Ok, so everything was going great. We always had a good time hanging out together, and she seemed to be getting serious about me.
Then she suddenly has this big fight with her dad, and gets all stressed out. She got drunk with me down town, when I went to hang out with a friend I hadn't seen in years. I wasn't sure how she would act around my friends yet. She argued with me all night.
And 2 nights later she called me drunk... same thing.
I gave her a pass cause of her dad. But then, she comes out with me and my best friend, and we have such a blast together and it was just perfect. We ran into an old mutual friend. She starts talking to him and he invites us to a party. Sure. Great. I'd love to, except that now, she's talking about how funny he is, and all kinds of stuff.
So she asks me to go, I accept and she calls me while she's getting ready... "I'm almost ready baby, I'll call you when I leave."
"Alright, I'll be waiting on you!"
No call, no show, nothing.
2006-10-23 08:49:48 · 12 answers · asked by Rockstar 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She hasn't even called me to tell me what happened. I don't know if she decided she wanted to go to the party without me so she could be with the guy or what. I don't know. I sat and waited for her till 11:00pm and then finally decided to go hang out with my friends. I'm afraid that she had the intention of going there alone all the time. I realized I'm not ready for a relationship, because I'm already getting jealous, and worrysome. I didn't want this to begin with. She's the one who made it happen.
Anyway, I called her house the next day, and her brother said she wasn't home. So I know she left the house. She would have called before she left if she wanted me to know about it. What should I do? Is it obvious she's got other interests? It's funny cause this guy's a loser. He might be funny, but so am I. And I don't beat my girlfriends or go around sleeping with nasty girls all the time. If I find out this is what's going on, I'm going to hunt him down and tear him a new.. well neve
2006-10-23 08:50:03 · update #1
never mind I'll talk about that later... what do I do? thanks.
2006-10-23 08:50:21 · update #2
It's not hard for me... I don't have any problem moving on from her after this. I was just wondering if I should give her another chance if she ever even calls me back... Haha
2006-10-23 08:57:16 · update #3
Kick her to the street.
You aren't overly jealous or anything, you are normal. She is being a total hoosier.
What's sad is that you had to worry about her, not only worry about her messing around, but worry about her safety in general.
Spare yourself the bs and forget about her. There are some descent girls lurking about and I hope you meet one.
2006-10-23 08:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by orangecrate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon dude,face it she aint right in the head,maybe the bed but not the head..I wouldnt touch it until she focused on what she wants otherwise your furure with her is gonna be dismal,dont take it out on the other dude,what would you have done if the rolls were reversed with him(you should be glad this happened before it got really serious..you got a glimpse of your future together.
2006-10-23 09:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like this girl has alot of issues that have nothing to do with you. if you have a bad feeling about your relationship, thats a huge red flag for you. i dont know what kind of life shes had, but i think its safe to say shes not ready to be in a healthy relationship. when a woman is ready to be treated with respect, she'll be with a guy who treats her right, and she will treat him with respect too. this girl may not even really know what she wants. it soudns like shes got too much goin on inside her. i know its hard, but if you want to be happy and have a healthy relationship, you should try to move on because this isnt it. this isnt normal behaviour for a woman who is mature and cares about a guy.
2006-10-23 08:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by faiths13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like she's ready for a relationship either. Your social life sounds healthy, go find something new and try to stay away from the drama.
2006-10-23 08:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by tommyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obiosly she went out with your friend (or at least went out alone) but if you are really interested in him you should talk to her and just let her know you're not an dumba.. and you know what happened and if she really feels anything for you and that you're really sad about it. if she responds positevely say that you just want it to let her know and want to leave it in the past.
But remember:
NEVER UNDERISTIMATE YOUR OPONNENT NO MATTER WHO IS HE OR WHO GEEKY HE LOOKS OR ACTS
(self-experience)
2006-10-23 09:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by e)v1n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he deserves her. She is a loser, a drunk and inconsiderate. Why waste your time, you seem like a good guy. Kick her butt to the curb....
2006-10-23 08:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kendra J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she did leave you hangin, and not in the good way. i'd find someone new if i were ou. she doesn't sound like she's worth your time anyways.
good luck !
2006-10-23 08:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her and her alcohol alone....get you some one who wants to be in a relationship
2006-10-23 08:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by Gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb, bye see ya ... wouldn't want to be ya.
2006-10-23 08:58:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her IN the street.......
2006-10-23 08:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by buldawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋