Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

back I came to know that my wife had developed a friendship with somebody,she used to call him 10 to 15 times a day for hours and used to send tens of messages everyday,this I came to know when I enquired her cell phone records.She went to movies with him. She used to email me everyday detailing everything accept about this person. Now when I confronted her with details she just ignored everything saying it was just friendship nothing else but this reply hasn't been able to give me peace of mind though its over 6 months. We are parents of 2 kids and I want them to have best of everything so we are going to stay together for sure but I am completely clueless for myself. One important thing which I forgot to mention that I had told my wife that I didn't like her talking to him(though she spoke to him just once in front of me) when I visited home for 5 days during my assignment. Now I constantly feel that I have lost that magnet which I had for her. Will anybody show me some light please?

2006-10-23 08:04:38 · 14 answers · asked by toppopsy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know they definately aren't the same, and that there are a few differences.. but I don't exactly understand where the lines are drawn and the more subtle differences.. Any input on this would be appreitiated.

2006-10-23 08:03:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How should I go about confronting him?

2006-10-23 08:03:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have this friend like my best friend, and everyone keeps asking if we are going out, one guy is even teasing us about it and making lots of teasing remarks, what should i do??

2006-10-23 08:02:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When we die will we see our family again?

2006-10-23 08:01:56 · 10 answers · asked by ash_welling 1 in Family

Any suggestions?

2006-10-23 08:00:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some good Christmas gift ideas for dads, brothers, and granddads? What would a dude want. Nothing crude or vulgar please. Stay around a $20 limit.

2006-10-23 08:00:33 · 6 answers · asked by laceyjd18 3 in Family

2006-10-23 08:00:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oke my niece has just got her pierod and she is asking me for for help but i dont know how to handel it cuz ive never done it before she wont talk to her mum i dont know why can u all help plz???

2006-10-23 07:59:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do I do he says he still loves me and that he cant live with me and said he still wants to have sex with me is it unlawful too

2006-10-23 07:59:16 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its like i wanna move on from my past but it seems like i cant..its so hard...........

2006-10-23 07:58:54 · 13 answers · asked by Lek V 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 07:57:58 · 7 answers · asked by aaaah 2 in Family

2006-10-23 07:57:48 · 5 answers · asked by bracer402006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Earlier today I returned to my old job to return my uniform. Since I would no longer continue working there. After I returned my uniform I sat down in the cafeteria eating some chips and drinking a soda. One of my former co-workers (a male) started talking to me about his wife and how he is planning to celebrate his anniversary when the co-worker I had ther biggest biggest crush on walked by. He stared at me while I was talking to my old co-worker and walked off. Since I told him I was leaving the job, he already knew, and since I flirted with him, I figured he would of also known that I liked him. After realizing he wasn't going to approach me I stayed in the cafteria for a while hoping he would approach me and say something, but he didn't. So now I have no way of contacting him and I will no longer be returning to that property since I have no reason to and since I no longer work there. So should I feel bad for not telling him I liked him, or should I move on.

2006-10-23 07:57:15 · 9 answers · asked by Liza J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it true that more often than not you cheat just for the thrill of it, you're not getting something at home, whatever other reasons are out there and that you have no intentions of leaving your wife or hurting her with the truth? And can you honestly carry on with this affair and still go home to your wife everyday and act like she is the only woman for you and still lead a normal family life? Almost like having a "split personality"? The reason i ask, is cuz i have recently found things that suggest my husband is having an affair, but, the way he treats me, you'd swear we were newlyweds. Just curious if cheating men can really live 2 separate lives? And in defense of the good guys, yes, i know women cheat, too, but that is not my situation, I am not married to a woman.

2006-10-23 07:56:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That they would go as far as destroying their own family and trying to destroy his own child's life. If everything was normal while they grew up - he grew up in a very wealthy household. Went to the best schools, best jobs. Married the perfect wife - had the perfect baby . . . but then he lost his mind. How does that happen?

2006-10-23 07:56:43 · 7 answers · asked by Clio 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would you do

2006-10-23 07:56:15 · 14 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Singles & Dating

I dnt hv any guy m8s and all my girl friends r hving sex alredy bt i feel lyk a freak cz iv neva evn been kissed. itz reli embrassin and itz ruining my lyf. There's a few guys i lyk bt i jst freeze up around thm and im reli scared that they'll b reli xperienced, plz help!

2006-10-23 07:56:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do

2006-10-23 07:55:52 · 26 answers · asked by jamale f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have always been a fast talker, but lately I have noticed that I am studdering a lot, like getting stuck on words. How can I slow down, speak clearer and be better at conversations?

2006-10-23 07:55:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If you think it is okay to be two different religions, what religion to you raise your kids as?

2006-10-23 07:54:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 07:54:31 · 24 answers · asked by jmiller21502 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy at work, he has a bit of a whistle and i say hello, in a week we make contact for 5mins but he is nice i like him and he likes me but could anything serious come out of this, i have been told to flirt but i am very shy, shall i give his mate my num? also for the rest of the week he will be out with his mates and sh***ging probably girls wot would you do?

2006-10-23 07:54:18 · 6 answers · asked by peglit_1234 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm scared to death because i think that my brother is very likely to commit incest against me, but i'm not sure

should i get a restrainig order?



please help me!!

2006-10-23 07:54:06 · 8 answers · asked by Local 1 in Family

A guy is in a nightclub and he sees a girl he really likes. This guy is really shy and really wants to go up to her and talk but he doesn’t know what to say. You can say “Hi” but what do you say next.

2006-10-23 07:53:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My GF and I are sepperated at the moment. The way things are, she is seeming less and less interested in getting back together. We have a 3 year old daughter, and I still love her very much. Should I just wait till she makes up her mind, or just move on since she seems to be leading me on while she tests the waters?

2006-10-23 07:53:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 17 and my girlfriend might be pregnant... in fact im pretty sure she is... she refuses to get an abortion. And im not going to be some asshole and leave her. help me please?!

2006-10-23 07:53:01 · 17 answers · asked by The Captain 2 in Singles & Dating

i think im in love, my ex is out of the country and i still talk to him, i start dating him about 6 years ago, but i still have conversation with him, i call him, he calls me, he saids he loves me, and i feel the same way, but i only know one person that knows him and can give me info about him, she told me, he lives with a girl on his parents huouse, so i asked him, but he saids thats a lie, thats no true...

so i think im confused, i dont know that girl that much, she's my sister's friend?? wat should i do?? belive in him or not. i relly think i love him and when he says he loves me,he sounds really honest,

help me!!!

2006-10-23 07:52:47 · 1 answers · asked by crazygirl123 6 in Singles & Dating

My mother-in-law is a multi-millionaire and I am not. What is a good Christmas gift for someone who has everything?

2006-10-23 07:52:28 · 3 answers · asked by Courtney C 2 in Family

ok my x-boyfriend( who i was with for 3years) kept calling (after 5-6months of break up) me to say that he has changed, he really loves and misses me! we went for coffee few times after.it took me few months to find out that he has changed a little bit, as soon as we slept together everything just cooled off, he felt like he didnt have to try to be nice anymore, and became totally careless!!!! why men are so difficult to understand, yet easy to read?

2006-10-23 07:52:22 · 21 answers · asked by mojjooon 3 in Singles & Dating