So here is the story. I met this girl when i was taking a math course at a college in the summer time. I've been talking to her for about 3 months now. She is always bothering me and leaving me little messages on my facebook account and things like that. But when i asked her if she would like to date me she told me that our friendship was way to important and she did not want to hurt me or loose me. Now if that is the truth then why does she send me mixed signals and flirt so much. I mean am i missing something or am i just missreading her. I dont even know which way to move anymore. O and she constantly invites me to visit her. Someone please tell me what i should do. Haha guess im just a little confused.
2006-10-25 15:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by cuteindianjoker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have gone out with her a few times. Like i went out a few weeks ago friday night and we had a blast. And like i said i have talked to her and told her i would like to date her, but i guess she just dint feel the same. She just wont leave me alone sometimes but she doesnt want to move the relationship along either it seems like that to me. So anyways thanks for all the help. Im going to visit her in the next few days at her dorm and see how things go. Wish me luck ( i dont even know why im still chasing after her.)
2006-10-25 16:49:58 · update #1
I think she is just teasing you and getting enjoyment out of it. Don't play along.
2006-10-25 15:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dke 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez man I'd be too!:) jajaja Wish I could help you but even I can't understand the girl.:S jiji sorry
( Hey a piece of advice, move apart for a little time and meet some other girls and, if you still like by then, go back to her and if she is simply confused this will get her jelous and make her realize that she does like you and maybe she'll act a little different, like more interested and then you'll know;)...jeje hope it helps)
2006-10-25 15:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by Delilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, what are the biggest differences between you, now really think about it.....so she must feel that way too.....yet she still likes you.
Give her time, but don't stop looking around for other friends in case it doesn't work out.
Why cut off others when you may not have someone who wants to commit to you....no commitment, no growth!
What do you want?
2006-10-25 15:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she likes you sooo be patient and let it grow.. the chemistry and the trust as well as the comfort. she is flirting so you know she finds things about you that she likes. dont rush it, if it is meant to be, it will be. just stay close to her, do fun things together and flirt back!! good luck!
2006-10-25 15:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by inquiringmind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to be confused. ill admitt it, girls are extremely confusing most of the time.
treat her like you treat all of your other female friends. most likely your relationship with her will just remain a friendship. dont expect anything other than that, you are only gonna get your hopes up.
2006-10-25 15:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just reading too much into things, she could just simple be one of those person who likes to flirt. Talk to her ask her to clear some things up for you.
2006-10-25 15:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by agata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit her down and ask her what she wants from your relationship and go from there. Then you can decide if its right for you and her then..
2006-10-25 15:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by ItalianRose29 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't know
2006-10-25 15:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋