Heres the story, asked this girl out a while ago, a friend told me it wouldn't happen. so i see this other girl, i like her but shes to shy so i got over her pretty fast(not my kind of women).. but then the girl that i really really like(the first 1) well i ask her out again and she thinks its weird that i moved so fast between girls! but the problem is i never moved from her. what do i do????
2006-10-25 14:44:29 · 16 answers · asked by Jakee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleep with her best friend. That way it's proof you moved on.
2006-10-25 14:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Homer J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are what they call a Player. You should never have listened to your friend who told you that you had no chance with the first girl. You should have given her the benefit of the doubt. But, you didn't and you jumped ahead to girl number 2...then you decide she is too shy for you.....who do you think you are??? You didn't even give her a chance to learn more about you and get over her shyness...then you jump back to girl number 1......no wonder she doesn't want anything to do with you. I hope neither of them ever give you the time of day again!!! It would serve you right!!!
2006-10-25 22:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what you tell her. Tell her that you were discouraged from her original words, so you tried to move on all the while wishing that she would have been interested. Then tell her that you dont want to sit and pout in a corner...that's too ridiculous and depressing right?...so you'll keep coming back hoping she'll have a change of heart. When a person likes someone or something, they seem to come back to it if its possible. Its like a sweet that you'll always want...but your gal is sweeter and no calories!! hehe ;) Good luck!
2006-10-25 21:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that a friend told you , and you believed it, that it would never happen with her. Then tell her that the second girl was not your type. Or you could say that you couldn't get her off your mind so the second girl didn't work out. Just tell her that you like her the best.
2006-10-25 21:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "sorry I didn't think you were interested, and yeah I asked this other girl out but it didn't work out. She's not my type, you are. So just think about going out with me, I'll call you in a couple days or you can call me anytime."
2006-10-25 21:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate ur efforts on her..cuz for girls, we jus dun understand why is it that when guys say they are serious wit one girl or waiting for the girl but they still 'move' from one girl to another..dun give her the wrong impressions..
for now, jus be her friend..make her confortable being around you..after all, if u wanna be wit her u'll surely wanna be comfortable wit her and vice versa..then make ur move when u feel the time is right..dont rush things aight..also take this time to convince her ur serious bout her and u nvr did moved from her..
2006-10-25 21:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by LadyN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You moved on. & now you want back in.
Slow down give her a chance to see if she really wants you back.
Whats to stop her from thinking, ok I take him back today but tomorrow is he going off with another girl.
2006-10-25 21:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...honestly i think you should take your time with her and let her know that you are really into her and want to be with her and that she is not just another girl and your not just gonna become unintrested when you think you've found something better!!!... in order for someone to think you really like them you have to act like it!!!!... really.......
.... think about it.... how would you feel if you lyked this gurl... and you "THOUGHT" she really lyked you too... but this other boy comes into the picture... and she decides... ahhhh... maybe he's cuter than you... se ya!!!!.... yup... thats pretty funked up now isn't it???!?!?!?!?!!?.... next tyme think about how you would want someone to treat you... and do it that way!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-25 21:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by honey_coated_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on... she doesn't want to be with u.. girls won't care tat u move on fast from girls. she just letting u off nicely
2006-10-25 21:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think is that if she realy likes you shell say yes but remember dont beg thats wrong if this is your second time and said no dont ask her again because she is going to think that you are begging her. good luck with that i hope she says yes
2006-10-25 21:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋