i want to tell her to stop but i still want to be friends what if she gets mad help me!!!!
2006-10-23 09:11:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my friends are doing that to my crushs' friends too! idk how to make them stop.. but mostly theyre asking his friends to ask him.. she totally wont get mad.. i was just like stop asking andrews friends if he likes me.. and she stpped.. so hopefully everything works out for you
2006-10-23 09:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by ariel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LoL, my first instinct was to tell you that you're friend is being mean. However, if you two are good friends, chances are she knows this is what you actually want. Your situation gets attention from her, and you get some (attention, lol) from him. It's pretty important to note that you said "crush", which are usually harmless puppy-love feelings, so it's not like the guy knowing your dirty litte secret is earth shattering! If you really didn't want your friend to do what she does, you'd have told her. I mean, if you can't be honest with your friends, you're clearly NOT friends.
Like I said, I think you like it: you don't like when it's being done, but you prolly like the after-grins and chuckles. Go with it. This friend is creating a hella memory that this guy you may very well forget in two months time cannot give you.
And if I'm absolutely wrong, than stop being a baby and tell her off. She'll be back, or may not even leave if she's a friend. But I really think the reason you've let it go on is because you like it.
Hope this helps!
2006-10-23 16:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by joesaytodo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you appreciate her "help" but you'd like to speak to him yourself when the time is right. Just because you are friends doesnt mean you cant have disagreements. She might get offended but if she is really your friend she'll probably get over it.
2006-10-23 16:15:07 · answer #3 · answered by AGNY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, tell your crush that you are sorry that your friend keeps asking him and its not your fault then ask your friend nicely
2006-10-23 16:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by cagal_968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a spine and tell the beotch to back the hell off!!! She is not worth keeping as a friend if she is pulling that crap.
2006-10-23 16:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a true friend then she shouldnt get mad if you just let her know that you dont agree with her asking your crush if he likes you
2006-10-23 16:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that you don't need her to worry about it anymore. make it out to be like...'if he likes me, he knows how to get ahold of me' no need to pressure the subject because of lot of guys don't like that.
do you think maybe she might want to know because she might have a little crush herself?
2006-10-23 16:14:36 · answer #7 · answered by michellewho11582 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
it depends on how old u are because if u r old enough to date go up to him and flirt
p.s. my friends and i did that in like 6th grade
2006-10-23 16:14:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't react when she bring up she talk to him or give her someone else to help
2006-10-23 16:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel-a true friend will respect that
2006-10-23 16:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by Annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋