Family & Relationships - 25 October 2006

divorce your spouse and you are willing to work on overcoming the spouses affair. After months of seperation and many sleepless nights I don't want a divorce and want to reconcile. He is the one that filed for divorce 3 months ago. What can I do to show him he is still important to me and family and we miss and love him?

2006-10-25 14:45:17 · 14 answers · asked by Octavia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tried some stuff but i cant seem to finish. any ideas that help?

2006-10-25 14:44:31 · 8 answers · asked by mommy2soon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Heres the story, asked this girl out a while ago, a friend told me it wouldn't happen. so i see this other girl, i like her but shes to shy so i got over her pretty fast(not my kind of women).. but then the girl that i really really like(the first 1) well i ask her out again and she thinks its weird that i moved so fast between girls! but the problem is i never moved from her. what do i do????

2006-10-25 14:44:29 · 16 answers · asked by Jakee 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 14:43:52 · 12 answers · asked by ponypuffgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My family lives about 400 miles away from my wife's sister's family. Financially, they are doing very well. We started getting together around Christmas and meeting half way between our homes. They have older children and have taken a liking to a hotel that costs $170 - $250 a room and has a big indoor water park. We have small children and want to be able to keep an eye on them in a less chaotic swimming environment. There are some very nice hotels with indoor pools and water slides that cost more around the $85-$110 range that work very well for our family. This has become a point of conflict for us. My sister-in-law thinks that we both have good jobs and should be able to afford the more expensive hotel. We've told her it's too expensive for us and doesn't meet our needs. They don't want to get together this year and cited our inflexibility as the reason. They also don't want us to stay in two different hotels and get together for dinners and such. Am I wrong?

2006-10-25 14:43:04 · 8 answers · asked by BAM 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

uncomfortable, because he "doesn't want to be a stereotypical male," ...but he loves regular sex. He's only been with two others besides me, and he is sorta inexperienced. I need advice on what to do. I am so hurt and confused! Please no hateful answers, I've been crying tonight. Hateful answers will only hurt more.

2006-10-25 14:42:41 · 6 answers · asked by BOOYAH 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so im 13 and soo in luv wita guy also 13 i wanna go out with him and he flirts wit me and everything but he seems to like me as a friend only...i know im young for dating but hes just so darn cute!!! well now i havnt talked to him in almost a week i actually cried at school today because i missed him so much what do i do to get him to notice me or like me?? by the way hes one of those guys wit girls all around him .. yea hes a pimp but not how he acts...he really cares about people hes not stuck up but how do i become better then the girls he hangs out with?? lol =(

2006-10-25 14:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by amandacupcake 2 in Singles & Dating

If Prostitution were legal like it is in Europe, would you buy? This is for guys and gals alike. In Europe it's actually a career choice and is monitored very closely by the health dept. They even pay taxes.

2006-10-25 14:40:32 · 29 answers · asked by Jim C 5 in Singles & Dating

I have maxed out in answering for the day, so I am asking that someone else try to help the child by answering her question. She goes by the name "Baby V" in Yahoo Answers. Please let me know if you find her. I want to know if she will recieve the help she deserves.

2006-10-25 14:40:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay well has been with her 6 years she has a kid not with him, well they live together have seperate bedrooms he pays all the bills she buys groceries, he says their unhappy, dont talk, sleep alone most of the time,

do you think he will leave her? we have not been sexual or anything or even kissed or talked about it YET....
What should i say TO HIM TO FIND OUT IF HE WILL OR IS GOING TO LEAVE HER???

2006-10-25 14:39:58 · 7 answers · asked by mariaprichard 1 in Singles & Dating

I am sorry I do adore him but for crying out loud he is being abnoxious... I am sure I spelled that last word wrong...
Can anyone relate? SOS!

2006-10-25 14:39:56 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Always 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the thing is i like this girl who is realy hot on the inside she some kind of bad *** girl but on the out side she looks like one of those goody two shoes. its like she has two sides two her and i think she likes me two is this a bad macth im a football jock and am good with the makeing people feel good aout them selves but i also like to party and do pranks

2006-10-25 14:39:32 · 14 answers · asked by gusqb14 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated this girl for about a week. Things ended up not working out - for reasons that I don't completely understand, but she said that she wanted a friendship. I was okay with that (she seemed like a really cool girl) - but she claims to have NO time for anything and makes ZERO effort to talk to me! I'd send her messages on the computer, and she'd be really short with me, and in one instance, yelled at me for being annoying. She never returns my calls. Won't even come out for big events sponsored by our college. She barely acknowledges me when she sees me...I feel like she wants me out of her life and just didn't have the guts to say so when she ended our brief relationship. Should I just forget about her? Right now, I feel like I’m really struggling to bring any meaning to our “friendship” and it feels like we’re complete strangers. We have a history – but if you spent a day in either of our lives, you’d think we didn’t even know one another. It’s so sad.

2006-10-25 14:39:06 · 18 answers · asked by The Rainmaker 1 in Friends

My brother starts arguements and she fights for him and never lets me speak. She constantly tells him she loves him and she calls me a *****. She calls me selfish and spoiled. I never ask her for anything. I buy her expensive Christmas gifts and she never says thank you or if she likes it. She uses the last shirt I bought her to dust furniture. She hasn't hugged me or told me she loved me in so long I can't remember when the last time was. The only time she ever talks to me is to tell me to do something or to yell at me. I'm the only one out of her three children that is attending/ever attended college and she still doesn't respect me. She constantly accsues me of lying and doesn't believe a single thing I say. She even favors the dogs over me. I'm sure most of you will think that I am exaggerating, but I can assure you that I'm not. I'm so afriad of talking to her, I don't want another fight, I don't want to hear her say those things. No one else in the house defends me either.

2006-10-25 14:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by paper face 1 in Family

When I learnt that my husband's daughter from a previous marriage had started birth control pills at the age of 14, I got visibly shocked. Anyway, I politely kept my opinion for myself and told him the kids education was a matter for both him and his ex-wife.
Anyway, the other day he said he ressented me for having 'freaking out' and for thinking his kids was a *****.
I told him I have done enough for keeping myself at my place but that he has no right of trying to forcefully extract an 'approval' from me. I told him my approval is neither important nor necessary, so he should not even matter about it. Anyway it seems he wanted me to say "it is ok, I think it is the most wonderful thing" but it is not going to happen. How to prevent it from hurting us? We are at a delicate phasis after being separated for a while and working into a possible re-start. I am afraid of saying the wrong thing but I dont feel like saying lies either.

2006-10-25 14:38:47 · 12 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Singles & Dating

How do you act sexy without:

1. showing that much skin
2. being easy
3. going overboard

I guess basically, how do you get a guy to stumble over his own feet for you, with you being *subtly* cute and sexy?

2006-10-25 14:38:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a man (husband, partner) had a habit of staring at sexy women, says he will stop staring at them because it hurts you. Could he be for real? ...lol.. I know women won't give looking at other men a second thought if they are really happy in their relationship. However, if a man is REALLy happy in a relationship is he capable of NOT looking at women in a sexy-kind of way??

2006-10-25 14:36:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love my girlfriend. we been together for about 2 yrs, we had a big break up a while back and we got back together, we also have son. i keep on looking at girls. not checking them out. i mean it goes though my mind to go over there get there number or just talk. i feel really guilty, even if i haven't done anything but it going though my head and its killing me. i don't know wat to do. I love my girlfriend and i don't want to break up my family. the reason i broke up with my girlfriend was because she talking to other guys and hiding from me. is it that i want to get back at her or wat. plz help

2006-10-25 14:36:33 · 13 answers · asked by savage_linx 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A man never wanting to admit that they are wrong.

2006-10-25 14:36:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just want some opinions of what you think about having a friend at work if it has a positive or negative outlook?

2006-10-25 14:36:17 · 12 answers · asked by Imhoturjealous 1 in Friends

Well this girl use to be My BESt friend, this year a new girl is in my class, and she will not talk to me or anything, she is so mean to me, i think she is also real jelous of me, She is FAT, and i am not, i think that is another reason!!!! Does she really sound like my friend???

2006-10-25 14:36:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm in college (undergrad) for veterinary medicine, and my mom constantly worries that I won't make enough money (b/c vets don't really make that much) when i get out of school. I've loved animals all of my life and honestly couldn't see myself doing anything else. It hurts me that she would even suggest me going into human medicine or something different. Basically my mom's worried b/c she went into music education and now can't find a job (she quit her job to have kids). How do I nicely convince her that being happy is more important than how much money you make? Honestly, if I couldn't find a job that I loved doing, I would rather die.

And also, she tells me all the time that I need to get out with friends, but I've come to find that I'm much more content just watching movies or doing something by myself or just with my sister. She nags about this too and I wish she'd stop!

How do I tell her these things nicely?

2006-10-25 14:35:15 · 18 answers · asked by mighty_power7 7 in Family

ok my boyfriend gage well we have been going good but he has been flirting with other girls and they have been flirting with him(my bestfriends) and i dont want to break-up with him becasue i like him a whole lot so what should i do?

2006-10-25 14:35:03 · 19 answers · asked by Cami P 1 in Singles & Dating

self with my grandson on a fri and sat nite. I don't want to date online and I don't want todate men younger then me. How do women in my age bracket go about meeting men in there same age brackets without going to the club.

2006-10-25 14:34:41 · 17 answers · asked by Ellen J 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-25 14:34:38 · 6 answers · asked by Mike S 7 in Family

I met this guy the other weekend and he is really nice and all and we have hung out but he is also five years older then me. We both our out of highschool and are older then 18?? What to do

2006-10-25 14:34:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do they know every single intimate detail about you and your past or have you purposely left some things out because you are afraid it might change the way they feel about you????

2006-10-25 14:33:53 · 18 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a boyfriend but i lyk a chick?
ok the chick is my best friend and shes bi and i told her about a week ago that i lyked her but we really didnt talk bout it and i have a boyfriend and i love him 2 death but i love her 2 and i dont kno what 2 do this is really hurtin me cause i dont kno what 2 do HELP PLEASE oh me and my bf have been off and on 4 bout 2 years and he dont really treat me like im his girlfriend i mean we have held hands but nuttin more not even hugged but i cant break up wi him cause i love him and she has a girlfriend right now and a boyfriend so should i juss wait on her and what should i do bout my boyfriend please explain 2 me what u would do so please will yall please help and tell me what u would do please!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-25 14:33:46 · 8 answers · asked by boggabogga 2 in Singles & Dating

Before he left for another country, he called up and told me to join him there soon and that I am not to be naughty and behave. It's just so funny thinking about it. On the more serious side, is he contemplating a relationship with me?

2006-10-25 14:33:45 · 9 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl, but i don't know how to ask her out. i need your help.

2006-10-25 14:33:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating