theres this girl that moved to my school this year and i love her. she doesn't have a boyfriend, and i don't know how to say it. i'm pretty sure she likes me, but how do i tell? i mean, do girls EVER tell guys that kind of thing? seems annoying that it's always up to the guy.
ok if u didnt understand taht (i doubt anybody would), heres my questions in english:
1. How do i know if a girl likes me?
2. How do i tell a girl that i love her
3. Do girls ever ask guys out/tell them that they love them?
omg thanks so much
~lovesick
2006-10-23 08:15:22 · 14 answers · asked by Captain Morgan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is unfair that it's uncommon for the girl to do the approaching, but we'll get to changing the world later. Right now, we'll just focus on her. Look, you can either put yourself out there and ask her out or you can just start trying to get closer and closer to her starting at the friend level. Talk to her often in school and try to arrange things outside of school where you two can hang out. Not a date, make sure it's casual. It's just so that seeing each other outside of school isn't alien to the two of you. As you spend more and more time with her you will hopefully get a much better idea as to what she thinks about you. That's if she doesn't straight out tell you. And asking her out on a date would have that much greater of a chance of working if you kept building on your relationship beforehand. On top of all that, if you hang out with her enough it may turn out that you two will naturally progress into something more without ever having to ask that awkward question of "Will you go out with me?".
2006-10-23 08:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are pretty sure she likes you the chances are good that she does.I'm going to assume that you talk to this girl on a pretty regular basis so I would just ask her out.You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.Ask her to see a movie or to go to the mall during the day...whatever you think she might like and go with the flow.Allow the relationship to flourish and when the time is right and you guys are steady then tell her you love her.I'm sure there are plenty of girls that ask guys out but many of us are old-fashioned about it and won't.So take the plunge and get a date with her before someone else does.Good luck.
2006-10-23 15:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by MemnochLady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well girls give litle signs of liking guys not big ones. If the girl flirts with you then she probaly likes you. And since she doesn't have a b/f maybe she is just waiting for you to ask her out. As far as telling a girl that you love her just be point blank about it............just tell her. Or get her a card and some flowers and tell her you love her. O and yes girls tell guys they love them but very rarely. That is more of the guys job to do that. Hope this helped.
2006-10-23 15:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by curlyque08 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ill answer your questions backwards girls do ask guys out but we are sure that they like us first whatever you do do not tell her you love her she will think you are crazy and a stalker and never speak to you again. If you want to know if she like you then walk up to her and start asking questions about things in general and then get to know her then go in for the asking out when you feel her vibe
2006-10-23 15:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Drea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, it depends on the girl. Not all girls are forward when it comes to sharing their feelings, and most of all, when someone just comes up to them and tells them "I love you" just out of the blue. You can't just go up to her and say "I love you." It would freak her out. Do it right. If she doesn't ask you out, ask her out. And don't be telling her you love her on your first date either! Give her time. If you guys keep going out, say, give it maybe a month or two, (mostly reccommend 3 months) then you tell her you love her. Unless she tells you first, then you answer her back (But only if you really feel the same.)
2006-10-23 15:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe if you bacame friends with her first you may get a hint as to whether or not she likes you that way but really if you like her so much you should go for it don't wait around just because it isnt fair that guys always have to do the running
2006-10-23 15:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by Naomi N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can read every thing in her eyes if she loves u or not first talk to her about love read her feelings
i think u should tell her directly say ( there is a simple sentence i want to tell u from the first time i saw u . it is very simple ((I LOVE U)) )
some bad girls tell guys but real respected girls never does that
tell her ur self .......... good luck
2006-10-23 15:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by sanita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her you love her till you have been dating for a while.
The only way you can tell if she likes you is if you ask her.
Only some girls ask guys out.
All girls will tell you that they love you if they do.
2006-10-23 15:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by looking1964 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can always tell that a girl likes you by the way she smiles and looks at you. No matter what everytime she sees you she starts to smile. 2. You have to get to know her. Just let her know from your heart don't be scared, she won't. I know you have the guts. 3. Yes bold, girls like me do that. Usually its always the girl that tells the guy that they love them.
2006-10-23 15:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Careatha 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
DO NOT TELL HER YOU LOVE HER, she WILL freak out believe me! Try spending time with her and get to no her and then go with the flow. Action speaks louder than word!
2006-10-23 15:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by laChick 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋