Last night I talked with my so called bf and ask him why are we even together?? We used to live together. We dont anymore cuz I am tired of all his stupid stuff. At times he makes me so mad.. I sometimes feel that he's driving me crazy.He asks if I am the only one that does stuff wrong. Even when I am right about stuff. I have caught him lies and he tells me that I have lost my mind. I told him last night that I wanted him to leave and not come back. He left but like that helped cuz today he came back here and if I dont let him in he acts all crazy like I have another man in my house. Please what makes me want another man when I cant even get rid of him.. He is driving me nuts.. Any opinions????
2006-10-25 15:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by Be wise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
pack his stuff and put it on the curb. if he threatens you, call the police and file a report. then get a restraining order.good luck.
i trust you are serious, don't let him back . he still will act the same.
2006-10-25 15:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say that you and your boyfriend used to live together but, you could not stand him anymore. If you read at what you wrote you would get your answer right then and there. Ask yourself this question why, do I keep hanging in there if we do not get along our life is miserable being together, get a restraining order and do not try to give him another chance because if you do it is going to be the same thing all over again. Good Luck and God Bless you.
2006-10-25 22:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what...It is easy for people to say "just leave him" but it's not that easy. Obvisously you guys really love each other (you once lived together) and it wont be that easy. My advise would be to talk to him first. Let him know what's on your your mind and give him a chance...ONE chance!!! Then if he doesnt want to act right, just distance yourself from him....slowly.....you dont want a stalker on your hands
Best of luck
2006-10-25 22:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by Due Dec23rd...It's a GIRL! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i feel like I'm going through the same thing.Your not the only one.He loves you and that's why he probably acts like that.he probably can't stand the thought of you being with another man and hes afraid of that.But if you guys fight alot and can't reason with each other the best bet is to brake it off or seek some consoling if you and him stay together.You and him should try to listen to each other and explain what bothers you and him to you and try to understand whats going on and work it out.With me I had to brake it off with my lady because she's all ways points the finger at me saying everything is my fault.I try hard to work it out with her but theirs no use.She don't like to admit her gilt.some times you have to think what you do to others and not just what people do to you.
2006-10-25 22:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by Casper77mc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a restraining order on him. Then he will have to stay away, and maybe you can get your wits about you again. Good luck my dear. God Bless.
2006-10-25 22:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship while you can. It will only get worse- speaking from experience.
2006-10-25 22:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked a very good question "Why are we even together?"
The problem is that you asked him instead of yourself.
2006-10-25 22:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb...and don't look back.
2006-10-25 22:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry ...restraining order for one! please! theres your help......
2006-10-25 23:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by Snow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋