My GF and I are sepperated at the moment. The way things are, she is seeming less and less interested in getting back together. We have a 3 year old daughter, and I still love her very much. Should I just wait till she makes up her mind, or just move on since she seems to be leading me on while she tests the waters?
2006-10-23 07:53:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You already know the answer to this...move on. Don't wait and sit back for her to realize what kind of man you are. Care for your daughter and when the time is right, you'll find the one who is deserving of you.
2006-10-23 07:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by blueeyeskenai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her, you would move on. If you wait and get back in a relationship with her, you might have a trust problem because of what she is currently doing during your seperation. Seems to me she really doesn't love you as much as you love her because she is still searching. Don't look at it as giving up on the relationship but making your future more promising because a woman who can't make up her mind, is usually a woman that is just wasting your time.
2006-10-23 07:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kendra J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Create a stronger position.
By that I mean keep working, get in the habit of saving money into your bank account, and pay off your debts.
My guess is that your girlfriend doesn't know what she wants.
That's not so bad, because we all go through a stage of sorting out our priorities.
My advice, as above, is to prepare yourself for changing circumstances. It may be that from time to time your girlfriend needs to call on you for support. As the childs father that is your duty.
Your romantic life should be a separate concern. At the moment, all I can see in what you wrote is that your girlfriend is trying to keep a line of communication open.
2006-10-23 08:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only person who can answer this question. Deep down you know what you should do. I think you need to step away from the relationship, and do some soul searching. I'm not saying to step away from your daughter, you still need to spend time with her, but keep the ex at a distance until you know what you want.
2006-10-23 07:58:18 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd probably sit her down for a talk. I mean you have to discuss what's going to happen seeing how you have a 3 year old as well. If she says she wants to be free and date around so be it that means it's time for you to move on as well. But you've got to at least then figure how to deal with your little one. Visits and such I mean. Good luck to you.
2006-10-23 07:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, focus on your daughter the h*e*l*l with her mother she's just buying time so she can do what is other wise called cheating by staying separated. She knows your a good man but wants the best of both worlds don't allow yourself to be her door mat!
2006-10-23 08:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should 4get the ex but never let go of your little gurl try to take her to court to get full custody or at least half where ya'll can have a father daughter relationship!! Your little girl needs you!!
2006-10-23 08:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by baby_gurl1492 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on !
Make sure you can visit your daughter & be a part of her life.
YOu derserve some on that love you for you.
2006-10-23 07:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on...but give her child support and get visitation rights to your child.
2006-10-23 07:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her your moving on and once you do your not turning around your tired of waiting on her and its time to get a new girl friend
2006-10-23 07:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by buggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋