Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

I have been happily married for 4 years together for 8. We have 2 beautiful kids together. Anyways lately actually for the past 2 months hes been going out like 4 times a week he works a lot and I never get to see him. Anyways he always comes home at a pretty reasonable hour. But my ? to you all is how do I talk to him about staying home with his family without causing a fight or to seem like I am nagging him???

2006-10-25 15:29:37 · 33 answers · asked by littlemama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you even casually ask them about who was on the phone or where they were, they start to feel caged.

2006-10-25 15:29:19 · 4 answers · asked by rita d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've been married 5.5 yrs and pregnant with our 3 child due in may
My husband is self employed and works 2x aweek if im lucky. he also works on the weekends at a bar as a bouncer and makes nothing worth saying. what do i do with him i love him so much but i believe he should bring home a decent weeks worth salary and possibly get a real job that pays the bills. he tells me oh im trying to make my business work... well if he is he should be out there at least 4 or 5x's a week.. ladies anyone out there in my situation or similar and have any advise??

2006-10-25 15:28:47 · 19 answers · asked by flmom26 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my friends sister has been hitting on me for some time now and she really doesnt hold back and feeling she has for me, I had a talk with my friend about the subject and he said he doesnt care if i do go out with her, I would like your input on this subject cause im not sure what would happen if the relationship didnt work out!

2006-10-25 15:28:32 · 6 answers · asked by Jeremy F 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 15:28:05 · 11 answers · asked by Mel 4 in Singles & Dating

So here is the story. I met this girl when i was taking a math course at a college in the summer time. I've been talking to her for about 3 months now. She is always bothering me and leaving me little messages on my facebook account and things like that. But when i asked her if she would like to date me she told me that our friendship was way to important and she did not want to hurt me or loose me. Now if that is the truth then why does she send me mixed signals and flirt so much. I mean am i missing something or am i just missreading her. I dont even know which way to move anymore. O and she constantly invites me to visit her. Someone please tell me what i should do. Haha guess im just a little confused.

2006-10-25 15:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by cuteindianjoker 1 in Friends

wELL I aM nOT aLLOWED tO dATE bUT i aM aND i dON'T wANT tO liE tO mY mOM aNY lONGER.. sO wHAT sHOULD i do?

2006-10-25 15:27:31 · 29 answers · asked by Ja 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 15:26:39 · 3 answers · asked by Sexy L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 15:24:32 · 13 answers · asked by Frederic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance` and I are both around 24 years old and planning to get married this upcoming summer. As you all know Christmas is just around the corner. I wanted to do something different this year for Christmas because it will be our last Christmas together before we get married. I want to do something that he will always remember. Something that when we are 150 years old sitting on the front porch in our rocking chairs together, he looks me in the eyes and says "Do you remember the Christmas before we got married when...." Any suggestions?

2006-10-25 15:23:39 · 4 answers · asked by Chelle24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex wants me to go out with a guy that HE CHOOSE! im still not sure if i should go thru with it because i don;t think that im over him!!! What do i do!

2006-10-25 15:22:46 · 10 answers · asked by kellydarcey 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u do when a girl says she wants 2 see what you will do to her if she doesnt pickup your calls. pls help what can i do to her that will make her feel bad for the moment but i will apologise

2006-10-25 15:22:10 · 8 answers · asked by CodeNameTube 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the best way out? She doesn't know where I live but keeps bugging me on my cell number. I don't want to get a new number. I have to turn the phone off when I'm at the bar it is so annoying. I'm still driving the Tahoe and they can't find me out of state. I'm gonna just let her pay because she has perfect credit and mine is thrashed. She co-signed me because I told her my credit was bad due to identity theft. I dumped her because she didn't drink and wouldn't give me oral services so she was boring. I don't think she can sue me because she signed on the loan and there are only 23 months left for her to pay? Or should I just leave it in Newark in a colored neighborhood and let it get stripped ?

2006-10-25 15:21:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He pursued me, big time..said he loved me and wanted to marry me. I spent a few days with him at his place and he spent a week with me after that. He came to see me the weekend of his class reunion and I didn't know he was going to it. He spent Friday night with me, class reunion was Sat. night, he left Sunday morning, then the following Fri. I received an email stating he was breaking up with me. Through prayer, I asked for closure..I remembered his password to his email and once I opened it up, all these emails from another woman came up. He took her to his class reunion and he went to her after he left my apartment that Sunday morning and spent Sun. and Mon. night with her. He called me Tuesday night letting me know he got home and said he loved me..which he also told me the weekend he spent with me. This man is 63 years old..so I ask, what type of a man would think and act like this? He was just divorced in April after 38 years of marriage..I was not around when this started.

2006-10-25 15:21:33 · 21 answers · asked by #10 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night I talked with my so called bf and ask him why are we even together?? We used to live together. We dont anymore cuz I am tired of all his stupid stuff. At times he makes me so mad.. I sometimes feel that he's driving me crazy.He asks if I am the only one that does stuff wrong. Even when I am right about stuff. I have caught him lies and he tells me that I have lost my mind. I told him last night that I wanted him to leave and not come back. He left but like that helped cuz today he came back here and if I dont let him in he acts all crazy like I have another man in my house. Please what makes me want another man when I cant even get rid of him.. He is driving me nuts.. Any opinions????

2006-10-25 15:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by Be wise 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-25 15:19:53 · 9 answers · asked by tam 1 in Singles & Dating

sooo

2006-10-25 15:19:52 · 14 answers · asked by GIrl 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have a question and alot of you might think I want nothing to do with my children but that is not true, I live in Texas and Im getting a devorce I have 2 children and I want to sign over my rights to my ex wife is there a form or a web side that I can go on, please dont judge me I have a very good resond for this, thank you for your help Richard

2006-10-25 15:19:44 · 8 answers · asked by kforkarin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 15:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by covergirl1303 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my step-sister, who usually doesn't like to be bothered when upset is in her room crying, well more like sobbing. I want to see whats wrong but last time i did she blew up at me. Its really upsetting me, i can hear her from my room. what should i do?

2006-10-25 15:19:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is in my driveway every day and talks about how his mother and sister treat him.he is 60 years old and very lonely.what would you tell him.how do you get rid of someone like this? i need advise I Have things to do .what would you tell him?

2006-10-25 15:18:58 · 5 answers · asked by joejoe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've known a guy for about a year or so...well, not really known him...he 's in my school this year as he was the last. we had some classes together, but never really talked to eachother b/c we never sat next to eachother. i notice him looking at me sometimes, this year and the last..and when i look at him, he shyly looks away. i have a crush on him 2, but i dont say anything about it. this year, we have art together and sit next to eachother. he talks to me, but not a lot, and i still see him looking at me and smirking. and when i look at him, he looks away. we started talking a little more and he cracks a couple of friendly jokes, but it still seems awkward when he stares at me...does he have a crush on me?

2006-10-25 15:18:35 · 12 answers · asked by LavenderLover 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 15:18:16 · 16 answers · asked by kcpaull 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-25 15:18:12 · 6 answers · asked by xinnybuxlrie 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a friend who owes $100k of hospital bills, she had insurance but the insurance will not pay for what they call a non-emergency situation which i disagree, my friend had a cancer, stage 2 so it was treated two-three months of chemo and radiation theraphy. She work and a husband who works and they make around $45k/year. They only have one dependent.

With all that said, is there any way they can get out of debt?
Or is there any way they can get help with that hospital bill that they owe?
What can they do to get help?

The hospital that they owe money to wont cooperate and I guess they want my friend to pay it off right away. My friend cannot do that because most of their pay checks go to their bills also. Medicaid didnt accept my friend's application either. I dont know what else they can do.

Anyone?

2006-10-25 15:17:32 · 7 answers · asked by o0_gandayan_0o 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A "friend" of mine claimed he was setting me up with a girl (with the name of Chelsea). The girl and I only talked on the phone. I was told after the fact there was a surprise birthday party and she was there willing and ready to get busy. I naturally missed it. She made me break up with someone I wasn't seeing anyway. (laugh if you must)

I began talking to his ex-GF (with the the name of Julie) later on the next month. Something about her voice sounded familiar but didn't make the connection. I realized with about 99% certainty it was her I was actually talking to over the phone on my birthday. He told me Chelsea was living with Julie. (!)

This tells me my surprise birthday party never actually happened. The girl who he was alledgely setting me up with did not exist. My best guess it was a practical joke with no end. It was a big lie.

2006-10-25 15:17:22 · 13 answers · asked by TheSkeptic 3 in Singles & Dating

I got pregnant by my bf when I was 17. Up to that time his mom really did like me. But when I had my baby all of that changed. Mrs Wilson voiced many times that she doesnt think Brianna is Jeff's baby. I have only had sex with him & although I believe Jeffrey trusts me when we get in2 an argument her suspisions sometimes r expressed by him & I HATE that. She has not at all been in Brianna's life & is only focusing on what school Jeff is going to (he has pending football scholorships) not even taking into account that he has a 9 month old daughter & I cant get her 2 realize that. Im so heartbroken about this situation
b/c Brianna is a beautiful girl & I really think she needs to have her grandmother in her life, b/c although she has been a b***h she is a good woman. I have a very strong personality & Jeff doesnt, which is why I think that he is afraid to confront the situation period. This is really getting on my damn nerves & she better get in2 Brianna's life b4 its too late.

2006-10-25 15:16:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 15 ,she is 14 .. they really dont like me.. i dont no why.. .please help

2006-10-25 15:15:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year now (we're both juniors in high school and on drumline). But latly I've been feeling bored because nothing we do together is new, and I know I don't love him as much as I used to or as much as he loves me. I feel guilty enough about that. But then I started getting to know this other guy on drumline and we became really good friends, only now I have a huge crush on him. Well a few days ago he asked out the girl that he likes (not on drumline), which of course bummed me out since we'd flirted alot. Well then we were talking the day after they started going out, and he eventually made me confess that I liked him. Well, he told me to my surprise that he likes me too, more than his current gf, and that he wished he would have met me before he liked his gf, because he would rather be dating me. We both really like each other, and both of us refuse to cheat on our partners. I feel horrible inside because I don't want to hurt my bf.

2006-10-25 15:14:34 · 5 answers · asked by coolgirl15whatever 2 in Singles & Dating

She lives out of state, rarely comes home. All she wants is the attention of everyone around her, and has no regard for anyone else that is around. She is my bf's sister, and he cant stand her either. She has to make sure she runs the show, and lectures him about school and other parts of his life. She thinks she is his mother, when his mother passed away this past year, and she wasn't really there when his mom was ill, but everything is always "me, me, me". She has said things about me behind my back and to my face, and she turns against my guy, who has enough on his plate already. I have wanted to say something back at her, but Id rather have a pleasant weekend with her than her lecturing or forcing her opinions on everyone. I also want to help my guy out, because she really knows how to be condescending and bitchy, and by the time she gets there, he wishes her gone.

2006-10-25 15:13:54 · 6 answers · asked by overwhelmed85 3 in Other - Family & Relationships