, ask her if its happiness she wants you to have, and tell her that he makes you happy. Honesty is the best policy. But as long as he does treat you right, cause moms do have this instinct about their daughters. But if Dale doesn't respesct your mother, and thinks she's pyscho, then your mother has reason to be this way.
Hang in there i'm sure things will sort themselves out :)
2006-10-31 09:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by trixyt1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom wants what is best for you. She doesn't want you to get a bad reputation so she doesn't want you dating a bunch of different guys. As with Dale, think about how he looks to your mom. Is he clean? Respectful? Well spoken? If he's not, there is the problem. Or she may think you are going to get too serious too fast. She's just looking out for you, don't turn away her help too quickly.
2006-10-31 09:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Susanne T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EVERY GUY LOVES YOU? This is probably why you mother won't let you date. You fall in love to fast. She is right, just pick one before you get a reputation (but i have a feeling you already have one. It sounds like the boys are lining up to date you). Trust me, your mom is not psycho, but right on this one. Why don't you try being friends first for awhile before you start dating them (all). You mother is only trying to protect you. I don't think your going to get hurt in love though because it sounds like there is another boy there for you as soon as one dumps you. I still can't get over that EVERY guy loves you. Something in that sentence just stirs me the wrong way. You sound young, I wonder if you have female friends or do you have time for friends with all your dating?
2006-10-31 09:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Girls M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He WANT you to be his girlfriend. My advice? Stay in school (I'm assuming you are really young) and pay attention to your teachers. Learn how to properly form a question and write so that you can be understood and taken as an intelligent young lady. That is what is important in life. Stop focusing on finding a boyfriend and put that focus on YOU. Become the best person you can be. Good Luck.
2006-10-31 09:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moms are Moms. Normally seen that when parents make opinions about their childrens friends, they refused to change it. Its going to be difficult for you, if you want to have some relations with that guy. All the best.
2006-10-31 09:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by mohini r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
come on, I dont love you. Not at all.
You are probably just a common girl, who is not really popular among guys.
nice try !
well you should not listen to your mum, just do what you want to do and dont believe in yourself too much.
2006-10-31 09:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by Martin the baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your mum wants the best for you,try to make her reason with you(no arrogance)
2006-10-31 09:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your mom has some reasons,talk to her ...
2006-10-31 09:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by nemo_x00x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋