I dnt hv any guy m8s and all my girl friends r hving sex alredy bt i feel lyk a freak cz iv neva evn been kissed. itz reli embrassin and itz ruining my lyf. There's a few guys i lyk bt i jst freeze up around thm and im reli scared that they'll b reli xperienced, plz help!
2006-10-23 07:56:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you got plenty of time, dont worry about it.i sometimes wish i would have took things slower. i love my daughter, but i was a mom at 16. its hard.
2006-10-23 07:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by supermomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO that is not weird! Sex is not is cracked up to be. You may not be dating "yet" but that is only because you are either a late bloomer, or so darn cute, they already think you have a boyfriend. I didnt date any boys in my highschool until after I graduated from highschool. Later on I found out that everyone always thought I had a boyfriend. You know what, have fun with your friends, be friends with the guys! Its a lot of fun and when its all said and done, your gonna be having a better time then your girlfriends and all their drama with the "boyfriend" and on again, off again relationships!! "You'll be in college soon, a whole new ocean of fish. Good luck and have some faith, its in God's time not yours. He is saving your special guy for just the right time in your life.
2006-10-23 08:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by abc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, learn how to type properly. Second of all, if you're 16, you shouldn't be worrying about it. 16 is still to young to be having sex. Would you like to be a mother at 16? WOuld you like to have AIDS or HIV at 16? Would you like to be full of STD's at 16? Until you are old enough to fully comprehend all these questions, don't worry about it. Stay abstinent.
As for freezing up, try talking to them on the phone first, then move it into person to person. That helps for most people. You are more comfortable when the other person can't see you. When you can't see the other person. Try that, and don't be in such a rush to have sex.
2006-10-23 07:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Allycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sixteen is not exactly old to have not kissed. You have nothing to be embarrassed about. You are also safer than those girls, since you will not get any diseases that come from being promiscuous.
If you want to meet a guy, just talk to him like you would one of your girlfriends. You do not need to do anything fancy.
You do not have to have any relationships now. Let yourself develop confidence and once you believe in yourself you will find the right guy rather than just any guy.
Take care,
Troy
2006-10-23 08:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, sex isn't just something to have with whoever! It should be with someone you care about. Your only 16 years old and you have all the time in the world to find that special someone. Just because your friends are doing it doesn't mean you have to be. Be your own person!! Consider yourself lucky because I'm sure that your friends are getting hurt by lots of guys, and if not they will. Just be patient, your special someone will come along.
2006-10-23 08:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not that weird. I'm a 16 year old guy and have never been kissed. There is no need to rush it. You should wait for someone that you really like. And for talking to guys really don't worry about what you say because guys will listen to waht you say if they like you. As long as you don't say something that horribly dumb. Good Luck.
2006-10-23 08:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Damien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think learning how to spell should come first before thinking about kissing or sex.
Look I never had sex until I was 25, and I did it for te sake of having sex and I always regret it. It is not worth having sex unless you plan to become a nympho.
2006-10-23 08:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok...the girls who are your age having sex are the freaks...when you guys get a few years older, guys will want you more because you have respected yourself enough to wait... ...as far as kissing...that will come naturally one day maybe soon...and maybe not... ..whats special is that when it does happen, it will be with someone that you really have feelings for and not just some random guy like all the rest of the girls... ...trust me, the guys they are sleeping with are not saying very nice things about them behind their backs and if they say something weird about you its because they are trying to see if you are easy or not...dont fall for the peer pressure...you are better than that...good luck to you
2006-10-23 08:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about that. i know what it's like to feel like the only virgin in town. but you're not. evenif you've never been kissed, it won't matter. But no this, when you find that one person who deservers your first kiss, it's possible that you'll never have to look for another guy, cuz he could be the one, don't rush into something that seems like you're doing it for all the wrong reasons. do it cuz it feels right.
good luck!
2006-10-23 08:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's OK. Don't worry about it. Guys are only interested in sex at this age. They aren't interested in 'real' relationships/love/commitment...the girls who are dating now are only going to get hurt. They're just being used.
I say worry about grades, get into a good college, & marry a doctor. That's all that really matters in life. You need to prioritize.
2006-10-23 07:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just sound shy. it will be OK. be careful and make friends. kissing will come and relationships. find true friends and good people. good luck to you. never being kissed yet or being a virgin are not bad things. at least you have respect for yourself and your body. there is no real reason to go crazy with sex stuff. be yourself and good luck to you.
2006-10-23 08:00:33 · answer #11 · answered by Ginnykitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋