I have a mild form of Autism, my husband is big on respecting him based on how his family treated him. It seems like their are always things comming up that he feels I'm disrepecting him because the things I do he would not do. He gets angry he has thrown thing in anger, hit things across the room, he will tell me to shut up when frustrated or say he doesn ot ******* care when I want to talk about something, he acts in these ways because he feels he is not being respected by me and blames my autism. He tells me he loves me, but because of how he acts to me I don't beleive him,and I question his love.He has become very defensive about telling me what he does, or about his life when I ask. Just yestarday he made a comment and said "There are people out there who DO respect me." He says i have a problem with insecurties and he is sick of it, but I feel that HE has created this insecurity within me. This is a visous cycle and I need help, it seems like everything is about him. and that he
2006-10-23
08:13:49
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