Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

I am planning on asking my wife for a divorce after the holidays and am wondering about other people's experiences. What did you say? How did they respond? Any advice would be much appreciated.

2006-10-23 08:50:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend used to call me everyday and lately he has been giving me the same excuse why he can't (he says that he has too much homework) for the last 4 days he hasn't even called he goes to a different school so i don't see him except for the weekends but this weekend he said that he was going to his uncles house and im not sure if i believe him. on thursday i asked if he was mad at me and he said no. i don't know whats going on or if hes lying or telling the truth. what should i do?

2006-10-23 08:50:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 08:50:12 · 12 answers · asked by humjigwong2626 1 in Family

ok i like this guy and i try my hardest 2 call his attention n it seems 2 not work i even had wear really provocative clothing but nothing does (at least to him but other guys) so as i was saying i really like him so wat should i do some1 plz really help me also should i tell him i like him or wat he is also older than me like 4-6 years so some1 plz tell me wat should i do??????????

2006-10-23 08:50:07 · 25 answers · asked by wendy 2 in Singles & Dating

this guy i've liked for maybe 7 years is my bros best friend. i've liked him since the 2nd grade and is deff that lil' sister crush. but i never see him ever since he moved, but this friday he's gonna be at my house but very breifly, n if he does come, and i do see him (which is unlikely) i would MAYBE have 15 mins of alone time with him....if i'm lucky. but if i do, i want to know what to do. i told him i like him about 2 months ago and i dont know what to do now. it would be so weird to just be like hey how u doin? but also weird to be embarrassed, so what do i do? what do i say? he doesnt like me back, i always knew that, but do i just ignore how i feel? this could be the last time i ever see him....

2006-10-23 08:49:57 · 3 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so everything was going great. We always had a good time hanging out together, and she seemed to be getting serious about me.

Then she suddenly has this big fight with her dad, and gets all stressed out. She got drunk with me down town, when I went to hang out with a friend I hadn't seen in years. I wasn't sure how she would act around my friends yet. She argued with me all night.

And 2 nights later she called me drunk... same thing.

I gave her a pass cause of her dad. But then, she comes out with me and my best friend, and we have such a blast together and it was just perfect. We ran into an old mutual friend. She starts talking to him and he invites us to a party. Sure. Great. I'd love to, except that now, she's talking about how funny he is, and all kinds of stuff.

So she asks me to go, I accept and she calls me while she's getting ready... "I'm almost ready baby, I'll call you when I leave."

"Alright, I'll be waiting on you!"

No call, no show, nothing.

2006-10-23 08:49:48 · 12 answers · asked by Rockstar 6 in Singles & Dating

If you live in the Miami or Coral Gables area in Florida you know the place.
It's this very pretty park on the corner of S.W. 8th street and 57th Ave.
My fiance and I are looking into places that we won't have to pay much for our wedding ceremony to take place. Does anybody know where it is that we would have to call or speak too on this matter.

2006-10-23 08:49:31 · 5 answers · asked by Mari V 1 in Weddings

She on anti-depressants! One day she loves me and wants to marry me, then the Prozac wears off and she hates me and never wants to see me again! How do I know which is her true feeling for me? If she completely stopped the Prozac, would she always hate me? Is it only the Prozac that's making her love me?

2006-10-23 08:49:27 · 10 answers · asked by Fin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My 5-year old daughter was out with her dad this past weekend for his every other weekend visitation. After returning home and being settled in she told me, "Daddy said not to love you." (me inside my reaction WTF!) I told her that can't be true.

I told her that I love her so much and asked her how did that make her feel. She told me that she felt bad and sad when he said that. I told her that I'm happy that she told me and encouraged her anytime something is on her mind to tell me right away. I also told her that I am not mad at her; nor did I show her I was mad.

Still being mad, I'm ready to confront my ex husband about this. I'm ready to chew him off. Before I over-react, is it possible that may be my daught misinterpret him? Perhaps he said, "I don't love your mom"? Regardless the statement, I don't think he should've said that.

After were separated (now divorced), I told my daughter that even though mommy & daddy doesn't live together that we love you very much

2006-10-23 08:49:16 · 20 answers · asked by Cathy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Obviously having a girlfriend or boyfriend cant make you happy....what does. And dont say drugs...ah shitt.

2006-10-23 08:49:08 · 11 answers · asked by DIANA 1 in Singles & Dating

should I consider trying to contact an old love? If we ended on not so good terms a couple years ago...and try and make things right or just like by gones be by gones? Anyones opinion would be appreciated.

2006-10-23 08:48:59 · 13 answers · asked by oxygenO 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 08:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by samatha fox 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do woman (and some men) keep stating that it's impossible to live off of one income? This is ridiculous! It is possible if you aren’t greedy. Now I’m not saying that it’s something that can happen automatically. Some people need to get an education first and then pay off debt. However, that should be the goal. To live off of one income if you are planning to marry or have kids. This question comes from the answers I’m receiving from my previous inquiry: “The Bible clearly states that young women should marry, have children, and keep the house and home...opinions?” The point being that living off of one income is completely possible. People just aren’t willing to sacrifice for a little bit.

2006-10-23 08:48:36 · 16 answers · asked by Julie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a job out of the home and we also run our own business. we have 3 kids and i do all the house work and help kids with homework and run them to sports and cook and he says 1 day he wants me to jsut work with him and the next day he says i dont contribute enough and am lazy. I have lil to no friends. I feel so overwhelmed and so sad. He always reminds me that his work (our business) makes so much more money then I could ever make on my own and that he has more stress than me and I have no idea what stress is. what can I do to make him realize how lucky he is to have me. His mom n my mom will not help me because they says that I should have known better than to get preg. when I was 18. Help me what can i say or do? :(

2006-10-23 08:48:30 · 1 answers · asked by 35yroldmomof3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I bought a Tom Tom navigator, and my brother borrowed it for a day. he has heard it for a week now and his wife was overhead saying they dont know why i need it coz i barely travel and now she uses it in her car. Why do relatives always think they deserve the good things over others!

2006-10-23 08:47:48 · 24 answers · asked by frankie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Other than making you look like a porno star?

2006-10-23 08:47:47 · 30 answers · asked by Dick Richards 3 in Singles & Dating

Looking for women over 18 preferably in 30s 40s or 50s Im just in the final ending stages of a crappy 5 year marriage.

2006-10-23 08:46:16 · 3 answers · asked by serrano_bill 2 in Friends

2006-10-23 08:46:09 · 22 answers · asked by julie s 1 in Singles & Dating

I finally got my partener, out of my house after putting up with his crap for so long, he was abusive, horrible to live with, selfish and a alcoholic.........so why do i feel so bad, he has to go to court for tresspassing, and somehow he has turned it all around and its all my fault. what the heck did i do so wrong?

2006-10-23 08:43:49 · 19 answers · asked by donua1022 4 in Marriage & Divorce

On a couple of occasions i've accidently farted infront of my new boyfriend because i had too much beer(i was sleeping at the time too). Anyway i'm completely humiliated by it enough but he keeps saying little things although he hasnt completely mentioned what happened but he says things like do you suffer with constipation and i felt like dying when he said that. I want to forget about what happened but i dont want to mention to him this embarasing situation,how do i recover from such an embarassing moment.

2006-10-23 08:43:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a coworker who is married and has 1 kid..he is young he s 21..and im 20...well 2 other coworkers have told me that he likes me now i do have a bf and im deeply in love w him.... i want to know how do i know for sure if he likes me..we talk all day bc we sit right to each other.im not intersted in him i just want to know if i should be a lil bit more distant w him, or just continue as normal thats all..thankz

2006-10-23 08:43:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay..here it goes...my boyfriend and i been together on and off for 3 years now.. and when we break up, yah i hang around with my guy friends and he hangs out with his friends...well we've been together for about 9 months with no problems or anything.. and just last night someone told im that i talked to his BoY when we had broken up.. and I really didnt, but that person that did is close to my boyfriend kinda and now he didnt wanna tell me wha he found out bc he didnt know if it was true. and he just now told me and i went crazy bc i dont talk to that guy ...and he believes it but he hasnt asked his boy if i've talked to him! but i mean wat do i do when i havnt talked to that guy and my boyfriend doesnt believe me, i mean thats so mean and now he said ITS OVER.. bc once a upon a time i talked to his friend that isnt his friend anymore and i had told him about it and now he thinks im just lieing bche thinks i did it again! but i really didnt ..what do i do!? what would you do?

2006-10-23 08:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His mum was kicked me out of the house twice,she the one interfere a lots things , such bed time, where am going out with and what time return. Before I moved out there i went out friend don't told her where . she us the to accuse me lier to her son. I can not stand with her moved out she the one to told start it again with him. she have the power to control her son what to do.

2006-10-23 08:43:04 · 8 answers · asked by silly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my girl for 4 years at fist just like any relationship started out great. but for the past 6 months things have taken a turn. I believe in the phrase "treat someone the way you would like to be treated" so stay away from situations that make my girl unconfortable including hang out with girls that are friends because she says "I can tell they like you" so i keep my distance i dont completely ignore them but i dont go out if i know they are going just to make my girl confortable. On the other hand she does the same including going out, in a group of people including a guy who has already confessed his love for her. I admitt it makes me a little unconfortable but i have never asked her not to go out if he goes. she never makes time for our relationship anymore and even yesterday she went to church with his family left a 6 in the morning and came back at midnight because " they went to another co-workers birthday party after and after that they all went to the movies

2006-10-23 08:42:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Have you ever cheated on your girl friend or fiancee' whom you were deeply in love with? And why? Do you expect the girl to forgive you?

2006-10-23 08:42:05 · 17 answers · asked by Britni Gayle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 08:42:03 · 16 answers · asked by inquiringmind 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's awesome, you know. He treats me SOO much nicer than me previous boyfriends. He's really sweet, generous, and SMART!!!!!! I really like him, but there's one problem. He's always hanging around with his friends. I can talk to him when he's around his friends, but not so much as when we're just alone and all (which is hardly ever). I wish I COULD talk more to him around his friends, but i don't want to look stupid in front of his pals. Yeah, I do know his friends, but not sooo much that I can talk to them the way i talk to him. Is that normal? I mean, I'm usually very shy around guys, and he's also shy around me. It seems like when he's with his friends, I shouldn't talk to him, because he will want to be with them more than with me. I can't find a way to talk to him about this, unfortunately. Is there anyone out there who can give me some advice? Please, I want serious answers ONLY!!!!!!!!! Oh, and you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all. Thanks for reading, ya'll!!

2006-10-23 08:41:06 · 19 answers · asked by GrammarFreak 1 in Singles & Dating

Any ideas?

2006-10-23 08:40:37 · 4 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this question is real hardcore but i cant help...How does a perfect and beautiful sex takes place, what are the steps, how it begins and how it ends? i would like to hear the view points both from guys and girls.

2006-10-23 08:39:30 · 17 answers · asked by DoubtingThomas 2 in Singles & Dating

Say you flirted with this girl bigtime for like 6 or7 months. You finally make a move and ya'll make out a couple of times (no sex). You have very intense physical chemistry together and one night you are talking and you tell her that she is beautiful, and not only do you want her physically, but you "like her as a person."
To me this is such a vague statement and could mean several things, so my question is:
Do you think he means that he has some other feelings for me than sexual (not necessarily love-but some kind of emotional connection), or is it more like he thinks I am attractive, but only likes me as a friend?
I really like him, please help me get into the male psyche!

2006-10-23 08:39:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating