If cheating makes you A beter lover and a better man all around is it wrong. What if having a mistress erases a big portion of your marriages problems and relieves a chunk of stress from both sides. Your wife and kids are happier and you have become the man and father your family has always wanted. Is it wrong if you still make your family your number 1 priority. If your family never knew why tell them or her. Is it not most important that they are happy and why ruin it by confessing and make it worse.
2006-10-23 09:15:22 · 11 answers · asked by moemoe p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no because your being unfaithful and if 5haggin some other lass is putting your wife and kids 1st then you seriously need help
2006-10-23 09:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you imagine that you are the man your family wants you to be? I know that you need to rationalise the extramarital affair but dont you think maybe that was over the top? The only person this affair is making happy is you. I can almost guarantee that when you least expect it the whole thing is going to blow up in your face. When your wife finally finds out I want you to come and let us know how happy you made her. Sorry pal I dont buy that cheating makes anything better you have betrayed your wife, your children and yourself and deserve whatever fate awaits upon your wife finding out about this.
2006-10-23 09:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one.. i feel that what i don't know won't hurt.. if my husband was or did cheat and i never found out and me and the kids were his number one priority.. i actually think that it would prob make my marriage happier.. when we were separated i was dating someone and then we got back together and was dating both and my husband was happy, i was happy and my side piece was happy.. but i stopped and kinda wish i didn't..
on the other hand if she finds out she will be hurt.. did you ever try to get her to bring another female in or even a couple.. that is what i am trying to get my husband to do..
2006-10-23 09:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by SweetOne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... definitely not. How are your wife and kids happier with you cheating? It can hurt your family BIG TIME if you continue to cheat. You should either stop now or break it off with your wife so she doesn't waste her time. Not trying to be rude but it seems you're thinking only of yourself here. You don't necessarily HAVE TO admit it but if you do want to keep your family .. stop cheating! ;) GL and have a nice day.
2006-10-23 09:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're happier betraying your vows while risking an STD and unwanted pregnancy when you're using another person's body for your own gain, then I guess someone like you is going to think anything is OK. Though I don't see how this makes you a better man.
2006-10-23 09:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a skeeze. Anyone who cheats doesn't deserve love. Your totally betraying your wife, and the vows you made when you married her. You think your making it better right now, but wait until you "mistress" is unhappy, she'll f*ck everything up more than you would be telling the truth.
2006-10-23 09:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So lets say your wife feels she is a better mother and wife if she gets to screw around with her hunky male friend. Does that sit well with you ?? I dont think Ive ever heard a more selfish question than this one.
2006-10-23 09:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's wrong, that's a lame *** excuse to be cheating on someone , she's not gona be happy if she finds that out. how do you sleep at night ? that's horrible of you. Sounds like you have yourself convinced it's making you a better person, that's sad.
2006-10-23 09:18:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a question of ethics? If so, that is a personal decision. However, you must also consider the feelings and ethics of your spouse.
2006-10-23 09:19:47 · answer #9 · answered by Uncle Meat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with her she will eventually find out and divorce you dont screw up you marriage remember your vows cmon man
2006-10-23 09:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋