Why does our society teach us that during sex, the female is "giving up" something to the guy, when it's really the guy who's literally giving up something? Why does it have to be "special" for women and they should have to save it for someone special, even though men are encouraged to have many sex partners and not feel guilty about it?
This angers me, as I believe women should enjoy sex as much as men, and not have to feel guilty or ashamed.
2006-10-23 09:20:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm with you... i believe women should be able to enjoy sex as much as men do... and i believe a lot of people feel this same way. one thing i dont agree with you on. is that it's not "society" that teaches us that sex is only for men to enjoy. it's other men. they think it's cool for men to have as many sexual partners as they can, but when i woman has more than 1, we become hoes or whatever. they are snakes... well.. not all of them, but a vast majority.
2006-10-23 09:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by evil_bitch_with_attitude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you. Women are always looked down upon for just having fun and enjoying sex just like men do. I think it may have something to do with the old days when men were very dominant. They could practically do anything they wanted...even if they were married. Women always had to do everything for the men. Women weren't allowed to have many sexual partners because the men wouldn't allow that. Even though the men were allowed...
2006-10-23 09:27:28 · answer #2 · answered by wendylynn1009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, why does the president over our whole country blatantly mis-pronounce the word "nuclear" on national tv?!
Because of stupidity and arrogance.
That's your answer.
Sex should be between two people and only those two people; no one else. It should come from love and be done with love.
Guys should be taught differntly about it. At this day and age if they are not then you should bi+ch-slap his parent(s). I can see this in the 'olden days', but NOT today.
Women don't give up any more or less than the guy does. Yes the guy kind of 'gives up' something, but both parties should enjoy it and feel good about sharing it with just that one special person in their life.
2006-10-23 09:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be angry if you like...but the bottom line is... you don't bleed and have pain your first time. A woman does...so in a sense she is giving something that can only be given once.... and thats why it is special.... It doesn't however mean that women can't enjoy or shouldn't enjoy sex as much as a man. It does mean that the first time should be with someone special...someone unlike you!
2006-10-23 09:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. Women are sexual beings and have needs that should be met. If you are a sexual women people think you are a whore. Women should enjoy sex.
2006-10-23 09:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay ! Is this a question or statement ?
2006-10-23 09:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋