Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

Why does our society teach us that during sex, the female is "giving up" something to the guy, when it's really the guy who's literally giving up something? Why does it have to be "special" for women and they should have to save it for someone special, even though men are encouraged to have many sex partners and not feel guilty about it?
This angers me, as I believe women should enjoy sex as much as men, and not have to feel guilty or ashamed.

2006-10-23 09:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i think, i feel like i have found true love!! all i think about is him, i cry because i miss him so much and i will never be as close to him as was! wat should i do? he is not happy with his gf and he tells me he still loves me and always will!

2006-10-23 09:20:08 · 14 answers · asked by u'd tap this! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 09:19:52 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for the past two years and we have 5 months old baby me and my husband we both love each other but my husband is not a very talkative person at all, I notice when it's time to talk about his family he tries to change the subject or pretends he is busy that time, it seems like he doesn't want to talk at all about his family why is it so?? Is there something wrong in his family? tough I don't like his family at all because they people are very rude, mean and they don't care about others feeling. His family looks wierd to me. what is making him being less talkative about his family? any ideas?

2006-10-23 09:19:08 · 16 answers · asked by hondolkk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like does it smell? Can you get rabies or mono?, etc. I am 12 years old and I want to have my first kiss soon. Thanks a lot!

2006-10-23 09:19:01 · 29 answers · asked by Gyan Asamoah 1 in Singles & Dating

I find myself needin a "little extra room" lately.

2006-10-23 09:18:43 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Let me explain, I know you won't get too ahead of the game as to say I'll marry the next guy I date, but if you date him, is to get to know him, and that takes time, and what else for do you wanna know this guy but to know if you're compatible, if you like him enough to try a relationship, and why would you try a relationship with someone if not to marry him. Or do you get in a relationship just to have fun? I misled a girl recently and I wasn't clear about my purpose which was have a good time, I was a total jerk with her and I honestly regret it, she's very nice and I'll burn in hell, if not I already am, I even dream about her and wake up feeling awful so now I'm scared to meet women, I don't wanna do that EVER again, that wasn't fair for her. Please don't limit to answer but comment about the subject, Thanks, oh and please state your age

2006-10-23 09:18:26 · 12 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Singles & Dating

my guys sister is seriously a work from the devil! for almost 3 years she has said every evil lie about me you can name, not only this but she seems to try to talk about me to other people when they come around. she is 22 years old with two children, shes not doing anything special just sits at home. but shes always looking at what i have on, or looking at me when she think i aint looking. im just wondering why she bothered get into me and my guys buisiness so much? things that have nothing to do with her she tried to stay in it!

Now i dont speak to her or her guy, i say hello to her kids and things like that, but when their frineds are around im in the back room, or gone somewhere. but now it seems like shes still looking at me and her boyfriend is doing ir as well? please help!
I AM IN COLLEGE AND WORK TWO JOBS, AND PPL LUV ME AT SCHOOL SO WHY SHE USE TO MAKE UP LIES, OR WHY SHE HATE ME

2006-10-23 09:17:32 · 17 answers · asked by uabgurl22 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex broke up with me a few days ago, and I know she's checked my MySpace profile to see if it still says I'm in a relationship, which it does.. and it also still has a pic of us up.. she hasn't changed her profile yet either.. Should I change mine to single?.. or wait it out to see if she comes back? :(

2006-10-23 09:17:31 · 13 answers · asked by Chuck 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 09:16:51 · 34 answers · asked by moemoe p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 09:16:37 · 4 answers · asked by just me 2 in Singles & Dating

If cheating makes you A beter lover and a better man all around is it wrong. What if having a mistress erases a big portion of your marriages problems and relieves a chunk of stress from both sides. Your wife and kids are happier and you have become the man and father your family has always wanted. Is it wrong if you still make your family your number 1 priority. If your family never knew why tell them or her. Is it not most important that they are happy and why ruin it by confessing and make it worse.

2006-10-23 09:16:10 · 6 answers · asked by moemoe p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This just make my blood boil....why do some people think they have some God given right to pass judgement on others? It's none of your business why I work full time, it's none of your business how one couple, single Mom, single Dad or gay couple for that matter, pay their bills or raise their families. Until you have been in their shoes...shut your mouth.

2006-10-23 09:16:07 · 16 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl in my biology class who im not sure likes me or not. what are the signs that i can look for to tell whether she is interested or not? plz HELP. and if she does drop those signs how can i drop a few of my own signs that i like her?

2006-10-23 09:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by cool boy 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 09:15:52 · 17 answers · asked by Borlax 3 in Family

If cheating makes you A beter lover and a better man all around is it wrong. What if having a mistress erases a big portion of your marriages problems and relieves a chunk of stress from both sides. Your wife and kids are happier and you have become the man and father your family has always wanted. Is it wrong if you still make your family your number 1 priority. If your family never knew why tell them or her. Is it not most important that they are happy and why ruin it by confessing and make it worse.

2006-10-23 09:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by moemoe p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do any one love there life

2006-10-23 09:15:21 · 8 answers · asked by Ms vanilla light skin thick chix 1 in Family

I have met the most wonderful guy....the problem is with his ex wife. I recently found out that the ink on their divorse papers has only been dry for a few months althought they were separated legally for a year or so......I know I have strong feelings for him and he says that he does for me but the X keeps comming up trying to mess things up.

2006-10-23 09:15:11 · 5 answers · asked by jai04609 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 09:14:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Or is your friends and family the best in the world.

2006-10-23 09:14:30 · 8 answers · asked by mystic red knight 3 in Family

2006-10-23 09:14:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years.we have been through a lot of stuff a married couple would go through.yet everyone around me is getting married except me.i ask him and he says when the time is right and just to wait. i have been waiting he has bought me a 1 carat promise ring.he knows i do not believe in being engaged for years before marriage.so my question is why do i feel like my clock is ticking and need to get married soon?????.i am 26 will be done with my BA in 2 years...but it is still ticking....help

2006-10-23 09:13:57 · 16 answers · asked by Amry 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 09:13:33 · 15 answers · asked by volkswagenf 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister's birthday is this saturday and I dont know what to get her! Me and my mom were going to get the fourth season of gilmore girls but it was 60 bucks and shes already getting a cell phone so my mom doesnt want to spoil her. Shes 11 years old really girly and loves funny things. Help!!

2006-10-23 09:13:13 · 4 answers · asked by Caroline H 2 in Family

I am wondering you think he likes me? he always talks to me and shows off?

2006-10-23 09:13:11 · 1 answers · asked by cagal_968 2 in Friends

their both extreems on the spectrum of emotions. but one is deemed bad and the other not. seems strange to me, i feel that love and hate are the same things love and hate both drive people to do ilrational things. so how is love anymore right then hate??

2006-10-23 09:12:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 09:11:57 · 2 answers · asked by MIKEY 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

in drag???

2006-10-23 09:11:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you think its possible to be friends with someone of the opposite sex if you once had feelings for one another but you have both moved on??even if they feel like your soul mate??

2006-10-23 09:11:54 · 26 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i want to tell her to stop but i still want to be friends what if she gets mad help me!!!!

2006-10-23 09:11:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends