2006-10-23 09:19:52 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't change the way you feel about him (or her?)--- try to find ways to distract yourself, meet other people, hang out with friends and family- and eventually, you will stop thinking about him so much and maybe even move on. Don't really move on though until you are ready to. You will always love your ex'es- its just a matter of how you use your experience to apply to your future. All of my ex'es have a special place in my heart, i do love them and wouldn't want to see anything bad happen to them- but i am not IN LOVE with them.
2006-10-23 09:22:55 · answer #1 · answered by Earthy Angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away, he is an ex for a reason. If you stay hung up on the past, you will never be able to move on. You may still love him but it takes more than love to sustain a healthy relationship.
2006-10-23 09:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by takeisha_03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am asuming here that you mean Agape love. That genuine love is forever. It is that love which we are admonished to love your god with all your might and power and, love your neighbor as yourself. However, if it is the 'popular' lustful love that often leads to sin, then you gain your life by avoiding persons, occasions or places that can cause you to sin. Your true romantic love ought to be reserved for your husband. In case of a husband, the only (spiritual) ground for seperation is divorce. Don't straddle the fence. Contact him if the relationship was wholesome and won't lead to sin. If the so called 'love' for him is the type that will lead to sin, then stay very far away from him. You are precious to your heavenly Father and let no man/woman tarnish your relationship with your loving heavenly father.
2006-10-23 09:33:42 · answer #3 · answered by JoeJames 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex should stay an ex. They say an ex is an ex for a reason.
You'll find the right man for you someday...I did after 15 years of hell.
2006-10-23 09:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will still love your ex for a long time, but in tile you will be able to deal better with the feeling of loss...
2006-10-23 09:24:19 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends, did you break up with him?
If he still likes you try your best to get back together without playing the desperate ex-girlfriend. Talk about how you feel.
If he doesn't like you and broke up with you, you'll just have to get rid of your feeling and move on. Talk to a friend or family member to get through it.
2006-10-23 09:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about how you feel- you may aswell, i read a great saying the other day- Shoot for the moon, even if you miss u'll land among the stars..tell him or move on and remember you had him once you can have him again!! Hope that helps... :):)!!
2006-10-23 09:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell315 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T be friends with him!! I have an Ex who still loved me and when she FINALLY stopped being friends with me b/c she knew she would never stop loving me, it hurt me really bad to loose her... Now no one is happy.
2006-10-23 09:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by beau0021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and let him know how you feel (in whatever way you feel comfortable doing it) because u may have too much pride to spill out your feelins for him like that, bein that yall are over..but like i said, let him know and if he doesnt feel the same try to move on, thats life..u go with diff ppl to teach u lessons in life..if its meant to be yall will get back together, if not you will find the right person
2006-10-23 09:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think it over because for some reason the relation was ended. i guess it's better for you to evaluate your self and try to look forward on your future life , may be the new love is closer to you than you are guessing
2006-10-23 09:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋