If cheating makes you A beter lover and a better man all around is it wrong. What if having a mistress erases a big portion of your marriages problems and relieves a chunk of stress from both sides. Your wife and kids are happier and you have become the man and father your family has always wanted. Is it wrong if you still make your family your number 1 priority. If your family never knew why tell them or her. Is it not most important that they are happy and why ruin it by confessing and make it worse.
2006-10-23 09:16:10 · 6 answers · asked by moemoe p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you need a mistress to ease your marital problems and "make you a man" you should not be married and what kind of man are you really. What happens if you catch Aids, herpes etc. and bring it home to your wife... what then??.. If you are cheating you are not making your family your number on priority you are making your dick number one priority and you should be single and free to do who you wish. You should confess because she deserves better... Obviously you don't love your family that much anyway.
2006-10-23 16:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by LovePotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never would it be right. There is no situation I know that this wold be acceptable to anyone but you. Even you would soon feel guilty. Place yourself in your spouses place and say they were doing it to you. How would you feel when, and I said when and not if, you found out about this extra curricular activity. It always come out in the open sooner or later. Your mistress will want something down the road. Now she may just want sex but later she may want you and then where will your family be when she goes to them and spills to truth? My advice is to end it now and be happy with your family. If you aren't happy, divorce your wife and go at it.
2006-10-23 09:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answers,but do what you want,if you dont feel guilt,then do it,but if you loved her then you wouldnt do this because her happiness is really a lie that you created by holding this behind her back,she trusts you and your spitting on her
2006-10-23 09:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not a man at all.If you were you wouldn't need all the extra curricula activity to perform like a man.
2006-10-23 09:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by don_steele54 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my books, cheating is never OK.
2006-10-23 09:27:23 · answer #5 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reverse the situation, would you let her do this?
2006-10-23 09:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Joe S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋