What do I do he says he still loves me and that he cant live with me and said he still wants to have sex with me is it unlawful too
2006-10-23 07:59:16 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Chances are he still loves you more than you think. maybe he wants his cake and eat it too.
Ty this cut him off and don't give him a nichels worth of time and see if he doesn't come running back to ya.
Pure speculation here but I don't think he really wants a divorce and if you don't maybe things can be worked out.
additionally next time he comes over, if that is what he does start getting all dressed up looking lik your hot self and then walk out the door and say your going to meet someone.
that will get a response out of him, and if he still cares he won't let you walk out the door without a million questions and I promise you he profess his love over and over.
If he doesn't then go threw the divorce if you want it as well
2006-10-23 09:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have filed for divorce then there should be no sexually contact at all between both parties.
Is your self-esteem that low?
Why should he still be able to enjoy your body if he can’t live with you?
It seems to me he is just making sure he has a back up plan in case single life does not work out like he hopes.
Why become his fall back plan?
Leave him.
Have little contact with him.
Never be alone with him.
Make sure that you get everything you derive from your divorce settlement.
You put in the hard work of being married too.
Let your heart heal.
Date again.
Find a man that loves you for you!
Good luck
2006-10-23 08:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ryce Queen 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly who petitioned whom???...and more importantly, what are the grounds for divorce?
If either of you used the reason of Adultery, and the consented to have sex with the other...that action is treated as an act of forgiveness and the order for divorce becomes null and void (according to the laws governing your particular state).
If the latter holds then it could be a ploy by him to get the upper hand.
If that is not the case, then it may really be a case of wanting to eat-his-cake-and-have-it-too!
Why divorce then hunt each other down for sex...maybe you should both reconsider???
2006-10-23 09:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by tabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him what a divorce means. It's the end of a marriage, which means no more sex, and that you are moving on. Stop answering his calls, that is if you want to continue the divorce. Ignore him, he'll eventually go away. Also, if the lawyers and judge find out that you've been having sex, they will dismiss the divorce.
2006-10-23 08:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlawful? Who gives a $hit if it is or isn't. Btw, it isn't. If he wants to have sex with you still then you, as an adult I assume, need to decide if you want to have sex with him or not and do whatever it is you want to do. If you decide to have sex with him, but continue with the divorce, you're not doing either of you much of a favor. I suggest you separate yourself from him as best you can if you don't have the same kind of feelings for him as he obviously does for you.
2006-10-23 08:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. The fact that the two of you are divorcing would lead me to believe that either one or the both of you were unhappy. If he enjoyed sex with you so much why didn't he treat you better when you were his wife? Have some respect for yourself and don't let him use you for sex like you were some cheap piece of whatever. You tell him that he has two hands and he can use those! Stay strong!
2006-10-23 08:12:51 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you feel ? If you have filed for divorce then it must be very serious problem between you two.
If he wants to have sex, you should say NO under this circumstances. But if you feel like having sex then go ahead. Nothing is outlaw or lawful. It is up to you.
2006-10-23 08:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by dotab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you like the question I am going to ask you is why is he filing for divorce one minute and wanting sex the next. I would have a very long talk with him and ask him why?
2006-10-23 08:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you file for divorce then? Change the locks and get over it. It's not unlawful, but it is stupid - neither one of you can move on.
2006-10-23 08:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by theophilus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlawful to have sex with your husband? No....
He wants to keep having sex with you because he's a MALE.
2006-10-23 08:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋