ok my boyfriend gage well we have been going good but he has been flirting with other girls and they have been flirting with him(my bestfriends) and i dont want to break-up with him becasue i like him a whole lot so what should i do?
2006-10-25 14:35:03 · 19 answers · asked by Cami P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm ... you should not broke up with him. Do the same thing, show him you are not stupid and depended of him. If u show to a guy that u are depended of him, sooner or later he gonna broke up with you , if not is gonna hit you , take advantage of you etc.
You know the lake is full of fishes , make him understand that. Explore his low points and spoil him. Don't be under his care. He is not your father. You have to show him that he has to respect you , but in diplomatic ways. And if u don't like flirting with other guys, just do it for the sake of making him gelous, don't step over the border with making him gelous. Just a little piece of sour and than a lot of sugar. U know what i mean.
And with the girls ....neah ... don't go kill them or start a fight for that , just be open minded and try to understand why is happening this.If they are your best friends , talk with them , smiling let them know that you don't like when they get in a deeper discussion with your boyfriend. Tell them nicely , cuz for sure they gonna act like u are crazy. So anyway , no boyfriend deserve you to lose a friend. Be smart!Good luck!
2006-10-25 14:49:17 · answer #1 · answered by cuttiegirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young just be a good friend with him & your friends.
After all the flirting is over if you a still boyfriend & girlfriend no harm has been done.
If you are a bit older & feel it is time to be looking for a mate, you should find out if you are the one for him. If you are & he says so then it is time for him to put a side the flirting with other girls.
If he don't then you should start flirting with guys that might find you serious.
If you are older still & you clock is ticking tell him it's now or never baby.
2006-10-25 14:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends what your definition of flirting is. And instead of bringing your concerns up here, you should say something to him. If he blows you off, then maybe you should rethink your relationship. You guys sound young, so ask yourself, are you really thinking this is marriage material? If not, then just move on. It's not the end of the world, and you'll feel better about yourself for having the self respect to not let him or your friends cheat you out like that. Morals, and respect are keys to every relationship. Maybe you should analyze all of yours.
2006-10-25 14:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it, this is common behavior. Men like to strut their stuff especially in front of your best friends. Jealousy is about the most useless stupid emotion on earth but widely practiced. My opinion is that the more jealous you behave, the more likely the person will be to cheat. What has he got to lose if you suspect him already. May as well go for the gold.
2006-10-25 14:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jr high drama.....just invite your best friends over for a sleepover. When they fall asleep freeze thier bras and stick thier hands in warm water so they wet themselves. Then use this as blackmail. Tell them if they dont' stop flirting with your man you have all this on video and the whole school will see it
2006-10-25 14:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should leave him, its clear neither him or your ' best friends" respect you, why would you humiliate yourself in such a way. If he doesn't give you your place in front of your friends, he wont do it in front of any other girl. Besides there is a difference between love and like, I bet he is not really into you, we wouldn't behave that way. Have some pride girl and kick them out of your life, you are worth way more.
2006-10-25 14:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by fire_rain_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should talk to him and let him know that you are not comfortable with his flirting...I would also have the same talk with the so called friends flirting back...Then if the flirting persists...Dump his behind!...If he can't respect your feelings, then he is not worth it.
2006-10-25 14:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Sage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like he doesn't respect ur relationship and is still wanting his freedom with other girls.....He's not committed 2 u yet. If u want a real bf then let him go cos he's not respectful and u deserve better. Choose ur self. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-10-25 14:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept that there are ways he is attractive, probably the same reason you fell for him, and remember what is good for the gander is good for the geese, if he has a problem with that then you got love issues that is well hidden, there is something he loves about you and you hold onto that, fair is fair do not think this is all one sided, been there got that tee-shirt, best wishes
2006-10-25 14:39:43 · answer #9 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to break up. Just do the same thing. You can flirt to can't you?
2006-10-25 14:38:19 · answer #10 · answered by G-pops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋