I have 3 teenagers and I am looking good, I am 35yrs old and look 21 and my boyfriend of 4yrs wants to have a baby, he is 24 with 2 kids of his own but wants one with me. I am so upset but cannot hurt his feelings because I do not want anymore ever... What should I do?
2006-10-23 08:05:29 · 6 answers · asked by Kendra J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't want anymore children then you shouldn't feel forced or pressured into having anymore. It is your body that will be going through the drama of being pregnant. I would just sit him down and be honest with him. Don't lead him on in any way. Be honest and let him make the his decision from there. And when you talk to him be specific and don't hold back. Tell him exactly how you feel, maybe at the end of it he will have a good understanding of why you don't want another child and make sure he understands that it isn't because you don't love him... That might be what he thinks if you just say "no I don't want to have a child with you"
2006-10-23 08:09:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bringing a child into this world as a "present" to your boyfriend??? Give me a freakin' break - that's the most selfish and stupid thing I've ever heard. If your boyfriend doesn't understand that you don't want to have any more children, and 5 kids (between the 2 of your kids) isn't enough for him - tell him to take a hike and find someone else to shoot his seed into.
2006-10-23 15:13:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should express your feelings to him and let him know "Hey we already have 5 kids between us and maybe we should just chill for now". or if you really love him and you plan on being with him the rest of your life then what the heck...........have another baby the more the merrier
2006-10-23 15:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have to do whats right for you. if you dont want any more kids you have a right to refuse, just as if he wanted to end the relationship because he wants mores kids, he has that right. you need to come to a resolution. feelings will get hurt but if its not in the cards for either of you, then thats the way it goes. i have one daughter and i dont plan on having any more, but thats just my personal preference.
2006-10-23 15:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't willing to compromise on this subject. Might as well give him the opportunity to knock someone else up.
2006-10-23 15:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Platinum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound really hot!! but to your question just tell him that you do not want any more that you like your life as it is right now
2006-10-23 15:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋