am i confused??

Question

i think im in love, my ex is out of the country and i still talk to him, i start dating him about 6 years ago, but i still have conversation with him, i call him, he calls me, he saids he loves me, and i feel the same way, but i only know one person that knows him and can give me info about him, she told me, he lives with a girl on his parents huouse, so i asked him, but he saids thats a lie, thats no true...

so i think im confused, i dont know that girl that much, she's my sister's friend?? wat should i do?? belive in him or not. i relly think i love him and when he says he loves me,he sounds really honest,

help me!!!

Answer 1

Well...would you consider talking with the girl in question? Maybe she can help you shed some light on this. Firstly...and it may be hard...but you have to consider that he may not be telling the truth. Just b/c someone says they love you doesn't mean they are being faithful! My ex husband constantly cheated and always denied it until I would confront him with the truth. You have to protect yourself. Especially wtih him being out of the country...don't allow yourself to be foolish. I happen to believe that long distance realtionships CAN work but only if the couple have made that commitment. Don't allow yourself to get all caught up in the moment and be lead on! Find out all the facts and don't just take his word for it. You have to guard your heart! Trust yourself to make the right decision!