I'm 17 and my girlfriend might be pregnant... in fact im pretty sure she is... she refuses to get an abortion. And im not going to be some asshole and leave her. help me please?!
2006-10-23 07:53:01 · 17 answers · asked by The Captain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm glad you aren't planning to be an asshole and leave her. That's very rare and honorable. She needs you. Stand by her and face your responsibility. At your age the best solution may be to put the baby up for adoption, but if she really wants to keep it then be the best dad you can be for him/her. It doesn't mean you have to marry her, or be "chained" to her for life, but you do need to be there for your child. If you split later on then do it in a way that you can remain friends for the kid's sake and stay involved. You need to be honest with your parents and get at least a part-time job to help with expenses. I don't think I need to tell you to be more careful.
2006-10-23 08:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u were man enough to sleep with her than be man enough to take responsibility of her and the baby. Also don't be forcing her to get an abortion just deal with it, it is not the baby's fault. Im glad ur not going to leave her. The only right thing to do is to stand by her and comfort her through this because im sure she is also confused and scared.
2006-10-23 07:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Expecting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow, yes you are young but everything has a way of working out, it will be hard but keep your head up. If she is in fact pregnant remember you are now a parent and need to act as one there is a baby know involved with most choices you bth make. Good luck
2006-10-23 07:57:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't leave her just be there for her she is going through alot right now she needs to know that your there for her and your gonna be there for your baby!! If you don't have a job get one and at least one of you needs to finish high school and get there diploma. Find an apartment, or a house to rent. Start planning ahead it will help you trust me. Good luck with your life. It's not as bad as you think!
2006-10-23 08:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by baby_gurl1492 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is achievable she is pregnant. the only thank you to correctly known for particular is to take a attempt. no count if it is unfavorable and he or she nevertheless hasn't started then wait some day and take yet another one. If that one comes up unfavorable, then she desires to flow to the scientific expert to make certain. classes could be strange specifically circumstances and there are othere factors that could reason you to omit a era, yet rule out being pregnant first.
2016-10-02 21:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, dude, if you're not gonna leave her, then stay with her. What's the question? Both of you screwed up big time. Learn your lessons for the future, is all I can say; now that you know how babies are made, you might start thinking about using birth control.
2006-10-23 07:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but there's not much help you can get from anyone whats done is done all you can do is step up to the plate and take care of your child even if you don't want to be with your present girlfriend.
2006-10-23 07:59:05 · answer #7 · answered by serenity86love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to help with. You need to finish school and get a job. That's all there is too it. Step up and do what you need to do. You guys should've known the consequences of having sex and now you have to deal with it. Good luck, man.
2006-10-23 07:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by yblur 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing anyone on this board could say that would help you. You are up sh*t creek and it will be a long haul for most of the rest of your life. Good luck.
2006-10-23 07:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! I'm 28 and married and don't even have kids yet! Well....only marry her if you truly love her, don't just do it for the baby. If she can, have her carry the baby full term and then give it up for adoption. You guys are way too young to be raising kids!!
2006-10-23 08:13:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋