my guys sister is seriously a work from the devil! for almost 3 years she has said every evil lie about me you can name, not only this but she seems to try to talk about me to other people when they come around. she is 22 years old with two children, shes not doing anything special just sits at home. but shes always looking at what i have on, or looking at me when she think i aint looking. im just wondering why she bothered get into me and my guys buisiness so much? things that have nothing to do with her she tried to stay in it!
Now i dont speak to her or her guy, i say hello to her kids and things like that, but when their frineds are around im in the back room, or gone somewhere. but now it seems like shes still looking at me and her boyfriend is doing ir as well? please help!
I AM IN COLLEGE AND WORK TWO JOBS, AND PPL LUV ME AT SCHOOL SO WHY SHE USE TO MAKE UP LIES, OR WHY SHE HATE ME
2006-10-23 09:17:32 · 17 answers · asked by uabgurl22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all of these answers deserve a 10 thanks so much everyone!!!!!!!
HI FIVE!!!!
2006-10-24 02:14:27 · update #1
It sounds like shes jealous of you. Wow! she's twisted to be acting like that with her brother. I would talk about it with your boyfriend and maybe even confront her about it in front of him. In a calm mature way of course. If your boyfriend doesnt back you up and you cant take it, let him go! Nobody should have to deal with that kind of BS. and if he had a backbone he should be sticking up for you and letting her know that she needs to stop acting like a fool.
2006-10-23 09:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Aries 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She must have a psychological problem or something?If she's not doing anything and you're doing a lot, maybe she's jealous?Maybe it would help if she had other things to focus on?And I don't mean for you to tell her or else she'll get meaner and say that you're acting high and mighty!But maybe for your guy to help out.You need to discuss this with him since it is his sister. I'm assuming that you all live together from what you wrote so maybe she also resents your presence because you're taking away maybe financial support that could've been hers?
It would be a good idea for her to see less of you, I think, so she can find other things to think about.If you don't address this problem now and do something, it might affect your relationship with your guy in the long run.So better discuss with him.
2006-10-23 09:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by ivy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people must just get off on being nasty. Unfortunately you may be your own worst enemy when it comes to her & her ilk. She must somehow know that all she has to do is glare at you, & she's pushing your buttons. As long as she can get to you, then she's going to keep on getting satisfaction from it.
The choice is now up to you as to how long she will keep it up.
Once you get the better of her game, then I am sure that she will start to show herself for the immature little brat that she is, by taking it up a notch. When she does, don't fall back into her control, because you WILL HAVE HER. When she starts to bring her attempts to control you up a few notches, that is the time that you must keep your cool because now you are the one in charge. You don't say anything, or do anything except sit back & smile & watch her dance to your tune for a change.
Once she realizes that she's lost her control over you, she'll quickly tire & move on to the next victim that she can bully.
Just remember, no one can have control over your feelings or emotions unless you give it to them.
2006-10-23 09:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous PERIOD. Let your man know how you feel. If she can't respect you then she needs to keep her *** at home. Keep your head up keep doing good, because a lie will fade but the truth will stand always. That sista is unhappy with herself so she tries to bring you down with her. Control your own feelings don't let her feelings control you. When she is angry can you feel it? So why let it bother you. Keep doing good, an keep quiet about all of you personal problems that way she can't use it against you and tell your boyfriend to do the same. Silence kills people they hate that.
2006-10-23 09:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 01:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets see A>she could be jealousB>she knows this bothers you and she gets a rise out of it or C>your letting this bother you way to much,after all other than being your sister,who the hell is she and is it your life or hers,just let it go and feel sad that she (and I use the word SHE!!!)made the choice to hurt you and remain seperated from being caring and loving,its her choice and no matter how hard you try you cant change it unless she wants to,so let it go..it'll still suck but is it really important,at least for you(not her)
2006-10-23 09:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by stygianwolfe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. The same thing happened to me. My now sister in law acted the same way when my husband and I were dating. I just had to ignore her and not let it get to me. I am not going to lie...it did get to me and hurt my feelings. You just have to get to a point that you either ignore her or say something to her. She was just really attached to her brothers and every new girl in the family got treated the same way. Sorry you have to go through it.
2006-10-23 09:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Pea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds to me like have a serious hater on your hands. Only someone who wants to be who you are or have what you have would commit her life to making you feel so bad and speak on you every other second. Obviously you are the more mature and important person because she has to take a few mins out of her life to check on urs ; see what you wore today, how you are acting, making sure she has somethin to say about you. You are important enuff to make someone take time out of their so called busy day to take notice to yours Kudos for you mami
2006-10-23 09:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by MiSS RiCH & FamOUs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and fore most, his sister is jealous of you, because it sounds like yall around the same age and you are doing something with your life, and she is sitting around making babies, and the boyfriend probably wants you to, thats why he stares, but do your boyfriend say anything to his sister in your defense.
2006-10-23 10:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by Teaza19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what others think of you. You have to love yourself and then other can't hurt you. She is just jealous seems when people talk about you they are trying to make them self look good but really they have low self esteem.
2006-10-23 09:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by JOYCE S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋