Okay..here it goes...my boyfriend and i been together on and off for 3 years now.. and when we break up, yah i hang around with my guy friends and he hangs out with his friends...well we've been together for about 9 months with no problems or anything.. and just last night someone told im that i talked to his BoY when we had broken up.. and I really didnt, but that person that did is close to my boyfriend kinda and now he didnt wanna tell me wha he found out bc he didnt know if it was true. and he just now told me and i went crazy bc i dont talk to that guy ...and he believes it but he hasnt asked his boy if i've talked to him! but i mean wat do i do when i havnt talked to that guy and my boyfriend doesnt believe me, i mean thats so mean and now he said ITS OVER.. bc once a upon a time i talked to his friend that isnt his friend anymore and i had told him about it and now he thinks im just lieing bche thinks i did it again! but i really didnt ..what do i do!? what would you do?
2006-10-23 08:43:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what? that took too long, i got bored reading. but thanks for the 2 points
2006-10-23 08:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Boop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a reason he shouldnt TRUST you, ok well dont answer that because you asked the question i see but really if there is no trust in a relationship as i heard then you will not last and if you do as you mentioned that you are OF and ON in the relaitonship, is that really how you want to be with your so called loved one. breaking up is always good and bad to some because either they like to kiss and make up or just want space to do there thing .in my opinion it is not good in a relationship to have breakups . it is either you stay with me or go about your way. now about him believing his friends over you then let him stay with his friends , maybe he wanted a reason to let go or he is really hurt by all this and dont know what to do or even know what to think . tell him "we need to talk" if he agrees to have that talk then get a fresh start and stop breakin up . also confront them both if it helps and he will see who is real in the relationship, either a good lover such as yourself or his so called "friend". after you made his friend look like a fool and still he doesnt take your side then DUMP HIM PERMANTLY ! no need to put up with this ,move on i am pretty sure you can do so.
2006-10-23 16:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by CUTEZY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be hard to do this at first....but I'd look around and find out who else I wanted to date. If issues like this can't be resolved through communication and the trust isn't there, why try to put the pieces back together. Living well is the best revenge...get out there and have fun. Remember...you asked. good luck
2006-10-23 15:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back and try to read that. Honestly, can I get a condensed version with fewer redundant phrases.
Go hang out at the mall and listen to really bad punk music. You will forget about it.
2006-10-23 15:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by dj nkro 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't pay any mind to it... if you didn't do it why worry about it... and if you did so what!! you two were apart and you was not sure what to do maybe you needed a guy friend your ex/bf has no say on what you have been up to... it's not like your going around lookin for dirt on him right to get him back or any thing... so don't worry about it and he might not like it but he has to get over it and move on......
2006-10-23 15:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by lovargirl158 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just typed a huge paragraph of he said she said DRAMA.
Here is the simplified version of what to do:
Leave him.
Except that it is really over.
Take some time to heal your heart.
2006-10-23 15:48:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the immature boy go to the Hell.
What so stupid reaction it is anyway.
Let him grow up on his own.
2006-10-23 15:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain the truth, if he doesn't believe it then he is not that great.
He should not believe his lying friend over you.
2006-10-23 15:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has obvious insecurity issues, be glad he is going , actually you should open the door for him :))
2006-10-23 15:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋